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should i?
AnsweredMatthew Coast answered 2 years ago • 
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is the guy for real
AnsweredMatthew Coast answered 3 years ago • 
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What am I doing wrong
AnsweredMatthew Coast answered 3 years ago • 
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What happened? Can ex's really be friends?
ClosedMatthew Coast answered 3 years ago • 
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Writing a letter
AnsweredMatthew Coast answered 3 years ago • 
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What is my next move.
AnsweredMatthew Coast answered 3 years ago • 
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Matt, I need your help. so basically there's a guy I've been working with for a few years. We always got on very well…anyway to cut a long story short he brought up the fact that we should try a friends with benefits situation. spent the night at his place he was super affectionate cuddled. asked me to sleep over even though we weren't going to have sex. was cuddly the next morning. I kept pulling away as I thought the affectionate thing would confuse the situation. hen it all went south. He said that he doesn't feel right about the friends with benefits thing because it feels like he's using me. He said that I'm not ready for a relationship and neither is he. so we left it there but now he's really awkward. avoids me, looks a little upset. I don't really understand this. nothing happened so it should be easy to go back to being just friends right. It's been 2 weeks and he's still acting awkward. so I got annoyed n he didn't seem to like the idea. He won't speak to me in person so it's difficult to have a convo with him. I basically sent him a message saying that I wish things could go back to normal now. I don't see the point of us avoiding and ignoring each other for ever and asked if he just needed space. We work together so I would be appreciative if things could be ok. ppl at work are starting to take notice. what should I do in this scenario. I care about him n he's a good friend don't want to cut him out of my life completely. If he doesn't want anything more that fine. I can get over that. But i don't know what to make of his behaviour
AnsweredMatthew Coast answered 3 years ago • 
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what happened?
AnsweredMatthew Coast answered 3 years ago • 
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