WARNING: The Dating Advice You Use Could Be Pushing Him Away... And You Won’t Know It Until It’s Too Late
Are the dating techniques you’re using slowly pushing away the men you’re dating until they disappear on you?
Are you driving the man you’re with into another woman’s arms and you don’t even know it?
A few months ago, I had a woman come to my website and tell me her story…
She had been in and out of relationships over the last several years and she didn’t understand why.
She had been using techniques and strategies from other dating websites and programs that she had purchased but the results always seemed to be the same.
She would meet a guy and he would be totally into her. She’d use some of the advice she was given and things would go well for a few weeks or a couple months.
But eventually, the man she was dating would stop communicating, start pulling away and ultimately, leave her for another woman.
She came to me because she was at the point where she felt like she couldn’t trust men anymore. She wanted a real solution and I was her last stop before she was going to give up on dating and men altogether.
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That’s where I will give you some of my best advice and information to create the committed relationship that you desire. Here’s the problem…
Most Dating Advice is Technique Based...
And some of those techniques are extremely powerful.
But techniques alone aren’t always enough… in order for a technique to be useful to you, it has to align with something I call your “Long Term Perspective.”
Most dating advice has a short term focus… it’s designed to give you immediate, short term results.
And while it’s important to get immediate results… if the techniques and advice you’re using doesn’t also help you create the relationship you want in the long run…
…Like if it helps you get a lot of immediate attention but doesn’t create the foundation for a loving, secure, committed relationship…
Then you need to stop using those techniques and use something that focuses on what you want in the long run.
Here’s the deal…
Not All Dating Advice Will Give You The Relationship You Want
If you don’t mind being in and out of relationships for the rest of your life, any dating advice will do.
If you’re just looking for a “friend with benefits” type of relationship that doesn’t go anywhere, use whatever techniques you find anywhere on the internet.
But if you’re looking to create a committed, secure, loving relationship, only use advice that fits into your Long Term Perspective.
Here’s some of the bad dating advice that you want to stay from away…
1. Technique based advice.
Watch out for anything that is a “do this, say that” type of advice without a lifestyle or mindset component.
If you want a successful relationship, it takes time, effort, and personal growth. There’s no such thing as a “say this and he’ll love you forever” technique that actually works.
Most of the people who are selling that type of advice are scammers and marketers who just want to make some quick money and don’t have your long term interests at heart.
2. Anything that claims you should play games, get a guy to chase you, or manipulate him in some way.
This is the ultimate quick-fix solution that NEVER works out in the long run. All of these things will get you immediate results but will ALWAYS drive a man away from you.
There are a lot of immature men who use the same kind of stuff on the women they’re dating. I suggest that you avoid this type of advice and anyone you know who uses this type of advice.
If a guy uses something like this on you, tell him that you don’t use that type of stuff and to let you know when he’s ready for a real relationship.
Relationships are about creating a partnership now… where two people stay together with each other because they enrich each other’s lives from being together.
If you want a lasting relationship where your partner loves you for who you are, I suggest you throw away all the games and focus on real relationship advice that actually works.
Trading is either giving to get something… or its not giving until you get something.
Either one of these situations creates long-term resentment in your partner.
Here’s an example… there’s a lot of dating advice out there which talks about withholding sex from a man in order to get what you want from him.
This can work immediately if you’re looking to get something from your partner. However, from a Long Term Perspective, this will only make him resent you in the long run.
Obviously, if you don’t want to have sex with him, don’t have sex with him.
But don’t use sex as a means to get what you want in the relationship. This always leads to resentment and will destroy a relationship from the inside out.
Withholding sex is an example of not giving until you get something.
An example of giving to get something is complimenting a guy in order to get a compliment back.
While this may seem harmless, it’s very inauthentic. And most guys can sense that this is what you’re doing.
And instead of feeling grateful that you’re complimenting him, he feels like you’re just trying to get something from him… which you are.
Eventually, he’ll stop wanting to participate because it’s not about being in a relationship, it’s about dealing in transactions.
Trading rarely works in general. And when it does, it doesn’t work in creating a healthy, commitment relationship.
If you want to create a secure, loving relationship, you need to focus on one thing…
Only Use Dating Advice That Fits Into Your Long Term Perspective
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