Is your relationship going well? Are you getting along and really bonding with your partner lately?
You’re probably also worried that things are going so well, you’re kind of afraid it’s all going to fall apart next month or next year!
It’s natural to have relationship worries. But falling into paranoid thinking and anticipating the worst, is just going to tax your good relationship.
How about we be practical? Let’s discuss how you actually do lose a man (in 10 easy steps!) to remove all the mystery.
Just to let you know, these 10 items are intentionally bad advice and just a little sarcastic to emphasize the point. DON’T TRY THIS AT HOME! This is the opposite of what you want to do!
1. He needs way more attention!
Text him several times a day, call him a few times a day, email him as often as you can, and show up at his house when he least suspects it. The dude needs more love! Stalk him and make sure he knows you’re concerned about this relationship. Obviously, if he seems cold or weirded out, he just needs more one-on-one attention!
2. Assume he’s cheating on you and interrogate him until he admits his sins.
Things are too good to be true, so assume the guy is cheating on you and get him to confess. Even if he’s not cheating, he’s bound to have some secrets and you and he need to deal with them ASAP. When in doubt, confiscate his phone and then check his desktop browser history.
3. Forget everything you ever cared about, including friends, family, career, and hobbies. Focus on making HIM happy!
Your goal in life should be making him happy. Most men want to find trophy wives that just agree with everything they say and have no other plans in life except to make their husband a sandwich. (We all get by now that this is is bad advice, right?)
4. Make him jealous by dating other guys or threatening to go out with them.
Fact: Men are very jealous.
Conspiracy Theory: Guys will always want you more if you dangle another man in front of them, threatening to cheat. I mean how could this possibly go wrong?
5. When in doubt, cry, scream in anger, and throw a fit.
He said what? He implied what? How could he? Don’t let him get away with his contrary opinions. It’s time to emotionally batter him, so that next time he thinks twice about sharing his dorky opinions.
6. Don’t be afraid to criticize him, his work, and his hobbies. Men need tough love!
Telling him his music sucks is just another way to say I love you. Talking about how awesome his boss is, and how he should be more like Jim, well that’s just being helpful. After all, if a guy believes in himself, why does he need a partner to lie?
7. Remind him that he can be better than he is right now. Always push him to reach
higher and succeed in life.
Don’t be satisfied with this guy’s potential. Just imagine how happy you all would be if he became a billionaire success story like Mark Zuckerberg. Dream! (And let him know this life “as is” is just not going to cut it!)
8. Let him spoil you. Quit your job and let him be your Big Daddy!
He’s a man. He can handle you not working. Just take some me-time and smoke/drink your worries away. Let him support you for a while. This is how a man should prove his love! If he argues this, accuse him of being a sexist pig.
9. Work him like a dog! Play hard to get and be impossible to please. Guys are slaves just waiting for a chance to worship you!
You’re way too easy on him. Have a list of chores and make damn sure he does every single one of them. If he misses one you don’t have to throw a fit, but do remind him that he made a mistake and give him the chance to apologize.
10. Stop having sex with him, unless it’s his birthday.
I’m not just implying that you should withhold sex as a punishment for him not doing his chores…I’m saying why have sex with him at all UNLESS he earns it by doing something amazing? If he gets you tickets to Hamilton, then maybe he’s earned it, yeah?
I hope we all had a good laugh. Obviously, these 10 steps are tongue-in-cheek and are more like a horror story. These behaviors and attitudes WILL drive any man away, even if he likes you in the beginning.
But here’s the point. Once you know the most common behaviors that drive men away, you can avoid making those mistakes and spend more time on giving your partner what he wants, so you can strengthen that bond.
To summarize here is what you SHOULD avoid doing without the sarcasm:
1. Being too clingy and demanding
2. Being too suspicious of his morals
3. Being too much of a pushover in life
4. Cheating or flirting with other guys
5. Emotionally overreacting to little things
6. Being too critical of him, not supporting him
7. Investing in his potential, pushing him to be better
8. Taking financial advantage of him
9. Being too controlling or mothering, figuring he needs tough love
10. Not enjoying sex, and/or depriving him of it
Remember, needlessly worrying about your relationship crumbling is self-defeating. If you know what you’re doing wrong, then cut that behavior out. You know by now what’s a bad idea. You’ll know in the way he responds: by being cold, distant, or expressing his concerns about the relationship.
Otherwise, if he’s happy and lets you know that, there’s no need to worry. Focus on the positives and let him likewise feel your positive energy.
If you focus on making your partner happy and avoiding the toxic behaviors that actually do destroy intimacy, you will be fine. Your partner will learn to see you as a source of peace and prosperity in his life.
You won’t have time to worry because you’ll be having too much fun!
The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys a Man’s Love For You And Drives Him Out Of Your Life
There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…
It usually comes out as an honest question when you want to connect with him…
But only serves to push him away and slowly kill your relationship from the inside out…
It can take a man who is filled with love and passion for you…
And make him feel cold, distant, and uninterested…
Have you figured out what it is yet?
Many women send this as a text message when they’re feeling insecure…
And then are confused why he suddenly pulls away and disappears completely…
Most of the women who ask it don’t even know how harmful it is…
Yet it can take a relationship that seems like it’s perfect…
A relationship where you feel loved, cared for, and like you’ve finally found “the one”…
And overnight, it can tear that relationship apart…
Leaving you confused, frustrated, and heartbroken…
If you don’t know what this simple yet seemingly innocent question is…
I want you to stop what you’re doing and go watch this video presentation that I put together for you at the link below…
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My name is Matthew Coast and I’ve been teaching in the dating industry on since 2005…
I’ve helped hundreds of thousands of women, all over the world…
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I show you what this 5-word phrase is…
I’ll teach you about why men pull away, how to stop it from happening…
And how to attract the man you want…
Into a relationship where you’re loved and adored and treated like a priority…
No matter how painful things have been in your past…
You can attract a great man and have a great relationship…
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If you’re struggling with men pulling away from you…
If you’re tired of giving everything to a relationship and only being taken for granted…
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