I was having a conversation with an old friend recently. The subject soon came up of marriage and all the old stereotypes of women wanting marriage, men feeling more commitment-phobic. We also talked about whether or not times were changing, especially regarding gender roles. More women are career-driven. More women are commitment-phobic these days, since they have options and higher standards.
Then we finally got to the subject of “When”. When is it that a man’s heart turns to mush, so to speak, and he really starts thinking about marriage and family?
It’s definitely not before sex, nor is it necessarily after sex. Some men have different peaks of emotion and respond differently, according to the relationship speed, his personal style, your personal style, and many other variables.
But my friend and I both agreed that once a man determines that his girlfriend (or crush) is a “high-value”, one-in-a-million woman, that’s usually the turning point where love grows. That’s usually when he decides, “I can’t live without this woman…and I’m not going to be happy with anyone else.”
That pushes him forward, that excites him – and that’s what usually gets marriage on his mind. He doesn’t want to lose you and so he figures out a way to keep you, even if that means forsaking other women (less interesting, less attractive women), and devoting all of his time and energy to wooing you.
The real question then is what do you have to do, to get him to see you like a Queen? Like the expression goes… “If she treats you like a king without the ring, she’s a keeper.” Well, how do you become a keeper to a man you love? And how can you treat him like a king without being a pushover or one-night-stand material that he’s just going to get bored with?
Let’s talk about how a king wants to be treated.
A King Wants to be Cherished, Not Worshiped
It may surprise you to know that celebrities and rich men usually don’t want to be worshiped like a god. If they wanted a groupie, they’d find a groupie to have sex with. That’s not enough. Simply put, a fawning, worshiping personality is not enough to impress a “king.”
What does a king want then, well, besides power and wealth? A King is attracted to the lifestyle because of the way it makes him feel. He feels in control of himself, he feels confident and happy, and perhaps most importantly, he feels like his queen “has his back”.
Who can a king really trust, anyway? His creepy vizier? His scheming brother? Generals, bishops, or parliament?
Above all else, he really wants to trust his wife, his queen, doesn’t he? He wants someone he can trust and someone who can love him through all the ups and downs of his reign.
So first off, we learn that it’s NOT about a king wanting full submission from his queen. Trust matters more. Devotion and admiration matter more. Now the question becomes, how do you demonstrate loyalty?
A Queen is Both Strong and Feminine
A Queen is by nature very strong, in mind, in emotion, and in willpower. Rather than fighting other people to get her way, she uses her strength to better the kingdom and all of her subjects.
For instance, this queenly type of woman gives her king the attention he craves. She is secure enough in her femininity and power – she doesn’t need his validation. She knows her worth and so doesn’t have to manipulate him to get what she wants. She earns it, she inspires her king to act because of the way she carries herself. She isn’t clingy or needy but confident in her own ability, a fierce independent streak.
She is focused on making the king happy, making him comfortable, and making sure he feels loved. Not only does she do this without nagging, or without being asked, but she also takes the time to learn him, learn her man and what motivates him, and what evokes passion from him.
No wonder then that the king is so impressed with his king. Rarely does he ever meet a woman who understands him, who takes the time to get to know his perspective.
One reason she is such a good catch for the king is because she really does love him, and respects him for his positive qualities. His good character matches her good character and they have a mutually beneficial effect on each other.
Other qualities she possesses, probably acquired over a lifetime of being a strong, positive and heroic role model, include:
● Conversational skills
● Honesty – about herself and the relationship you’re building together
● Not itching for a fight, mellow and in control of her emotions
● Self-sacrificing when her man’s happiness is at stake (a team effort)
● A sense of mystery as well as a master at making flirty banter
● A high sense of personal worth, meaning she will not tolerate any less than her man’s best behavior
● A strong sense of personal identity and values
● Her passions and life goals are foremost in her mind – she doesn’t just exist because of the whims of the king
In short, a king wants to marry a woman as strong and mighty as he is, someone who matches him and is willing to work just as hard as he does, in order to make the world a better place. They go well together because they are the same type of people. They work as a team, they set high personal standards for themselves (not just others), and they rule with empathy and fairness. These positive qualities help keep them together. They both respect each other’s integrity.
To each other, they are one in a million, high value, the kind of person that comes around only once in a lifetime. That’s when a king knows he’s met his queen…and it’s better that he propose now rather than lose the love of his life!
The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys a Man’s Love For You And Drives Him Out Of Your Life
There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…
It usually comes out as an honest question when you want to connect with him…
But only serves to push him away and slowly kill your relationship from the inside out…
It can take a man who is filled with love and passion for you…
And make him feel cold, distant, and uninterested…
Have you figured out what it is yet?
Many women send this as a text message when they’re feeling insecure…
And then are confused why he suddenly pulls away and disappears completely…
Most of the women who ask it don’t even know how harmful it is…
Yet it can take a relationship that seems like it’s perfect…
A relationship where you feel loved, cared for, and like you’ve finally found “the one”…
And overnight, it can tear that relationship apart…
Leaving you confused, frustrated, and heartbroken…
If you don’t know what this simple yet seemingly innocent question is…
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