Let’s assume by now the guy you’re crushing on likes you. He texts you every now and then and whenever you do happen to see each other a conversation always happens. Great! He’s started flirting and the tension between the two of you is growing.
Sex hasn’t happened yet, but that’s good. As we’ve often said on this blog, don’t sleep with him too soon or else it changes the whole dynamic. You want to play upon his attraction to you by stimulating him in other ways – like conversation and sharing new experiences together.
So what you’re going for as the relationship progresses is “sweet” – not full gushing romantic yet, since he’s not quite ready for that. But yes, a little more intense and intimate than mindless flirting. By now he knows that he cherishes the friendship he has with you. Now, he’s taking things seriously, realizing that if he wants sex with you it requires high emotional investment.
That’s why “sweet” works. Sweet messages, particularly text messages which he can read at his convenience, the remind him that the relationship is going well. You both have that intense an attraction and you are validating his feelings, letting him know it’s not just mindless flirtation. Something is very real here and the two of you should explore it!
So let’s list 10 “sweet” paragraphs to write him that can validate his feelings, encourage him to keep chasing you, and intensify the attraction you already feel. Feel free to adapt these paragraphs to your own unique situation.
1. You know what I like about you? You’re kind of a rebel and a bad boy and that’s hot. But you also have the sweetest side to you that only a few people see. And I really think that’s incredible. Since the first day I met you, I just sensed that there was something special about you.
2. You are so handsome. Sometimes I don’t even think you realize just how hot you are! But as a woman, I assure you, every girl is secretly checking you out.
3. Sometimes I wish I could have found someone like you, you know, back before I became so jaded. I would have liked to meet you with young, innocent eyes. Sometimes when we talk a long time, I feel that side of me coming back. The romantic idealist side. You feel almost too good to be true sometimes. But then you say something sweet and remind me that you are as real as they come.
4. Sometimes I don’t trust myself around you. I trust you…but I sometimes the effect you have on me is so intense. I wonder what you’re thinking. I keep picturing you in my mind. I feel like I want to resist you and yet I can’t think of a reason why. Maybe you’re just a little too good, a little too handsome and witty. But I’ve got my eye on you, mister.
5. You have an amazing way with words. I could listen to you for hours. I could read an entire book you wrote. I could just spend days with you on some deserted island somewhere. Because I trust you, I feel safe with you, and I care for you as a friend. And yeah…there is part of me, a very bad part of me, that finds you extremely attractive.
6. If and when you ever get to feeling sad, (NAME), remember this. I think of you as an angel, a good friend, a valiant knight. No matter what happens, I will always cherish the times we’ve had together. And we’ve had so many good chats, so many good “dates” if you don’t mind me calling them that. Thank you for being there for me and for being one of the very few people who accept me, understands me, and just appreciates me for who I am.
7. Sometimes a woman needs to hear a genuine compliment. You’ve always been kind to me and you never let me forget that I’m “beautiful” and “amazing” – your own words! And sure, a lot of guys might say that kind of thing. But sometimes I just need to hear it from a man I trust and respect and just admire completely. Don’t ever stop appreciating me like that…sometimes you keep me going, my dear friends.
8. You’re not just interesting to talk to. You’ve taught me so much about life, about various subjects, about finding joy and happiness. I’ve learned a lot from you. I think you’ve even changed the way I think about somethings. And don’t think I haven’t noticed how often you’re there for me, how much you care about my feelings. You’re always my shoulder to cry on and the best laugh of the day. You’re more than a friend, you know.
9. I think you know by now that I like you. I like your company. I love talking to you. I think I liked you way before you even knew that I liked you. I just kept my distance because well…the time wasn’t right. But I always knew there was something about you I really liked. You had a mysterious sexy aura that I found hard to resist.
10. You are hilarious! Even when we argue, you make it funny and just crazy! I love your sense of humor and randomness. I think you’ve kind of spoiled me actually. Ever since we started chatting, everyone else is just so boring.
When you’re writing your own paragraphs, remember that most men want the same thing. They want compliments, they want attention, they want to talk about themselves and feel appreciated, and they want to know that you do feel some attraction to them – definitely NOT just a respectable friendship.
Let him know he’s a priority in your life. Reward him and encourage him to keep chasing you. If he’s serious about this relationship, let him know that you are just as intrigued as he is!
The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys a Man’s Love For You And Drives Him Out Of Your Life
There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…
It usually comes out as an honest question when you want to connect with him…
But only serves to push him away and slowly kill your relationship from the inside out…
It can take a man who is filled with love and passion for you…
And make him feel cold, distant, and uninterested…
Have you figured out what it is yet?
Many women send this as a text message when they’re feeling insecure…
And then are confused why he suddenly pulls away and disappears completely…
Most of the women who ask it don’t even know how harmful it is…
Yet it can take a relationship that seems like it’s perfect…
A relationship where you feel loved, cared for, and like you’ve finally found “the one”…
And overnight, it can tear that relationship apart…
Leaving you confused, frustrated, and heartbroken…
If you don’t know what this simple yet seemingly innocent question is…
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