Navigating the dating world can sometimes feel like walking through a minefield.
While it’s important to be true to yourself, there are certain behaviors that might be pushing potential partners away without you even realizing it.
I’ve noticed a pattern of dating mistakes that can turn men off and hinder your journey towards finding a meaningful connection. Let’s dive into what these are and how you can avoid them.
Being a Tease
Flirting is a natural part of dating, but there’s a fine line between playful teasing and leading someone on.
Constantly hinting at romantic possibilities without any intention of following through can make you seem insincere.
It’s crucial to be clear about your intentions to maintain trust and respect in the budding relationship.
Focusing Too Much on Accomplishments and Money
While it’s great to be proud of your achievements and financial success, making these the main focus of your conversations can come across as self-absorbed and masculine.
Relationships thrive on emotional connection, not just a resume of accomplishments. And most guys don’t want to compete for who is the more masculine person in the relationship.
Share your passions and interests instead of just your job title or bank account balance. And avoid competing on resume.
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Playing Hard to Get
While the idea of playing hard to get might seem like a way to increase interest, it often backfires.
Being overly elusive can make it seem like you’re not interested at all, which can discourage someone who’s genuinely trying to connect with you.
Authenticity and openness foster a deeper connection than games ever will.
Having an Entitled Mindset
Entitlement, or expecting certain behaviors without showing appreciation, can be a huge turn-off.
It’s important to recognize and value the effort your date puts into your time together.
Gratitude goes a long way in making someone feel valued and can strengthen your bond.
Having Ridiculously High Standards
Women are generally known for having much higher standards for men than men have for women… and you should have standards if you value yourself!
The problem comes when the standards don’t make any sense or the percentage of men who fit those standards is almost none.
Usually, the reason this happens is because of past trauma or a fear of making a bad choice in men or that you’ll end up with someone who is abusive, toxic, or just wrong for you.
Fortunately, there’s actually a really easy way to determine whether a guy is going to make a good partner. It’s called Value Screening… basically, you focus on chemistry first.
With this, you can often weed out most of the wrong men before you even go on your first date!
If you want to learn more about Value Screening and how to attract the right guy for you, make sure you attend one of my next online workshops.
Wearing TOO MUCH Makeup
While makeup is a personal choice and a form of self-expression, going overboard might send the wrong message.
It’s not about abandoning makeup but rather ensuring it enhances your natural beauty without overshadowing who you are.
Remember, genuine connections are built on authenticity.
Being Too Hard/ “Masculine”
Embracing your strength and independence is wonderful, but if it comes off as being unapproachable or dismissive of vulnerability, it might hinder forming a deep connection.
Attract is created through polarity. If you want him to be more attracted to you, step into your feminine and push him into his masculine.
Avoiding these dating mistakes isn’t about changing who you are but rather about fostering genuine connections by being mindful of how your actions and attitudes are perceived.
It’s about finding a balance between being true to yourself and connecting with others.
Mistakes That Keep You Single And Push Him Away
I want you to imagine that you meet the perfect man…
He’s smart, he’s charming, he’s everything you’re looking for.
But it seems like everything you say and do just pushes him away…
You’re awkward, you just sit there in silence, when you do say something, he seems to take it the wrong way.
This happens with a lot of women I talk to…
They’re smart, they’re beautiful, they have so much going for them…
But every guy they’re into seems to not be into them and the guy eventually pulls away and disappears.
Connection is like the fuel of a relationship…
Without it, a relationship can’t even start… or it can die.
If you’re ready to discover how to attract and connect with a man in a way that makes him feel closer to you and want something more with you instead of pushing him away…
Register for the workshop coming up…
I’ll show you the 4 steps to attract the man you want and connect with him in a way that will lead to your happily ever after.
Talk soon,
Matthew Coast
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