What are the signs he’s falling for you?
Let’s admit it – men can be hard to read sometimes! Some guys are elusive and wordy. Some guys are gruff and silent. Others are extroverted and yet surprisingly shallow and insincere with their feelings.
The point is, it’s usually uncommon to find a sane and successful man who just tells you who he is and how he really feels about you. A guy isn’t likely to tell you his feelings or that he likes you.
That’s why sometimes you have to read in between the lines and pay attention to the signs you see from the guy. These signs are sometimes more important than what he’s actually saying.
Also, sometimes what he’s saying can be so subtle you might miss his message entirely. And yes, sometimes guys give signals and say things that reveal their true feelings…and they don’t even know it! You just need to be watching for these signs.
Signs That a Guy is Falling in Love With You
If you you are trying to figure out if a guy is slowly falling for you, you made need some relationship advice and pointers. So let’s discuss 10 signs that show he’s falling for you.
1. He gets miffed, worried or downright angry when you delay in answering him.
Men usually don’t like it when women keep them waiting. And true, sometimes men get impatient when women they hardly know don’t respond online and such. A quick response to show him that you are interested.
But it’s different when a guy falls for you and then really freaks out when you go silent. Now he’s thinking “What if she’s upset?” or “Is she OK, did something happen?”
The more agitated he gets, the more telling it is that he’s falling for you. He cares and doesn’t want to lose you from his life.
2. He’s not afraid to talk about the future – in fact he brings it up.
Guys that aren’t that into you loathe thinking about the future. They are happy in the now and don’t want to even think about things like marriage. But a guy that’s fallen for you, will let you know over time that he sees a future with you. He wants to plan his life around you. This might be a subtle thing at first, but notice the pattern. It’s one of the undeniable signs that he is slowly falling for you.
3. It’s not all about sex and your love life anymore – he really wants to know what’s on your mind.
It’s no genius observation to say guys fake an interest in what a woman’s saying because they want sex!
Here’s the thing. When a man falls for you, it’s not just about lust anymore or an active love life. He becomes attracted to your personality. Your life. Your way of thinking and what’s going on in your daily routine. That’s when it’s time for intimacy, when he’s already falling for you and has given you those signs. When he is slowly falling for you, your man loves you for you. Not just your body. He cares and is forming deep feelings for you.
4. He says a lot in his eyes, not his words.
It might be a cliché to say it, but people really can “feel” what you say with your eyes. The longer you stare at a person…the way you imply thoughts with just a glance. All that is very obvious when you focus on the eyes, even if we think we’re hiding those emotions. Pay attention to what he says in those wordless moments. Watch his eyes to understand what he truly means and how he truly feels.
5. He becomes protective of you, especially around other guys.
When a man falls for you, he starts to treat you like family – even before the fact. He may get defensive around other guys (especially if they are single), or simply thinking about possible safety risks. While some guys do get carried away and become controlling, for the most part, a man simply expressing concern is a sign of great affection. He cares about you and wants you in his life.
6. He remembers all the little details about what you do or say, the stuff most guys forget!
Best way to tell if a guy is really falling for you? When he actually remembers birthdays, anniversaries, and other sentimental things. When he actually remembers specifics about what you said, or habits you have, or anything that you say in passing.
The fact is most guys do NOT retain this information. They repeat information you give them, just in the moment. They don’t remember…unless they already have emotional investment in you. If they are interested and falling for you, they will remember these sweet and random things.
7. He is always determined to make you happy.
Whereas many guys are stingy about their time, a guy that likes you will stay up late entertaining you. He will make every effort possible to make you feel good and laugh, even after a tough day. That’s when you know you’ve met someone special, someone who just wants to make your life easier and see you smile again. If he is falling for you, he will show you how much he cares by little day to day acts of kindness. From jokes and sweet comments to life advice and other related advice, the way he feels will be clear.
8. He will gladly break plans just to be around you.
Guys play hard to get when you first meet them, don’t they? They don’t want to break plans with friends, or reschedule a trip, or sometimes even get out of bed to do you a favor. They just want sex…maybe a date. A series of dates might even be too much to ask from the average guy who always fast-forwards to sex without emotional engagement.
But as he gets to know you and love you, he will start to see the value in providing for you. It makes him happy. He will make you a priority in his life even if that means turning down other people.
9. He always keeps his promises.
This is truly an expression of love to live up to your promises and to never promise something you can’t commit to doing. Even among people you trust, it’s not every day you meet someone that lives up to every promise. In a relationship, it means everything. If he is developing feelings for you, he will show it by his ability to keep commitments to you.
10. The way he touches you (or doesn’t touch you) changes.
Finally, consider that when a man starts developing intense feelings for you, he does not think so little of touch. He will either shy away from touching you too intimately (because it’s actually what he wants) or he will touch you with MORE emotion, letting you know he wants to advance in the relationship. He wants you to know he feels safe.
He may start thinking about dating or even marriage.
Final Thoughts on Undeniable Signs that He is Slowly Falling in Love (And He May Fall Fast!)
As we can see, when a man falls for you he really can’t control himself – at least when it comes to the little things. He reveals his true feelings in the details. Sometimes it takes everything he has to control himself and carefully choose his words to communicate how he feels.
But if you notice what he’s feeling, and showing in body language, you might be surprised to find out his emotions and feelings are coming out furiously.
That’s a good sign because when a man falls for a woman, he’s the one who will want to advance in the relationship. Men are happier when they lead. Learn to notice the signs and then tell him what he wants to hear, to continue growing in your love for each other.
Why Men Fall in Love
Falling in love is a unique experience that is often seen as a mystery, especially when it comes to men. It is said that men fall in love differently than women do, but what really makes a man fall in love? Is it just physical attraction, or is there something more? Let’s take a closer look at some of the factors that influence why men fall in love.
First, men tend to fall in love with women who share their interests and passions. When a man meets a woman who is passionate about the same things he is, he sees her as someone who can understand him and share his life with him. This shared passion can create a strong emotional bond between them, making it easier for him to fall in love.
Second, men fall in love with women who make them feel good about themselves. When a woman is supportive, caring, and understanding, a man feels appreciated and valued. This can make him want to spend more time with her, and eventually, develop deeper feelings for her.
Third, men fall in love with women who challenge them. When a woman is confident and independent, she can challenge a man’s beliefs and ideas, which can make him see her in a different light. This can create a sense of intrigue and excitement, making him more interested in getting to know her better.
Fourth, men fall in love with women who are kind and compassionate. When a woman shows empathy and understanding towards others, it can make a man see her as someone who is caring and nurturing. This can make him feel comfortable and safe around her, and eventually, develop deeper feelings for her.
Stages Men Go Through When Falling in Love
Like women, men go through different stages when falling in love. These stages can vary from person to person, but generally, they follow a similar pattern. Here are the common stages men go through when falling in love:
- Attraction: The first stage of falling in love is attraction. This is when a man feels physically drawn to a woman and is intrigued by her personality and qualities.
- Infatuation: The second stage is infatuation. This is when a man feels intense emotions towards the woman, often thinking about her constantly and wanting to be around her all the time.
- Connection: The third stage is connection. This is when a man starts to feel a deeper emotional bond with the woman, sharing more personal information and experiences with her.
- Intimacy: The fourth stage is intimacy. This is when a man feels comfortable enough to be vulnerable with the woman, sharing his fears and hopes with her.
- Commitment: The final stage is commitment. This is when a man decides to commit to the woman, seeing her as his long-term partner.
It’s important to note that not all men go through these stages in the same order or at the same pace. Some men may skip certain stages, while others may spend more time in one stage than another.
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3 thoughts on “10 Signs He Is Slowly Falling For You”
How do I get him to commit I have a long-term impression ship
Hi! the other day at work I was small talking with some one I have a crush on. I told him I liked his shirt and at some point in the conversation he lifted his shirt showing me his belly! I forgot what he was talking about while he did this cause it caught me off guard! Anyway it felt like there was an underlying meaning to this and I’m dying to know why he may have done this!? could it be he was showing me interest? showing me vulnerability? lol! please let me know your thoughts! Thank you!
I personally think it depends on what guy he is. If he’s quiet and shy I think he’s interested. If he’s funny and outgoing then he might not actually have hidden interest.
This is just based on my thoughts, I’m practically going crazy thinking about MY own crush who does all the ten things on the list, but I think he does it for other girls.