Two Things That Terrify All Men - And How to Help Without Him Knowing

Two Things That Terrify All Men – And How to Help Without Him Knowing

Even though he’s dying to read this article, he would never let you catch him doing it. And he certainly won’t admit to wanting to know if his deep, dark secrets are hanging out like underwear on a clothesline.

He will never tell you any of this… but I will.

Before we start, I have two warnings for you…

First, this isn’t a complete list. But these are the two biggest ones. (I’ll write more articles on other ones later…)

Second, I’m not telling you so you can shame him. I’m doing this so you can help him and be closer to him.

But you have to be sneaky, so that he doesn’t know. Be nice to your man – he worships the ground you walk on, and believe me, he knows a few of your dirty little secrets, too.

On to the good part, shall we?

GUY FEAR #1: My sexual desires are NOT okay

You know that whole thing about how guys want way more sex than women do? It’s not true. Many women want it way more than a lot of guys do, we just want it under different terms.

He just… wants it. Every possible way he can imagine it.

With your sister, your mom, the librarian (definitely the librarian), the teenager snapping her gum behind the cash register.

Think I’m joking? He’s even had a dirty fantasy about that weird shopping cart lady.

Sex movies of every description (multiple lovers, bondage, fetish, you name it) run in his brain nearly all the time, and sometimes what’s showing on the screen shocks even him.

Deep down, he’s terrified that he wants sex too much, or in the wrong ways, with the wrong people.

His sex drive is a formidable machine, and it’s a testament to his power that he doesn’t let it drive his life, only his brain.

Here’s What YOU Can Do to Help

If you want him to feel less afraid about his sexual desires, you need to create an atmosphere of openness in your intimate life with him…

Now, let’s be clear… I’m not saying you have to DO everything that he THINKS about. But you do have to be willing to ask him to talk about his fantasies and avoid shaming, attacking, or disrespecting him because of them.

Instead, try inviting him to give you steamy details. Just the act of sharing can be a tremendous gift of sexual energy between the two of you.

This will help him learn to make YOU the star of his sexual fantasies instead of some generic woman he thinks up in his mind, even if all you do is tell him a dirty story during foreplay.

And finally, remember to let him know that you’re sexually satisfied! If you can do this, he’s going to become so riveted by you he’ll never want to let you go.

EVERY man wants to know he can sexually satisfy a woman.

GUY FEAR #2: Other Men Think I’m Weak

You’ve gotta have some compassion for the expectations place on men…

They’re expected to get a respectable paycheck, make women feel secure, (not think about sex so much), beat out the other guys, support the winning team, be tough, overcome all the obstacles in their way, scare away the bad guys, and never show fatigue, fear, or ANYthing except sheer strength and confidence.

Let’s be honest, it’s a lot to live up to.

Actually, it’s pretty much impossible to live up to.

And yet that’s the challenge they hear every single day. And if they don’t answer it – actually DOMINATE it – their fear is that they will be publicly shamed, humiliated, despised…

Not so much by you or by other women (although they hate the idea of that, too), but by other MEN.

But that doesn’t mean YOU don’t have power. Every man wants a woman who is unreservedly, whole-heartedly ON HIS SIDE. Your support actually adds to his power in the world of other men.

Here’s How You Can Help…

I have a question for you: if he’s fighting his way through the field of his life, do you ever even show up to support him? And if you do, can he hear your enthusiastic, genuine support?

I’m not saying you have to actually get out your cheerleader skirt and shimmy and shout (although he’ll probably appreciate that, see #1 above!), but there IS a way to let him know you’re seeing how hard he works, and you want him to win.

Encourage him to tell you about his daily battles. Lean in and attentively soak up every bit.

Ask for details. Don’t multitask while you’re doing this; give him your full focus. Be his raving fan.

And offer him your sincere admiration. Let him know how strong you find him, how amazing his accomplishments and abilities are. If you can make him feel like you believe in him and are on his side no matter what, you are going to ADDICT him to you.

3 Steps to Make a Man Love You

If you’re sick of “Bad Boys,” “Players” and guys who just won’t commit, you need to go watch this new video renowned relationship expert Michael Fiore put up. It’s called “3 Steps To Make A Man Love You” and it teaches you how to make a man not just “fall” for a you…

But to actually make him obsessed with you so HE decides he WANTS to be serious…

Click here to watch the video <<

Michael lays out the absolute truth about what men really want and need from a woman for them to be able to give EVERYTHING to her…

(In fact, he flat out tells you how his girlfriend Captured His Heart and made him fall for her HARD even though he was “playing the field” and thought he’d never settle down.)

Talk soon,

Matthew Coast

P.S. You may have heard of Mike Fiore as “the guy who made Rachel Ray tingle.” Yep, and when he was on her show, he had written several books (mostly for guys like himself) on how to get more women.

These days things are a little different for this former “player”… Now all that delicious woman-tingling action goes to ONE special lady.

And now you can find out exactly how to command the complete devotion of a man of your own…

Go watch the video now!

Click here to watch the video <<





16 thoughts on “Two Things That Terrify All Men – And How to Help Without Him Knowing”

  1. sarahcleveland768@gmail.com
    This guy that says I am his girlfriend is 74 years old and still wants to have all kind of woman and can’t respect me as he should, he barely talks to me and when we are along he is either got his face ion his phone or computer. I have tried to get answers, he uses my questions against me and place the silent game and nothing is never solved, because he is still doing what he wants and I am the unhappy one. When we are out with other people I am just left alone while he is all in other women’s face and hugging and kissing like I am not there. I realize I N the stupid one here because we always get to arguments when I question his actions. He refuse to sit down and communicate with me.

    1. Loretta Parcells

      He says you’re his girlfriend in words, but it seems his actions are telling a whole another story. I don’t know how you even tolerate his presence. Let him have his multitude of women. Know your value, don’t allow him to cheapen you. Demonstrate by YOUR actions you deserve someone who treats you with respect, appreciation and love. You need an empty space next to you for love to come your way.

    2. Mary Quinlan

      Hahahahahaha He behaves like that at 74? This is an old comment from 2018, so forgive me for asking but is he still alive today?
      His behaviour is unacceptable at any age! He sounds like a Narcissist and they never get better. I hope you left him by now. Take care of yourself.

    3. Rhonda Holloway

      He just wants his and eat it to.Don’t be anyone’s left overs or second choice. If you can’t be the number one in his life you don’t need him.Have more self respect for yoursrlf and your feelings.You are wasting your time and life is to short to spend another minute with someone that truly doesn’t respect you or your feelings, move on your dealinh with a narcissist that only cares about himself, his needs, his wants and noone else’s.You have to love yourself before anyone else will. You are worth more than what you have been getting.Your friend is a selfish jerk who is very inconsiderate of your feelings.Cut the cord now and move on with your life.

  2. How do I know if he really loves me when he lives out of state & will only communication is texting? Says he has trouble with his phone. He is currently over seas on business.

    1. Dear , When two people are in a relationship. They are not communicated by appointment, message, email or chat. Their connection is through the heart❤
      Exactly what you feel, he feels too .You both experience one thing, peace, certainty, insecurity, distress, hope, hopelessness. Whatever it’s , Exactly the same.
      Tell him more about your love affair, he will surely escape if he is not committed.
      Emotions take time to become love, maybe even months . Be successful

    2. If you don’t meet him, and communicate via Skype or phone calls, this is red flags to me. What is he hiding and who else does he have.. actions speak louder than words…

  3. I just met this guy, we first got attracted to each other.but when he asked of my age I told him . although he is 3years older than me. He is 36 years and am 33 years. Since then his behaviors has changed towards me.the question is, am I too old for him or is age a barrier in a relationship? Please I need a very good answer am confused

    1. Loretta Parcells

      Judith, I don’t know why he asked your age. Does he have a qualifier? It’s bad manners to ask a woman her age, and I’ve told more than a few men that, knowing that if he doesn’t know better, it’s not going to be anything between us. 33 is a young woman so if he a problem with that he just has a problem period. I never tell my age, men nor women because it not something they need to know. I wouldn’t want a guy to not approach because he thinks because I’m older I’m not interested (not the case). Just be you, you are the same at any age.

      1. Rebecca Taylor

        3 years older. That’s not much. Your ages have nothing to do with anything. It does not change who you are. Lots of people have five years or more age different.

    2. If he was 15 or 20 years older I could understand his concerns,but 3 is nothing, unless he hasn’t told you the truth.

  4. Sarah Brookes

    Hi im corresponding with a guy who says he is in usa. I know he has lied to me in the past. He refuses to speak to me by phone and it worries me. Should i cut him loose.
    He wants me to travel overseas and meet up with him. What do you think

  5. Hey Matthew.
    My bf likes younger girls and likes that my “breasts are like a teenager’s”. That freaks me out a bit, because I do not like the idea that it seems he would like a teenager. Is this normal for a man?

    Pse I really need to know.

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