Don’t you just love the feeling after a great first date?  You both had a good time.  He seemed charming and intriguing – definitely attractive!  You want to see him again but you also don’t want to come across as too forward or too desperate.

Should you avoid saying anything?  Or should you just take a chance and tell him how you feel?

Here’s an idea.  Why not take a balanced approach and deliver a sweet text that that will make him smile…but that doesn’t imply anything?

That’s the best kind of text because it doesn’t manipulate him to feel anything.  You don’t tell him you loved every minute of the date and you can’t wait to see him again.  Too manipulative, too effusive.  On the other hand, there’s no reason to keep him waiting for a week, as if the date was a disappointment.

Sending a sweet noncommittal type of message will keep him interested in you.  In the best case scenario, he will be motivated to chase you, to try harder to keep your attention.

What is “sweet” though?  What kind of texts make him smile?  Generally sweet means:

  • Positive
  • Inspiring
  • Funny
  • Grateful (in general, or for his friendship)
  • Friendly
  • Intriguing

Positive and inspiring, of course, because those qualities are magnetic.  Funny because everyone enjoys a good-natured laugh.  Grateful and friendly are also self-explanatory.  Perhaps intriguing is the most interesting quality.  Intriguing means that your statements capture interest.  They pique his curiosity.  They’re not “about you”.  They’re just interesting and fun to read.  Now he wants to learn more about you.

Here are some sample texts of texts that are sure to make him smile.

  1. I won’t lie. I got a few butterflies on our date last night.  It was nice to see you in a whole new light.
  2. I always feel safe and protected when I’m with you. You project that energy and I think that’s so cool.
  3. I can see how a woman could get lost in your sweet smile.
  4. I can’t remember laughing that much in a long time! You are hilarious.
  5. I’m really glad we met. You seem like a cool friend and interesting dude I’d want to get to know.
  6. I can’t fall asleep tonight I’m still thinking of (Subject you talked about on your date)
  7. I always have this big goofy smile on my face when you send me a funny message
  8. You always have the most thought provoking conversations. You’re fun to talk to.
  9. You seem to get me. I don’t feel like I have to explain myself when I’m around you.  That’s comforting.
  10. Not to give you a big head or anything but I showed one of my friends your picture and said we were going out. And she got really jealous. So I feel special.
  11. You looked very handsome when we went out. I was impressed.
  12. I enjoyed our conversation so much I actually missed you when we said goodnight.
  13. I’m still smiling even twenty-four hours after the fact. Thanks for cheering me up.
  14. What’s your all time favorite dinner? Just randomly thinking about cooking something for you one day.
  15. You are an amazing man. I sense that about you. Don’t doubt yourself.
  16. I think we definitely knew each other in a past life. You seem weirdly familiar…and quite magnetic.
  17. Here’s an odd question. How about we just drop our plans this evening and go on a random date night?
  18. (After Sex) Damn why do you have such an interesting personality? Why couldn’t you just be a hot guy I could fool around with and forget?
  19. I enjoy getting to know you. Every time we talk I’m even more fascinated at your perspective.
  20. You challenge me. But in all the right ways.
  21. I really like your family too. I can see where you get your best qualities from.
  22. I’m bananas for you! Orange you glad to hear the honest truth?
  23. You seem like the kind of cool person I could do nothing with and really enjoy it.
  24. I wouldn’t say I love you more than chocolate…but chocolate is getting nervous!
  25. The fact that I actually spell check my messages before sending should tell you how I really feel about you.
  26. You want to know how I feel? My dog likes you! That says it all.
  27. You have a very soothing voice. The kind of voice I could fall asleep to, because you make me so calm and relaxed. You’re better than a bubble bath.
  28. You know what the sexiest part of your body is? Your smile!
  29. If this were an auction, I would bid ten grand on you and the room would applaud.
  30. You are like great music. Your voice is so pretty but I have to actually pay attention to what you say to grasp your deeper meanings. You’re a composition!

As you can see, texts that make him smile are all about the MOMENT.  The great night you shared and nothing more.  The secret is not to make him feel something but to enjoy your time together.

If you haven’t gone out yet, you can still approach this situation with the same goal.  To make him smile and see you in a positive light.  No stress, no commitment, nothing but intrigue and playfulness.  That’s the kind of interaction a guy wants, especially over texting.

Even if it’s one text at a time, you can charm him with your confidence and creative mind.  Making a man smile is about pleasing him, learning him, and sharing thoughts that make him feel good.  If you simply wait for the guy to chase you, he might start to get bored or start to feel unappreciated.  Sending him happy texts keeps him coming back for more.

You know, smile and the world smiles with you, right?  Well bring out the best side in a man and he will smile for you!

The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys a Man’s Love For You And Drives Him Out Of Your Life

There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…

It usually comes out as an honest question when you want to connect with him…

But only serves to push him away and slowly kill your relationship from the inside out…

It can take a man who is filled with love and passion for you…

And make him feel cold, distant, and uninterested…

Have you figured out what it is yet?

Many women send this as a text message when they’re feeling insecure…

And then are confused why he suddenly pulls away and disappears completely…

Most of the women who ask it don’t even know how harmful it is…

Yet it can take a relationship that seems like it’s perfect…

A relationship where you feel loved, cared for, and like you’ve finally found “the one”…

And overnight, it can tear that relationship apart…

Leaving you confused, frustrated, and heartbroken…

If you don’t know what this simple yet seemingly innocent question is…

I want you to stop what you’re doing and go watch this video presentation that I put together for you at the link below…

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I’ve helped hundreds of thousands of women, all over the world…

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I show you what this 5 word phrase is…

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