6 Signs That You’re Meant to Be Together

If you’ve been seriously dating a guy for a while now, you may be wondering not only WHEN he’s going to propose, but whether or not you should say “Yes, I’ll Marry You!”

It’s not a decision to take lightly. And though we all do love the romantic-proposal-in-public videos, we can’t fault a woman for having serious doubts. You may be waiting for the “spark” that you hoped to feel by now, but that hasn’t come yet. Or you may wonder if this is your true destiny, or if you’re meant to be together…or if a better match will come along later on. Then you’ll be married and it will be too late! Castaway level tragedy!

You’re not alone. Many women have to wrestle with the idea of meeting “the right one” and forsaking all others, and they’re often times shamed by men for having these doubts. How unfair is that? The last thing anyone wants is to be stuck in a marriage where both partners are unhappy. Better in that case, to have never married at all.

Don’t fret. Though I’m not one to believe in destiny or in fairytale romance, I do believe there are 6 sure signs that this is the best man you will ever meet. And yes, you will regret it if you leave him behind. But before you make a judgment on pure instinct, consider this issue logically and according to the following signs of true love.

1. You respect him from the heart.

Lust is one thing. Being a “good wife” is another. But when you truly respect a man’s character, his morals, his values, and his attributes, know that you have found someone truly special. In fact, if you leave such a man behind and settle for someone who is significantly less moral, less caring and less heroic, it will always leave a hole in your heart. Good men ARE hard to find and if you know in your heart that his qualities make you feel good, and make you a better person, then this is a very good sign that you’ve met the right one.

2. You both like to laugh together.

Looks come and go but laughter goes a lifetime. Having a compatible sense of humor will help you survive tough trials, bond closer together, and enjoy each other’s company day by day. You’ll not only entertain each other, but laugh at the same things. In fact, studies seem to show that couples that can laughter together will usually last for the long run. An article from Scientific American concluded that laughter means everything in a relationship, from flirtation in the beginning to long-term survival into marriage.

3. He has a positive effect on you – you are a better person when he’s in your life.

Whereas lust and “second-hand relationships” will always be characterized by misery and suffering, your partner just seems to make you happier day by day! Maybe you don’t feel the LUST for him that you would feel for Brad Pitt (are we still using this guy as a sex symbol? He’s 53 years old now, come on!), but there may be other qualities about him that make you feel secure, more confident, more at peace with the world, and more exuberant in daily life—especially when you interact with him. When you meet the right one you know, and everyone knows, because you shine with positivity. It’s a contagious feeling of inner peace and something that continues through the years, growing stronger.

4. He knows you better than anyone else does.

Granted, this sign might not be as important as the other ones (positive effect, BETTER than knowing someone inside and out). But it is still a must for a long-term relationship. Soul mates know each other fully, they understand how the other person thinks, and what they are feeling moment to moment. How do you become so tightly in-sync with someone else? You do it by sharing your deepest thoughts and feelings. You desire to tell him everything and he wants to know everything. Every intimate thing, every new thought and perspective, it makes you both bond together. You tell him things that you’ve never told another man, or even a sister or parent. You may have even shared important life experiences together that you will never share again with anyone else. It’s very hard to let go of a friendship so precious and a relationship this closely bonded. If you know him and he knows you – and if all the other signs that we discussed are also there – he’s a keeper for life.

5. You’re personally attracted to him.

This might seem confusing at first…because aren’t you attracted to a lot of people? Yes, but a strong emotional attraction is not always a physical attraction. And you might be extremely attracted to a man who is not your usual “type” or the usual type of “hot guy” that society suggests you should get. Your attraction to him is beyond your power to resist. It’s emotional chemistry that becomes physical over time. It’s a gut reaction, something you feel. It’s not just his body or his voice, but the way he thinks, the way he makes you feel attractive, and how he provides for your every need.

6. You can talk disagreements out like mature adults!

Bad relationships are characterized by an inability to discuss things honestly, or without the argument escalating into madcap insanity. When you’re actually with the right one, you may find that you disagree about many things…but that you can live with your partner’s viewpoint. You can agree to disagree but the respect you have for your partner doesn’t diminish. He doesn’t belittle you or insist upon winning the argument. He knows when to back away, as you do, until tempers calm down. Any differences in opinion can be tolerated and any disagreement can be worked out, negotiated, and finalized with love and respect.

As you can see, the idea of “meant to be together” is not about destiny, but about love in real life. How well are you willing to learn him? Forgive him? Talk to him and keep conversations honest and from the heart? How much will you make an effort to keep things friendly, fun and enjoyable? This will determine if he’s your one true love because if you’re happy in this relationship it will show—to you, him, and the rest of the world.

The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys a Man’s Love For You And Drives Him Out Of Your Life

There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…

It usually comes out as an honest question when you want to connect with him…

But only serves to push him away and slowly kill your relationship from the inside out…

It can take a man who is filled with love and passion for you…

And make him feel cold, distant, and uninterested…

Have you figured out what it is yet?

Many women send this as a text message when they’re feeling insecure…

And then are confused why he suddenly pulls away and disappears completely…

Most of the women who ask it don’t even know how harmful it is…

Yet it can take a relationship that seems like it’s perfect…

A relationship where you feel loved, cared for, and like you’ve finally found “the one”…

And overnight, it can tear that relationship apart…

Leaving you confused, frustrated, and heartbroken…

If you don’t know what this simple yet seemingly innocent question is…

I want you to stop what you’re doing and go watch this video presentation that I put together for you at the link below…

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My name is Matthew Coast and I’ve been teaching in the dating industry on since 2005…

I’ve helped hundreds of thousands of women, all over the world…

Get into relationships where they feel loved, seen, and cherished by the men they’re with…

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I show you what this 5 word phrase is…

I’ll teach you about why men pull away, how to stop it from happening…

And how to attract the man you want…

Into a relationship where you’re loved and adored and treated like a priority…

No matter how painful things have been in your past…

You can attract a great man and have a great relationship…

Just click the link on your screen and the watch the video right now…

If you’re struggling with men pulling away from you…

If you’re tired of giving everything to a relationship and only being taken for granted…

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1 Comment

  • Tammy Salazar

    Reply Reply January 23, 2018

    Wht does it really mean whn ur guy friend is starting to say i dont want you 2go stay anothr night and says i love you but few days later he comes back and says he didnt mean it when he said i love you..cause this is really confusing me at this point..thanks for taking time out to ready message

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