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5 Signs A Guy Wants You To Chase Him.

5 Signs A Guy Wants You To Chase Him

To be honest, MOST guys like to chase—not be chased. And most of the advice we share here is geared towards women who want men to chase them and who want to attract an outgoing and romantic type of guy.

But it wouldn’t be honest to say that you should never chase a guy. Some guys really do want to be chased. And the truth is, this is a special kind of relationship you might want to try at least once, just to see how it feels and how you respond.

There are plenty of reasons why a man may want you to chase him, and it’s not always the same thing. Sure, some guys are shy and some men really want to feel desired by a woman, especially if they have low self-esteem. On the other hand, some men are just really attracted to a woman that takes the initiative to show interest.

Now that said, it’s also a mistake for a woman to be too aggressive in the way she chases a man. Coming onto a guy like a porn star is either going to scare the shy guy away, or turn off the confident man who enjoys a mysterious woman.

Here are five signs that a guy wants to be chased…with some tips on how to land him.

1. He always finds a reason to talk to you but he never flirts outright. He seems drawn to you but always hiding the real reason he’s hanging around.

Guys like this might be a little nervous to move things forward, but it is a better idea to lead him along and help him flirt with you, rather than being too aggressive or telling him how you feel. What might help is to casually talk more about dating, love, sex and all these non-platonic things just to get his reaction. He may get a sudden pang of romance and ask you out.

2. He tells you how he feels…but he doesn’t chase you.

You may be confused by a guy who is very impassioned about the relationship in conversation…but then he backs away. Whether he’s playing hot and cold on purpose, or just afraid of making the first move, it’s easy to see that he prefers YOU to chase him and put up with his silly games, to show you’re really interested in him. While a lot women won’t put up with a guy that does this, it’s really your choice. Some men really do need to feel “chased” before they commit.

3. He is eager to share his feelings with you…but stops short of confessing his love.

If a man like you but is afraid of admitting it to himself, then what he might do is share some of his secrets, his private thoughts, or maybe even a “side” of him that he never shows anyone else. He entrusts you with this side of him…but he always stops short of saying the word love. What he may be waiting for is to actually have an intimate moment with you, one where he can express how he feels with a kiss. Try to cooperate with his guidance and be alone with him in a setting where he can feel safe and in control. He may just need the right setting and timing to make a move.

4. He flowers you with praise and romance…but then flirts with other women, while avoiding you.

This type of guy is typically a player personality. He likes the feeling of toying with you and being in control of his love life. He may actually like you, especially if he treats you differently than the other women in his life. But if he’s dating around and making no secret of it, it’s very likely he wants you to call him on his BS. He may be testing you to see if you tolerate his shenanigans or if you walk away. The best way to treat a guy like this is to NOT chase him or beg for his attention—since he will exploit you—but to walk away and make him come to you. Let him know you will not play his mind games and you are not going to rise to the bait and chase him. He has to figure out if he really likes you or not and what he’s willing to do about it.

5. He confesses his feelings for you and then leaves.

This may be confusing behavior, but in essence he’s holding back from asking you out—even though he just summoned the courage to tell you how he feels. He may be struggling with some of his own baggage or may even sense that you do not reciprocate those romantic feelings. If you do like him and are wondering whether to back away or move closer, just remember that less is usually more.

You CAN make an excuse to see him or talk about the “thing” between the two of you. But again, it’s better to guide him and let HIM say how he feels about you first. It might be tempting to just come out and say that you want to go out. But he will respond much better if he gets to say how he feels and summons the courage to be more romantic. All you really have to do is be persistent in SEEING him more often, but still letting him take the lead in the relationship.

Men really do want to work for their affection. Now it’s true that some men really desire a challenge while others will only go so far. If you sense that your man needs a little push to chase you, feel free to give him that push. Just be careful not to scare him away with too much overbearing attention. Let him feel in control so he can be the dashing romantic he deep down wants to be.

The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys a Man’s Love For You And Drives Him Out Of Your Life

There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…

It usually comes out as an honest question when you want to connect with him…

But only serves to push him away and slowly kill your relationship from the inside out…

It can take a man who is filled with love and passion for you…

And make him feel cold, distant, and uninterested…

Have you figured out what it is yet?

Many women send this as a text message when they’re feeling insecure…

And then are confused why he suddenly pulls away and disappears completely…

Most of the women who ask it don’t even know how harmful it is…

Yet it can take a relationship that seems like it’s perfect…

A relationship where you feel loved, cared for, and like you’ve finally found “the one”…

And overnight, it can tear that relationship apart…

Leaving you confused, frustrated, and heartbroken…

If you don’t know what this simple yet seemingly innocent question is…

I want you to stop what you’re doing and go watch this video presentation that I put together for you at the link below…

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5 thoughts on “5 Signs A Guy Wants You To Chase Him”

  1. Koreen Verhaeghe

    I have followed all your Uribe videos. I have done the step back. The texts and he still ignored me. He says he’s interested and wants to see me. But doesn’t happen
    So what do I do wait. Or move on

    Koreen

  2. I am in a relationship with this guy buy it seems am the one who cares so much, and he has confessed his love to me but he finds it difficult to text me when he is on line and it’s killing me inside, please help I don’t know what to do. We are very far from each other and I’m confused of what I should do.

  3. My partner have trust issues with me and have cut off all means of connecting to him but I really love the guy and don’t want to loose him. How do I make things right again

  4. Ok so I found this asking: do men like to be begged? I am talking about somewhat lightheartedly sexually but also sincere. I started fooling around with my doctor during exams and he thinks it’s for the best to transfer me to another doctor. We talk dirty on the phone but the connection is more than sex. He says he will feel guilty and conflicted.

    I don’t feel like he is playing mind games and I do believe he is really concerned for his career. But he is really kind of the one who has taken the lead in connecting in a personal level and also initiating physical touch. Once we started caressing and holding each other I basically lost control with him sexually. He says he really wants to but that he won’t want to just once and will want to be with me and nobody can know so he feels conflicted. I told him I am ok with secret because I don’t need a relationship or even want that now.

    For me I t’s worse in the mental space of feeling frustrated because in the physical at least the tension is released and it will make it much easier. I am not chasing him but I am literally BEGGING him to take me somewhere and get it over with already which of course is pretty aggressive and actually not something I have ever done before. It’s actually a turn on for me and I have found myself always begging him but I am afraid he will be turned off and ultimately I just want him to let go and feel the same way I do. He says he doesn’t feel I am aggressive or pressuring him at all. What should I do?

    I understand why he is conflicted but confused why is doing everything but fucking me?! For me I will be less consumed emotionally if we had secret no strings attached sex. He says if we do it it won’t just happen once and won’t be able to get enough of me. To me it feels like I feel so much more attracted because he just wants to masturbate together over the phone and I am begging for real sex! It’s kind of humiliating even though he is kind to me

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