It’s no secret that practically all men like blowjobs…and you might even say the climax of a good BJ – right before ejaculation and orgasm – is the deep throat. If you’ve ever tried to improvise a deep throat blowjob before, you’ve probably, well, gagged your way through it. And maybe cried, vomited and hacked your way back to normality.
In other words, it’s not something that comes naturally…you really do have to learn how to do a good deep throat! Unfortunately, it’s not the kind of thing they teach in college…er, at least officially, as part of a curriculum. It’s the sort of thing that’s passed on from friend to friend and lover to lover.
First, understand that it’s not necessarily about being a marathon deep throater who can constantly gag for minutes on end. It’s not necessary…men just want the deep throat every once in a while so they can get the full impact of their Best Blowjob Ever Experience.
When you’re ready to give him the best Christmas present he’s never going to ask for, remember these 12 tips, straight from the “professionals” who’ve been there.
1. Spend some time getting to know him (or his thing) before attempting to deep throat.
Enjoy setting up the BJ with foreplay, very light licking or stroking, and then get to know his penis. Figure how far you can get it down WITHOUT gagging and figure out what you’re “comfortable” range is. Now stop when it gets to be too much. Recover, breathe, and get used to the feeling.
2. Relax your throat. Enjoy the experience, no stress or forcing it down.
When your throat is relaxed it’s easier to take a man in for a deep throat technique. After enjoying giving a blowjob and learning your own “comfort zone” then try to ease on down and take a little bit more into your mouth.
3. Focus on deeper breathing.
Steady and deeper breathing will help you survive a good deep throat and come back for more without pain. Remember when you go for that bigger swallow, take a deep breath before you take it in. The WRONG time to breath is when he’s already in your throat. Practice diaphragm breathing (the deeper breaths that you feel, which expands your belly) to get better control over your inhaling and exhaling.
4. Experiment with head positions.
It’s perfectly okay to choose a different position instead of the old “kneeling-at-his-feet” routine. In fact, lying down or choose another comfy position will only help you to find the best head angle for a deep throat. You’re looking for the position that provides the least resistance. Generally, you’re going to take him as close to the bottom of your throat as possible but remember that the closer it comes, the more you will want to gag. You might find that pushing the penis head against the back of your throat (as opposed to actually swallowing the shaft) as you breathe in, will be less likely to cause a gag reaction.
5. Take him when he’s growing.
If you really want to make it easier on yourself, don’t deep throat him when he’s completely hard…deep throat him when he’s soft, semi-hard or just growing. It’s easier to do it while he’s not “cocked and loaded” at 100 percent, but instead 20-50 percent.
6. If you’re having trouble breathing, open your mouth wider to get an extra breath of air.
This is especially important if your boyfriend or husband is well-endowed. Learning his size and the way it feels, and taking in as much as comfortable in the beginning, is all part of “training yourself” to go deeper. Don’t force it down, slowly take more until you’re comfortable and then adjust your mouth size and inhale timing.
7. Don’t “suck” at blowjobs. Seriously, don’t suck too hard.
You’re wearing yourself out if you suck and deep throat too hard. Relaxing your jaw is more important for a good deep throat maneuver. The whole idea of the deep throat is to move up and down and let your tongue do most of the work, so that you’re not sore and worn out one minute into the experience.
8. Pace yourself so that you can control the “tempo” and avoid gagging.
You’re more likely to gag if you let him control the tempo and he goes at it fast and furiously like most guys tend to do. What really helps is to explain to your guy that YOU need more control over this perfect BJ experience so that you can deep throat him properly. He needs to sit back and let himself be pleasured, not “give” pleasure by face-pounding you.
9. Align your throat, mouth and head in a “line” shape.
It’s much easier to take in a man’s penis if your “in line” – the head leaning back, the throat and the mouth. This creates a straight line. One way it can be done is to put yourself on the bed, lying on your back, and with your head slightly off the edge while he stands in front of you.
10. Use more saliva and pre-swallow before you deep throat.
This is part of “getting accustomed” to his raging hard-on before attempting a deep throat. Make sure you have plenty of saliva and then push the tip into your throat only a little at a time, SWALLOWING to help get it down.
11. Combine the deep throat with other maneuvers, you know, for a “breather.”
Remember that if you get tired or gagging, you can always take a breather. Spit him out and suck on his head again, or lick his shaft until you’re ready for more. Use your hands or even your breasts to stimulate his shaft while your jaw recovers. It should be one part of the overall Greatest Blowjob Experience. Many women are surprised to learn that it’s NOT that easy to breathe through your nose when he’s down your throat. You do have to pace yourself.
12. Cheat and Win!
Another technique that will help you survive a “marathon” blowjob will be to “fake deep throat” him and to use this move whenever you need a break from the real thing. This technique involves you covering the back of your throat with a tongue shield. He pounds against your tongue rather than your throat. This is a great move to try when he wants to penetrate your mouth and control the tempo. He wants to feel the arousing he sensation but of course…as you know by now, you’re the one who creates the master deep throating experience, not him!
These 12 tips will go a long way in pleasuring him and dare we say teaching him just how a really good blowjob is supposed to feel.
The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys a Man’s Love For You And Drives Him Out Of Your Life
There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…
It usually comes out as an honest question when you want to connect with him…
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It can take a man who is filled with love and passion for you…
And make him feel cold, distant, and uninterested…
Have you figured out what it is yet?
Many women send this as a text message when they’re feeling insecure…
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