Understanding What a Man Wants in a Woman

How to Make a Man Fall in Love

Have you ever wondered how all these “normal” women land themselves movie stars, politicians and sports athletes? What special quality do they have? Were they at the right place at the right time? Or do they have special intelligence or as the French call it, a certain je ne sais quoi?

The truth is that ALL women have the capacity to make a man fall madly, deeply in love. And the only difference between a woman who grabs the arm of a movie star, compared to a woman who settles on Cousin Bubba from the Laundromat, is this:

She understands the art of feminine power. She understands how to attract a man’s attention and how to keep it. She also understands what a man needs to feel sexual attraction, and how to turn that attraction into love.

The fact of the matter is, it’s easy to attract a man…but not so easy to make him fall in love with you. However, it’s not because you need a “special quality” or superior beauty. You simply have to invest more time in making an emotional connection. Let’s discuss a few ways you can turn attraction into love.

1. Always look your best.

While you can make a case for “love is blind” – let’s be honest. Many men are picky when it comes to keeping a minimum standard of beauty. Men are visual creatures. No, you don’t have to be the prettiest woman in the room. But a man will usually qualify you, according to the traditional standards of: a slim to average body, a general knowledge of fashion and makeup, and a pleasant disposition.

If you break any of these “rules” you may find that a man will build a resistance to you and try to friend-zone you, claiming a lack of physical attraction. My point is, don’t give him that option. Make him feel sexually attracted by taking pride in your appearance. Give him the gift of wanting you, use this attraction to your advantage by commanding his attention whenever you want it. Besides, when you’re attractive, and when he senses that, and when other men sense that he’s a “lucky guy”, YOUR demeanor becomes more self-assured, more self-confident. That works in your favor.

2. Make him feel like a man—a good provider.

Men are masculine by nature and so they have an urge to provide for their partners. Now to be fair, as a culture, we have progressed beyond the traditional roles of husbands and wives. But even if you’re the worker of the family and he’s the househusband, he STILL feels the need to provide for his family in some way. The key is to identify what he provides and make him feel appreciated. Show him that you value his provisions, his protection, and his ability to tackle and solve problems. In short, all men desire to be heroes. If you really want him to feel loved, make him your personal superhero—the man who always saves the day!

3. Love him for his character—not his potential.

Men are very delicately emotionally when it comes to personal acceptance. They want to be accepted. They want to be loved for who they are inside—not just the peripherals, which is of course, what many women will notice first.

When a woman analyzes a man she may be attracted to his potential. As in the achievements he could have (or does have), as well as his potential to be a good husband, provider and great all around guy. But if she always loves him based on his potential, rather than the person he IS, that means she will always try to change him. Improve him. Approach him like a project that needs to be fixed. This is not what a man wants from his partner and soul mate. He wants to be loved for who he is right now, with no asterisks or notes on how to improve.

4. You believe in him and you make that known every day.

Deep down, men want to be leaders—if not of the world itself, maybe just his own household. He wants to be a fighter and a winner in life. Of course, the peripheral achievements of fame, fortune and influence are not always easy to achieve. That’s why it’s up to YOU to make him feel like a success. It’s up to you to point out his success, and to remind him that you believe in him. You support his vision, you support his aims…but most of all, you already see him as a success. A man wants to sense that you are his “biggest fan”, his most ardent supporter, and the woman who always has his back.

Without this deep trust, he will always feel a lack of intimacy. This is why a woman will remind him a few times a day of her support. But there’s no need to go overboard and gush praise on him. Instead, live by this rule: you compliment him and express your appreciation only for what he does for you. This teaches him that your support grows and intensifies based on the effort he puts forth to please you.

5. You encourage him to be independent…because YOU are independent.

The problem with most women is as soon as love deepens with a man they like, they try to “tie him down” and rob him of his independent streak. This is the worst possible move because men naturally want to be independent…and for that matter, women are attracted to strong and independent-minded men. The urge to control a man, or to pressure him into obedience, is contrary to both of your desires. He wants to be independent and wants you to accept his independent streak. He also wants YOU to be independent and self-sufficient because this reminds him that you don’t NEED him to take care of you. Instead, you desire his company because of the emotional connection.

Love is not based on need or convenience. It’s based on a willingness to be with each other and to accept your partner’s real personality. Yes be yourself when it’s time to be become emotionally and physically intimate. But before you do, make sure you understand what a man really wants out of love.

The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys a Man’s Love For You And Drives Him Out Of Your Life

There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…

It usually comes out as an honest question when you want to connect with him…

But only serves to push him away and slowly kill your relationship from the inside out…

It can take a man who is filled with love and passion for you…

And make him feel cold, distant, and uninterested…

Have you figured out what it is yet?

Many women send this as a text message when they’re feeling insecure…

And then are confused why he suddenly pulls away and disappears completely…

Most of the women who ask it don’t even know how harmful it is…

Yet it can take a relationship that seems like it’s perfect…

A relationship where you feel loved, cared for, and like you’ve finally found “the one”…

And overnight, it can tear that relationship apart…

Leaving you confused, frustrated, and heartbroken…

If you don’t know what this simple yet seemingly innocent question is…

I want you to stop what you’re doing and go watch this video presentation that I put together for you at the link below…

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My name is Matthew Coast and I’ve been teaching in the dating industry on since 2005…

I’ve helped hundreds of thousands of women, all over the world…

Get into relationships where they feel loved, seen, and cherished by the men they’re with…

When you click the link this link right here <<

I show you what this 5 word phrase is…

I’ll teach you about why men pull away, how to stop it from happening…

And how to attract the man you want…

Into a relationship where you’re loved and adored and treated like a priority…

No matter how painful things have been in your past…

You can attract a great man and have a great relationship…

Just click the link on your screen and the watch the video right now…

If you’re struggling with men pulling away from you…

If you’re tired of giving everything to a relationship and only being taken for granted…

And if you’re ready to have a man see you as a woman that he wants to be with forever…

Click this link to watch my video right now <<

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