Someone from our community wrote me an email about when she should bring up a traumatic experience that she’s had in her life. She was raped awhile back. She had some really rough times afterwards but is doing well now and recovering. She wants to know when to bring this up because she has some […]
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If you’re looking for a committed, lasting relationship, there are a few things you need to do… 1. Find and Meet a Quality Man Most people tend to want to skip this one. As much as you think that the completely broken and unavailable men you keep falling for would just be soooo great if
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A huge complaint/question I constantly get from women is… “Why do I have to change? Why can’t men be the ones who change?” That’s very good question. I can understand how frustrating it must be to think that you need to change yourself and men are just supposed to stay the same. Before I was
This seems to be a common concern for most women I talk to… “When should I let a man kiss me?” Here’s the short answer: Whenever he goes for the kiss. The response I get to this tends to be… “But I won’t kiss him if it’s too soon. I don’t kiss on the first
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This seems to be a general topic of confusion around daters far and wide… “Should I let a man pay for the date?” Here’s my short answer: It depends. Why? Because this topic isn’t completely black or white. Most women’s dating coaches who I know will insist that the man pays for the date, every
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Most questions that I get from our community start like this: “How do I get him to…” Or: “How do I make him…” Then just fill in the blank with something like… “Love me, call me, commit to me, be better to me, meet up with me, come back to me, ask me out, want
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Another common complaint that I get from women is that they think they intimidate men. Could this be true? Do strong, successful women intimidate men? Does a man somehow feel threatened by a woman who has made her own place in this world? Well, maybe… Let’s look at something very important first… When I first
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The two most common frustrations I get from women are these: “Men are liars!” And… “Men are cheaters!” Sometimes, I get both… “Men are liars and cheaters!” Is this true? Wood is hard. Water is wet. Men are liars and cheaters? Well, maybe… But maybe not… When I was growing up, I decided that I
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Have you ever felt like things were going great with a guy and then, all of a sudden, he stopped calling and pursuing you? Many times, when a woman falls in love with a man, she feels like she needs to show him that she’s interested, as much as possible, for the fear of losing him
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A question from someone in our community is… “I’m in a “friend with benefits” type of relationship with a guy… but he acts like he wants something more. How do I know what he wants?” This is a great question… Back in 2006, I was a men’s dating coach. I ran a forum that was
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