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The Strangest Thing Men Desire (This Can Make Him Crazy For You)

The Strangest Thing Men Desire (This Can Make Him Crazy For You)

Have you ever felt attracted to a guy without knowing why?

Maybe you’ve even had feelings for a man you’d rather not be attracted to.

Why does this happen?

How can you fall in love even though your conscious mind resists it?

Experiences like these hint at the hidden world driving our romantic desires. That hidden world is all about emotional reactions. Emotional reactions we don’t consciously control.

Here’s the truth: falling in love is not something we choose.

It’s more like getting thirsty. You don’t choose to get thirsty. You just notice it. And the stronger your thirst becomes, the harder it gets to ignore.

What if I told you there is a kind of relationship “thirst” all men experience? A kind of thirst that’s impossible for him to quench on his own. Would you like to know what he’s so thirsty for?

To skip straight to the answer, check out this video that reveals how you can trigger his thirst for something he needs and craves. Plus, I’ll show you how to ensure you are the ONLY person he depends on to satisfy this powerful longing.

Here’s why the man in your life can’t tell you what he craves most from his relationship with you…

… He’s embarrassed to admit the truth. And that’s because admitting to this desire actually moves him farther away from the goal. Here’s why…

Okay, picture a woman who feels frustrated that her man never does anything romantic. She finally breaks down and explains her desire to feel romanced and pursued by him.

But he acts like she’s being unreasonable, demanding she name one thing that’s missing from the relationship. So she gives him an example. “It would be nice to get flowers once in a while. Just simple things like that.”

The next day, he brings her flowers. But the magic of this gesture is missing. Because it doesn’t feel special to receive flowers when you had to ask for them.

It’s kind of like that with men, only with a completely different sort of relationship need. You see, men have an insatiable thirst for your admiration.

But he can’t ask for it.

He can’t say, “Julie, I really like you, but here’s what’s missing in our relationship. You don’t admire me enough. You seem to have greater admiration for other men in your life, and that makes it hard for me to picture a future with you.”

He can’t say that because men believe you have to earn admiration. Asking for it is like trying to become popular by announcing you are a cool person. It doesn’t work like that.

He’ll only feel like your hero when you speak the language of admiration. He has to read it between the lines of what you actually say and do.

Now, you might be thinking, “That’s not so crazy. I can understand why a man craves admiration.”

But if you’re thinking that, there’s something very important that you need to understand about men…

It’s not just that they crave admiration. It’s that he can’t sustain that “in love” feeling without it.

Nothing kills a man’s attraction faster than a relationship where he doesn’t feel needed.

He wants to see himself as a provider, it’s a hard-wire, biological drive of his. Someone who is admired because of his ability to provide.

Here’s how it works: if he doesn’t feel needed, he feels like less of a man; emasculated. And that turns off his romantic drive.

And the worst part? You can’t just give him admiration.

It only works if he believes he has earned your trust, admiration, and respect.

Now here’s the good news: It’s both fun and easy to let him earn your admiration once you know how to set him up for success.

Just find ways to let him be your hero. Now, I should mention there is actually an art to doing that in a way that makes him crazy about you.

But I’ve seen women wrap a man around her pinky using this simple concept. As a relationship coach, I have seen what works and what doesn’t. But what it all comes down to is this…

You need to trigger something called his “hero instinct.”

Accomplish that, and you’ll be astonished by what happens next. He’ll become so loving, so attentive, so much more interested in a committed, long-term relationship, that you will never want things to go back to the way they were.

The hero instinct is a subconscious drive to gravitate toward people who make him feel like a hero. But it’s amplified in his romantic relationships.

Some ideas really are life-changing. And for romantic relationships, this is one of them. That’s why I’ve created an online video presentation so you can claim this secret as your own.

Because triggering his hero instinct is one thing. Learning how to do it over and over again requires a few tips and tricks.

The fact is this: Most women don’t need someone to rescue them. Especially in this day and age. Yet here’s the ironic truth…

Men do still FEEL like they need someone to rescue. Because it’s built into their DNA to seek out relationships that allow them to feel like a provider.

This one tiny difference in male and female genetics creates a BIG difference in what attracts men to the opposite sex. He feels drawn to any woman who allows him to step into the role of a hero. Because his instincts naturally cause him to thirst for that role in a relationship.

Here’s what’s cool about this… He won’t even know why he feels so drawn to you. Which is why you can use this method under the radar. It triggers attraction at a subconscious level.

He’ll feel the undeniable tug on his emotions. But if his buddy asks him why he’s so crazy about you, he won’t be able to put it into words.

There is a hidden world driving our feelings of attraction. No doubt about it. But we now have the power to see one powerful part of that hidden world. And it’s something you can actually control.

It’s not something only chemists can see, like blood levels of the bonding hormone, oxytocin. Rather, it’s something you can see all around you, once you learn to spot it.

It’s a pattern of interaction between men and women. Something relationship experts have always known to exist, but something they failed to recognize as the powerful trigger it is. A trigger that drives his thirst for companionship.

How do you use this trigger to build passion and romance?

Well, the easiest way to trigger his hero instinct is to translate your desires into a language that speaks to his natural drive to be a provider. His desire to serve, love, and protect. The desire to be someone’s hero.

If that sounds like fun to you, click here to learn more about this relationship enhancement tool. It’s something you can learn once, but then use for the rest of your life.

You already have needs and desires. Why not learn how to translate those desires into requests that trigger his hero instinct?

Then relax into the warmth and passion he is only capable of showing once a woman has triggered his hero instinct. A woman who knows exactly how to satisfy his thirst.

Talk soon,

Matthew Coast

P.S. It’s no secret that a man’s ego has a powerful pull on him.

In fact this hardwired need to impress and to WIN is so deeply embedded into the male mind…

That nearly everything a man truly desires is based around this biological “drive” to prove, succeed and to win.

It’s why so many men become workaholics, gym junkies or become obsessed with their hobbies.

But what most women don’t know…

…is how deeply this “drive” is connected to his love, desire, and attraction for the woman in his life.

And I’m about to show you how you can “tap into” a man’s ego to refocus that same drive and gut level obsession…

…on pleasing you, romancing you, and proving his love for you like you’re his sole purpose in life.

Here’s how:

Click here to watch the video <<

 

 

 

22 thoughts on “The Strangest Thing Men Desire (This Can Make Him Crazy For You)”

  1. Dear Matthew
    How do I keep from messing up a relationship? I’ve been married twice and divorced I learned both times what went wrong and my mistakes now I’m in a relationship and I’m scared to mess it up and sometimes I think I have.Tim and I both are older and married twice Tim is a single dad of a 21 year old son I have a 28 year old son and a granddaughter.So I’m not a young lady but I don’t want to end up heart broken again

  2. Hi im 41 married 2 and divorced 2. I have met someone that I really admire and we are crazy attracted to each other. But the attraction seemed to diminished on his side because I have my own house, car, career and he lives with his parents which is kool with me. Now he Says he wants to be friends and isn’t sure if he is ready for a relationship, but his actions say something else.Help with this indecisive man.

    1. He is testing your commitment boundaries and will bend them until he is in control – love yourself and life brings to you what you love – at the moment your enthusiasm is being reflecting back at you – love yourself and your love for you will be reflected back to you from the right love

    2. I get it Sofia. My situation is similar. I was shocked when he exited. After all, I have all the qualities that I am seeking in a man —problem #1 —He is not seeking a man —problem #2—I had no idea what I was doing wrong until I did my research. Wow, the things our mothers never told us is beginning to change my life.

  3. I thought men like indepedent women now seeing thing different that they need to provide what if his not providing how do i make him to start to provide

    1. Start small. Give him an assignment. Errands, grocery, gas in the car , for starters. And then tell him how good he did and it was just what he needed. Drop hints on what you like or need. When he gives it to you, gush over him for listening to your desires. Know he knows to listen to you and how to please you. It works

  4. Tasia L Brooks

    How do I keep that going when I don’t have anything for him to rescue me from? Also, if I turned him off, how do I flip that switch again if he thinks I cheated on him and wants me to admit to it even if I hadn’t. Also, how do I spark his hero switch if he thinks that I cheated on him and won’t let that go? He says if I just admit to it that we can start anew, but I don’t want to admit to it for the sake of admitting to it when I didn’t do anything to him and have it be a trap. Both me and the guy that he accused me of cheating on him with are in agreement, but he claims that guy told him that I had cheated intimately. I still want to flip his hero switch, but I have this problem in-the-way.

  5. If he is accusing you of cheating maybe you should ask him who he cheated on you with. Generally when men insist that you cheated it’s because they have a guilty conscience so they throw the blame elsewhere.

  6. I’ve been dating someone 10 months. I can be doing some projects & he’s on his I Pad looking at you tube. Never even looks at me or asks if I need help. If I say something is heavy for me to carry I’m too girly. I’m 68!
    I’m watching TV & he’s turns on You Tube with volume. I’m I crazy?

  7. Sharon nafuna

    Matthew have tired but have failed to get his attention image his ever online but he can’t reply me or am enforcing him to love me what can I do coz have tired I rily love him.

  8. I have been with my guy for years we do not live. Together. He’s a sweetheart. But for some unknown reason. Lately. He’s been Distracted. N unavailable. I think he’s lost interest. I will appreciate any help or comments I tried no contact. N I also tried asking him to help. Move my outside Furniture. He did help
    Me but acted as if it was a Bad job.

  9. Kerry and I have been going out for two months and I had to open my big mouth about my ex’s who are my friends. Kerry has self esteem issues how can I get him to see that I don’t want my exes but him. He thinks if I hang out with my guy friends I’m going to leave him. What do I do.

  10. Most of the complaints I see above, signal some incompatible nuances. I’m 65, married and divorced twice, with children from my first marriage. I have since then been in other long term relationships and yet they fail. Today’s men seem to be looking fiercely for commitment, but want freedom to roam. I’m successful in business (a nurse), I teach HIIT classes (yes, at my age) and I am independent. I understand about this hero platform and have tried it….but when a guy gets too close, I tend to turn off. Other way around. It’s like I’m falling in love, then I switch gears. What is going on?

    1. Look at the world fail… where in your life do you believe you failed – when you recognise you didn’t fail… life starts over….

  11. It’s a cat and mouse game. Showing availability right away will slow things down. Think National Geographic … Where the male bear is walking ,traveling miles to get/find a female. We are the prize and need to let them know that, in a soft way. Yes, make sure you verbally say how great he is at something that he’s done. Think all men have a soft side that they show when they are sure it will be taken correctly. Smile, touch ,kiss. And make sure this is the man you want to stay around

  12. Men want to be the hero. However, so many women have earned there degrees and just working women and mom’s the times have changed. I do this unconsciously and then have to stand back. Even if the dinner he cooks is not great. BUT, I believe it’s a two way street …..both need to recognize the others strengths and meld them together…. The best of both worlds. Always show appreciation. It works

  13. I Was married once to an extremely dependent childish man. Because of that I faught to become independent. I’ve met many independent men/fathers and dated a few of them. We are taught that as an independent woman we don’t need a man, we are taught to get to a point in life to want a man not need him. But when you have been fighting life by yourself for so long its so hard to put trust into someone and let the guard down. I can change a tire, change the oil, I can relight my own water heater, unclog a toilet, dig a hole. I dont know what I could ask him to do my survival instincts automatically kick in. Before I can say what was wrong its already taken care of.

  14. Hi I have been married for 30 years January 9 was my anniversary and my husband told me to leave I have seven kids 10 grandkids I have been a stay at home mom my whole life and now I’m studying and 53 my husband tells me to leave I have no money no car no where to go so we got our stimulus check I rented a car and drove to my sistersIn a totally different state now what do I do I miss him so much and I wanted him back I want him to come and get me I want him to love me help

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