You're still in love with him.

The relationship ended, but in your heart, the story isn't over.

You feel like there's unfinished business between you - like if you could just get him to see what you see, to remember what you had, to give it another chance, everything could work out.

So you're trying to finish the story.

Reaching out. Reminding him of good times. Trying to prove you've changed.

Maybe even hooking up, hoping it will reignite what you once had.

But here's the devastating truth: every attempt you make to finish the old story is actually writing the final chapter - the one where he walks away for good.

This isn't just "wanting your ex back."

This is The Unfinished Story - a specific pattern where you're so focused on continuing or completing what you had that you're accidentally creating the exact opposite of what you want.

You're trying to pull him back into the relationship he LEFT.

And the more you try, the further he pulls away.

I'm Matthew Coast, and since 2013, I've helped hundreds of thousands of women get their exes back - let's me explain why trying to finish the old story doesn't work and what to do instead.

I'll show you what's really happening and how to turn this around before it's too late.

The Unfinished Story is the pattern where you're so focused on getting back what you lost - the relationship, the connection, the love you once shared - that every action you take is trying to resurrect or continue the old relationship.

Not realizing that he doesn't WANT to go back to what he left.

Which means your attempts to finish the story are actually ensuring it stays unfinished forever.

This isn't just "missing your ex" or "wanting him back."

This is a specific pattern where you're operating from a fundamental misunderstanding of what it takes to reattract a man after a breakup.

You believe (understandably) that the way to get him back is to:

• Remind him of what you had
• Show him you've changed
• Prove how much you care
• Recreate the connection you once shared
• Help him remember the good times

But here's what you don't realize: He doesn't want to go back to the relationship he left.

That's WHY he left in the first place.

The old relationship = pain, problems, patterns that didn't work.

So every time you try to pull him back into it - through memories, through proving yourself, through recreating what was - you're actually reminding him of what he wanted to ESCAPE.

The Cycle That's Keeping You Trapped

The Unfinished Story keeps you trapped in a cycle where:

You're focused on continuing the old relationship → which reminds him why he left → which makes him pull away more → which makes you try harder to recreate what you had → which pushes him further away → and the cycle continues until he's completely gone.

This is The Unfinished Story - and it's the #1 reason women lose their exes permanently.

If You're Actively Trying to Get Him Back:

You can't stop thinking about what you had together.

The relationship ended, but it doesn't FEEL finished to you.

You keep replaying the good moments - the way he looked at you, the inside jokes, the connection you shared - and you think "if I could just make him remember THIS, he'd want to come back."

So you reach out with messages that reference shared memories.

You suggest meeting up at places that meant something to you both.

You try to recreate the spark by reminding him of what you had.

Maybe you've hooked up since the breakup, hoping that physical intimacy would reignite the emotional connection.

Maybe you've told him you've changed or grown or figured out what went wrong.

You're trying everything you can think of to show him that the relationship COULD work - that the story doesn't have to end here.

But instead of pulling him closer, every attempt seems to push him further away.

He's distant. Cold.

Sometimes he responds, but it leads nowhere. Sometimes he doesn't respond at all.

You feel like you're losing him more with every day that passes, but you don't know what else to do.

You just can't accept that the story is over when it feels so unfinished.

If You've Had Some Contact But It's Going Nowhere:

You're in this weird limbo where you're still in contact with him - maybe texting occasionally, maybe even hooking up sometimes - but it's not leading anywhere.

He's keeping you at arm's length.

Maybe he says he's "not ready for a relationship" or needs "time" or wants to "just be friends for now."

You're stuck in this painful in-between where he hasn't completely shut you out, but he's not coming back either.

So you're trying to use the contact you DO have to rebuild what you had.

You're being available when he reaches out.

You're being supportive and understanding.

You're giving him space when he needs it and being there when he wants you.

You're trying to show him through your actions that you're the woman he fell in love with.

Maybe you're sleeping with him, thinking that maintaining physical intimacy will eventually lead back to emotional intimacy.

But weeks or months pass, and nothing changes.

He takes what you give but doesn't invest back.

You feel like you're stuck in a story that won't move forward but won't end either - and you don't know how to change it.

You Might Recognize This As...

The constant pull to recreate the past: You find yourself suggesting activities you used to do together, bringing up memories of good times, trying to remind him of what you had - thinking that if he just remembers how good it was, he'll want it back.

The "prove you've changed" trap: You're trying to show him you've addressed the problems, grown as a person, fixed what was broken - believing that if you can just demonstrate you're different now, he'll give the relationship another chance.

The post-breakup hookup hope: You've slept with him since the breakup (maybe once, maybe multiple times), hoping that physical intimacy will reignite the emotional connection and lead back to a real relationship.

The "invested girlfriend" behavior: You're still acting like his girlfriend - being supportive, available, understanding, helpful - thinking that if you show him what he's missing, he'll realize he wants you back.

The closure conversation obsession: You keep trying to have "one more talk" to explain, understand, fix, or finish things - believing that the right conversation will change everything.

Does This Sound Familiar?

You reference shared memories when you text him.

"Remember when we..." or "This song reminded me of..." or "I drove past the place where we..." - you're constantly trying to activate his nostalgia, thinking memories will pull him back.

You've changed yourself to address what went wrong.

Maybe you worked on jealousy issues, or communication problems, or whatever you think caused the breakup - and you're trying to show him you're different now, better now, ready for the relationship to work now.

You've hooked up since the breakup.

It felt amazing in the moment - like you were connected again, like things could go back to normal. But afterward, nothing changed. He didn't come back. You're left feeling used and more confused than ever.

You keep giving him "one more chance" to step up.

He reaches out with breadcrumbs - a late night text, a "hey how are you," an excuse to see you. You respond immediately, hoping THIS time it means he's ready to come back. But it never goes anywhere. He gets what he wants and disappears again.

You analyze every interaction for signs.

"He texted me first - that must mean something." "He liked my photo - maybe he's thinking about me." "He asked how I was doing - is he testing the waters?" You're searching for evidence that the story is moving toward reunion.

You can't move on because it feels unfinished.

Friends tell you to let go and move forward, but you CAN'T because the relationship doesn't feel complete. There's unfinished business. Unresolved feelings. A story that shouldn't end this way.

You're stuck between hope and despair.

Some days you're convinced he'll come back and everything will be okay. Other days you're devastated that you're losing him. The emotional whiplash is exhausting.

The Truth About The Unfinished Story

Here's what you need to understand:

The Unfinished Story isn't about the relationship being incomplete - it's about you trying to force a dead relationship back to life instead of creating a new one.

Every action you're taking is focused on:

• Continuing the old relationship
• Recreating what you had
• Proving the old relationship could work
• Finishing the story that ended

But he doesn't want to finish that story. He ended it for a reason.

He may have loved you. He may have had amazing times with you.

But the relationship as it was didn't work for him.

When you try to pull him back into it - through memories, through proving you've changed, through physical intimacy, through being the supportive "girlfriend" - you're asking him to return to something he wanted to LEAVE.

This is why nothing you've tried has worked.

And it's why every day you continue trying to finish the old story is a day you push him further from ever starting a new one with you.

Most women trying to get their ex back believe the problem is:

• They just need to remind him of how good things were
• They need to prove they've changed or grown
• They need to maintain connection/contact so he doesn't forget about them
• They need to show him through actions that they're worth another chance
• Time and patience will eventually bring him back

But here's what's actually happening:

The Unfinished Story isn't failing because you're not trying hard enough or doing it right - it's failing because you're fundamentally misunderstanding what a man needs to reattract to you after a breakup.

The Truth That Changes Everything

Here's the truth that changes everything:

Men don't want to go back to relationships they left. They want something NEW.

This is the key insight most women miss:

When a relationship ends, your ex doesn't think "I hope someday I can have that exact same relationship back."

He thinks "That didn't work. I need something different."

The old relationship = the thing that caused him pain/frustration/disappointment.

So when you try to:

• Recreate memories from the old relationship
• Hook up the way you used to
• Be the girlfriend you were before
• Prove the old relationship could work

You're literally asking him to return to the source of his pain.

Even if you've changed, even if you've grown, even if you've "fixed" the problems - if you're positioning it as going BACK to what you had, his brain registers it as a threat.

Why?

Because men are psychologically wired to pursue what's new, exciting, and different - not to return to what they left behind.

What's Happening Beneath the Surface

Here's what's happening beneath the surface:

When you try to get your ex back by finishing the old story, you're creating what I call a "Broken Attachment."

A Broken Attachment is when you're trying to reconnect with him using the same patterns, dynamics, and energy from the relationship that already failed.

It works like this:

Stage 1: The Breakup Creates Distance

When the relationship ends, there's emotional and physical distance created. This distance is actually GOOD for potential reattraction because it allows both of you to reset. But most women panic at this distance and immediately try to close it.

Stage 2: You Try to Bridge the Gap by Recreating the Past

Because the relationship feels unfinished, you reach out in ways that reference or recreate what you had: shared memories, inside jokes, familiar activities, physical intimacy. You're trying to remind him of the connection you shared and pull him back into it.

Stage 3: He Associates You with the Old Relationship

Every time you reference the past, try to recreate what you had, or act like his girlfriend still, his brain links you to the old relationship. And the old relationship = what didn't work, what he needed to leave, what caused him pain/frustration/disappointment.

Stage 4: The Broken Attachment Forms

Now you're stuck. You want connection, so you keep trying to recreate what you had. But every attempt reinforces his association of you with the failed relationship. The more you try to finish the old story, the more "broken" the attachment becomes - until he actively pulls away from you to avoid the pain of what you represent.

Stage 5: You Try Harder, He Pulls Away More

Sensing you're losing him, you intensify your efforts - more messages referencing memories, more attempts to see him, more "proof" you've changed, maybe more hookups. 

But this makes it worse because you're still operating within the Broken Attachment framework. He sees all of this as you trying to pull him back into what he left, so he pulls away harder.

This is why women who desperately want their ex back often push them away permanently.

Not because they care too much - but because they're trying to finish a story their ex is done reading.

Why Common Advice Doesn't Work (Or Makes It Worse)

"Remind him of the good times you had together"

This seems logical - if he remembers how good it was, he'll want it back, right? 

Wrong. Memories of good times are still memories of the OLD relationship. 

When you bring them up, he doesn't think "I want that back." 

He thinks "Yeah, but that relationship ended. Those good times weren't enough." Nostalgia doesn't create forward momentum - it keeps you both stuck in the past.

"Show him you've changed and can make it work now"

Again, sounds smart. If you've addressed the problems, he should give you another chance, right? Problem: when you frame it as "I've changed so we can make the OLD relationship work," you're still asking him to go back. Even if you HAVE changed, positioning it as resurrection of what you had triggers his resistance. He doesn't want the old relationship 2.0 - he wants something completely new.

"Stay in contact so he doesn't forget about you"

This is one of the most damaging pieces of advice. Staying in contact while still operating in The Unfinished Story pattern means every interaction reinforces the Broken Attachment. 

You're keeping yourself in his life, but as a reminder of what didn't work. 

The more contact you have while trying to finish the old story, the more you cement yourself as "ex-girlfriend trying to get back together" instead of creating space for something new.

"Hook up with him to maintain physical connection"

This backfires spectacularly. Men can EASILY separate physical intimacy from emotional commitment. 

When you hook up hoping it will lead back to a relationship, you're actually teaching him he can have the physical benefits without the emotional investment. 

You're reinforcing a Broken Attachment where he gets what he wants (sex) without moving toward what you want (relationship). This keeps you stuck indefinitely.

"Be patient and give it time - he'll come around"

Time alone doesn't fix The Unfinished Story. In fact, time while continuing to try to finish the old story usually makes things worse. 

The longer you operate in Broken Attachment mode, the more cemented it becomes.

Patience is only valuable if you're doing the RIGHT things during that time. 

Otherwise, you're just giving him more time to move on completely while you stay stuck.

What Actually Creates Reattraction

Here's the counterintuitive truth:

To get your ex back, you don't finish the old story - you start a completely NEW one.

This is what I call a "Relationship Restart."

Instead of trying to:

• Continue where you left off
• Recreate what you had
• Prove the old relationship could work
• Finish the unfinished story

You create the conditions for a FRESH START:

• New dynamic between you
• New feelings and experiences
• New pursuit and attraction
• New relationship entirely

When you do this right, something powerful happens:

His brain shifts from "ex-girlfriend trying to get me back into what I left" to "interesting woman I have history with who seems different now and makes me feel something new."

The difference is EVERYTHING.

In the first frame, he resists and pulls away.

In the second frame, he pursues and leans in.

Why This Works When Trying to Finish the Story Doesn't

Men are psychologically wired to pursue NEW things that trigger their curiosity and attraction.

When you try to finish the old story, you're offering him something OLD that he already decided he didn't want.

When you create a Relationship Restart, you're triggering his:

• Curiosity (something feels different about you)
• Pursuit instinct (you're not chasing him anymore)
• Desire for novelty (this feels new and exciting, not like the old relationship)
• Emotional engagement (new experiences create new emotions, not just recycled old ones)

But Here's the Advantage You Have

Unlike meeting a completely new woman, YOU have history with him.

If he's been in love with you before, those emotional pathways exist.

Reactivating love with someone who's felt it before is MUCH easier than creating it from scratch.

So when you combine:

• The power of novelty (Relationship Restart - something new)
• With the advantage of history (he's loved you before)

You have an unfair advantage over any other woman he could meet.

But ONLY if you stop trying to finish the old story and start creating a new one instead.

This Is About More Than Just This Relationship

The Unfinished Story isn't just about THIS ex and THIS relationship.

This is about a fundamental pattern in how you approach lost connections - and if you don't understand it, you risk:

• Permanently losing this ex by pushing him away through Broken Attachment patterns
• Repeating this in future relationships where any conflict or breakup triggers the same "try to finish the story" response
• Staying stuck in limbo for months or years with an ex who won't commit but won't fully let go either
• Losing your dignity and self-respect by chasing someone who's pulling away
• Missing the window when restart is possible because you wasted it trying to finish instead

The truth is:

Right now, you might still have a chance to restart the relationship with your ex.

But every day you spend trying to finish the old story is a day you push him further away.

Every message that references the past, every attempt to recreate what you had, every hookup that doesn't lead anywhere - these are closing the door on the possibility of a Relationship Restart.

There's a window when restart is possible.

But that window closes if you keep trying to finish instead of restart.

Right now, you're trying to get him back by finishing the old story.

You think if you just try hard enough, prove yourself enough, remind him of what you had - eventually he'll see the light and come back.

But if you continue down this path - if you keep operating in Broken Attachment mode, trying to resurrect the old relationship - here's what actually happens:

Two weeks from now: You've sent more messages referencing shared memories or trying to maintain connection. Maybe he's responded, maybe he hasn't. 

Either way, it's not leading anywhere. You might have seen him - maybe you hooked up again. It felt like progress in the moment, but afterward, nothing changed. 

He's still distant. Still non-committal. You're starting to panic that you're losing ground instead of gaining it. 

The emotional whiplash between hope (when he responds) and despair (when it leads nowhere) is exhausting. You're checking your phone constantly. 

Analyzing every word in his texts. Trying to figure out what to say or do next to move things forward. But you're just going in circles.

One month from now: You're deeper into the Broken Attachment pattern. 

You've tried different approaches - sometimes giving him space, sometimes reaching out, sometimes being supportive, sometimes being distant. Nothing seems to work consistently. 

He's treating you like an option, not a priority. He reaches out when it's convenient for him, usually late at night. Maybe you're in a "friends with benefits" limbo where you're hooking up but he won't commit. 

Or maybe he's pulled away almost completely and barely responds to your messages. Either way, you're not getting what you want - and you're starting to feel used, confused, and pathetic. 

Your friends are telling you to move on, but you can't because you still believe there's a chance. The uncertainty is killing you.

Three months from now: One of three things has happened. 

Option A: He's completely pulled away and stopped responding. You've pushed him so far with your attempts to finish the old story that he's shut you out entirely. Maybe he blocked you. Maybe he just ignores your messages. Either way, you've lost him. 

Option B: You're stuck in a degrading situation where he's using you for physical intimacy or emotional support but won't commit to a relationship. You're accepting breadcrumbs because it's better than nothing, but it's destroying your self-respect. You know you should walk away, but you're holding onto hope that it will change. It won't. 

Option C: He's moved on to someone new. You see it on social media or hear about it from mutual friends. He's in a relationship with someone else. The story you couldn't let go of is definitely finished now - just not the way you wanted.

Six months from now: If you're still trying to finish the old story six months later, you're in serious trouble. 

Either you've been stuck in a toxic limbo situation for half a year (where he keeps you on the hook but won't commit), or you've lost him completely and spent six months mourning something you could have saved if you'd known the right approach. 

You look back at all the desperate messages, the hookups that led nowhere, the times you made yourself available and he didn't step up - and you feel humiliated. You've wasted six months of your life trying to resurrect something that needed to be restarted instead. 

Meanwhile, he's moved on. He might be in a serious relationship with someone new. He might barely remember you. 

The window for a Relationship Restart has closed completely because you didn't understand the difference between finishing and restarting.

One year from now: A full year has passed since the breakup. 

You either: 

Scenario A - Lost Him Completely: He's gone. Maybe he's engaged to someone else. Maybe he's just completely moved on and doesn't think about you at all. You wasted a year of your life trying to get him back the wrong way when you could have done it right in a matter of weeks or months. The regret is overwhelming. 

Scenario B - Still Stuck: You're somehow STILL in this degrading limbo where you're sleeping with him or in contact but he won't commit. A full year of your life wasted being someone's option instead of their priority. Your self-esteem is destroyed. Your friends have lost respect for you. You barely recognize the person you've become. 

Scenario C - Finally Moved On But Damaged: You've finally given up and started moving forward, but the experience has damaged you. You're cynical about love. You have trust issues. You lost a year to this and you'll never get it back.

The Emotional Damage Keeps Building

Every day you continue trying to finish the old story does cumulative damage:

Your dignity erodes progressively - every desperate message you send, every time you make yourself available and he doesn't reciprocate, every hookup that doesn't lead to commitment - these chip away at your self-respect until you barely recognize yourself. The woman who's begging for scraps isn't who you are, but The Unfinished Story is turning you into her.

You teach him you have no standards - when you accept breadcrumbs, allow him to use you for physical intimacy without commitment, stay available no matter how poorly he treats you - you're teaching him you'll take whatever he offers. This makes you LESS attractive to him, not more. Men want women who value themselves.

You become increasingly desperate - as time passes and nothing works, the desperation intensifies. You become willing to accept less and less just to keep the story going. This desperation is repellent to men and pushes him further away. It's a vicious cycle where your increasing desperation creates more rejection which creates more desperation.

You lose yourself completely - you stop focusing on your own life, your own growth, your own happiness. Everything becomes about him and getting him back. Hobbies fade, friendships suffer, work performance drops. You're not living your life - you're just waiting for him to come back so your life can start again.

You develop trauma around rejection - the more he pulls away despite your efforts, the more it confirms your worst fears about not being good enough. This creates deep wounds around worthiness and rejection that affect future relationships. The Unfinished Story doesn't just cost you this relationship - it damages your ability to have healthy ones in the future.

The Practical Consequences Are Just As Devastating

Beyond the emotional toll, The Unfinished Story has serious practical impacts:

You waste the window when restart is possible - there's a specific timeframe after a breakup when a Relationship Restart can work powerfully. Spend too long in Broken Attachment mode and that window closes. By the time you figure out the right approach, it might be too late. He's already moved on or solidified his decision.

He moves on to someone else - while you're stuck trying to finish the old story, he's meeting new women and forming new connections. Someone else gets the benefit of a fresh start with him while you're trapped trying to resurrect the past. Watching him fall for someone new while you're still hung up is devastating.

You accept degrading situations - The Unfinished Story often leads to toxic dynamics: friends with benefits arrangements where you want more, late-night hookups that lead nowhere, being his emotional support while he dates others. These situations destroy your self-esteem and waste your time.

Your friends lose respect for you - they watch you chase someone who's clearly not reciprocating. They see you make yourself available to someone who's using you. They try to help but you don't listen. Eventually they get exhausted and pull back, leaving you isolated right when you need support most.

You miss opportunities with better men - while you're fixated on finishing the story with your ex, you're closed off to men who might actually treat you right. Potential relationships pass you by because you're emotionally unavailable. You're so focused on the past that you miss the future.

The Honest Truth About Trajectory

Here's what you need to understand:

The longer you try to finish the old story, the more impossible a Relationship Restart becomes.

Every message that references the past cements the Broken Attachment.

Every hookup that doesn't lead anywhere teaches him he can have you without commitment.

Every desperate attempt to maintain connection pushes him further into "not interested" territory.

This doesn't get better with time if you're doing it wrong.

Time + wrong approach = permanent loss.

Time + right approach = successful restart.

Right now, you might still have a chance.

But that chance is closing with every day you spend trying to finish instead of restart.

And here's the most painful part:

Some women figure this out too late.

They spend months doing it wrong (trying to finish the old story).

Then they finally learn about Relationship Restart and try to implement it.

But by then, he's moved on. He's emotionally invested in someone else. He's closed the door completely.

And they have to live with the knowledge that if they'd just known this earlier, they could have gotten him back.

Don't be one of those women.

The window is open NOW.

But it won't stay open forever.

When you're trapped in The Unfinished Story, desperately wanting your ex back, your instinct is to try everything you can think of to finish what you started.

But unfortunately, the four most common things women try actually create Broken Attachment and push him away permanently.

Here are the four biggest mistakes:

This looks like sleeping with your ex after the breakup (maybe once, maybe multiple times), believing that physical intimacy will reignite the emotional connection and lead back to a relationship, accepting his late-night texts asking to "come over," or agreeing to casual physical intimacy while hoping it evolves into something more.

Why women do this:

Physical intimacy makes you FEEL connected to him temporarily. When you're in bed together, it feels like the relationship again. It feels like proof that he still wants you, still cares, still has feelings. 

You think that if you maintain the physical connection, the emotional connection will follow. You believe sex will remind him of what you had and make him realize he wants you back. You're afraid that if you say no, he'll lose interest completely and move on.

Why it backfires:

For most men, it's VERY easy to separate physical intimacy from emotional commitment. When you hook up with your ex hoping it leads somewhere, you're actually teaching him that he can have the physical benefits without the emotional investment or relationship commitment. 

This is the definition of Broken Attachment - you're giving him what he wants (physical intimacy) without getting what you want (relationship). 

Instead of pulling him closer emotionally, you're creating a "friends with benefits" dynamic where he gets his needs met without having to step up. 

Every time you hook up without him committing, you make it LESS likely he'll ever commit because why would he? He's already getting what he wants.

What actually happens:

You sleep with him. It feels amazing in the moment - like you're connected again, like things might work out. But afterward, nothing changes. 

He doesn't text you the next day asking to get back together. He doesn't suddenly realize he wants a relationship. Either he's distant again, or he reaches out in a few weeks for another hookup. 

You're stuck in a cycle where you keep hoping "this time will be different" but it never is. Weeks or months pass. You've slept with him multiple times. 

You're still not back together. You feel used, degraded, and pathetic. Your dignity is eroding with each encounter. 

And the worst part? 

You've taught him he can have you without committing, which makes a real Relationship Restart nearly impossible because he sees you as available without effort.

This looks like sending long emotional messages about how much you love him and need him, calling or texting when you're emotional saying you can't imagine life without him, trying to convince him the relationship should continue, explaining why you're perfect for each other and listing all the reasons you should be together, or pleading for "just one more chance" to make it work.

Why women do this:

You're desperate for him to understand the depth of your feelings. You think if he knew how much you love him and how devastated you are, he'd realize he's making a mistake. 

You believe that expressing your emotions will trigger his emotions and make him feel the same way. You're hoping that vulnerability will create connection. You think your passion will be attractive or compelling.

Why it backfires:

Begging and desperation are the OPPOSITE of attractive. When you tell a man you can't live without him, you're communicating that you have no value outside of him - which makes you LESS valuable to him, not more. 

Men want to feel like they've won someone valuable, someone other men would want, someone with options. 

When you beg, you're signaling you have no options, no standards, and no self-respect. 

This creates the Broken Attachment because he associates you with neediness and desperation instead of attraction and value. 

Even if he has some lingering feelings, your begging activates his resistance. He feels pressured and trapped, like you're trying to guilt or manipulate him into a relationship. 

And like a trapped animal, his instinct is to escape.

What actually happens:

You send the emotional message or have the tearful conversation. In the moment, you feel like you're being authentic and honest. But his response (if he responds at all) is distant or uncomfortable. 

He might say something vague like "I need space" or "I'm sorry you feel that way" but it changes nothing. In fact, you've made it worse. He now sees you as desperate and needy, which makes you LESS attractive in his eyes. 

The more you beg, the more he pulls away because you're confirming his decision to leave was right - you're not the confident, valuable woman he fell for, you're someone who falls apart without him. 

Days or weeks later, you look back at those messages with shame and regret. 

You've damaged your dignity and pushed him further away. The relationship feels even more finished now because you've shown him the neediest version of yourself.

This looks like doing favors for him or being overly helpful, buying him gifts to show you're thinking of him, going out of your way to be available when he needs something, being his emotional support while he dates others or figures out his life, canceling your plans to accommodate his schedule, or generally trying to prove through actions that you care and deserve another chance.

Why women do this:

You think if you can just PROVE to him how much you care and what a great girlfriend you'd be, he'll realize he made a mistake leaving. 

You believe actions speak louder than words, so you show him through investment and effort. You think being supportive and helpful will make him appreciate you and want you back. You're trying to demonstrate your value by being valuable to him.

Why it backfires:

When you invest in a man who's not investing back, you create a dynamic where he sees you as low-value. 

This sounds harsh, but it's psychology: we value things we have to work for, and we take for granted things that are freely given. 

When you're bending over backward for him while he's not reciprocating, you're teaching him you're not valuable enough to pursue. 

You're creating Broken Attachment where you're chasing and he's being chased. Men don't fall in love with women who chase them - they fall in love with women they have to pursue. 

Every gift you buy, every favor you do, every time you drop everything for him while he doesn't do the same - you're pushing him further away by signaling you're beneath him in value.

What actually happens:

You invest time, energy, money, and emotion trying to prove your worth to him. 

You're there when he needs to talk. You help him with things. You make yourself constantly available. 

But instead of appreciating you more, he takes you for granted. He might use your support and help, but it doesn't make him want a relationship with you. 

In fact, the more you invest without him reciprocating, the less attractive you become to him. You're making it too easy. There's no chase, no pursuit, no challenge. 

He's getting girlfriend benefits without having to be a boyfriend. Weeks or months pass and you realize you've been used. 

He took your support and investment and gave nothing back. You feel stupid and used. 

And worst of all, you've cemented yourself in the "option" category instead of "priority" because you've shown him you'll invest regardless of how he treats you.

Getting your ex back isn't about:

• Maintaining physical intimacy hoping it leads somewhere
• Begging or proving how much you care
• Investing in him to demonstrate value
• Reminding him of what you had

It's about:

• Creating a Relationship Restart where he experiences something NEW with you
• Becoming the prize that he wants to pursue instead of chasing him
• Triggering his psychology for novelty, mystery, and the chase
• Using your history as an advantage while offering fresh emotions and experiences

You need a proven system that helps you RESTART the relationship instead of trying to finish the old story.

If you want to get your ex back - and not just temporarily, but in a way where he's actually invested, pursuing you, and wanting a real committed relationship - you can't use the approaches that create Broken Attachment.

You need something completely different.

Something that stops you from trying to finish the old story and instead helps you start a completely NEW one.

Here's what actually works:

The biggest mistake women make is thinking reattraction works the same as maintenance.

When you're IN a relationship, you maintain attraction through consistency, familiarity, shared experiences, and deepening intimacy.

But when you're trying to REATTRACT after a breakup, the rules are completely opposite.

You need:

• Psychological principles of pursuit and chase - understanding what makes a man want to pursue a woman instead of being pursued by her
• The power of novelty and "something new" - knowing how to trigger his brain's response to NEW experiences and emotions (not recycled old ones)
• Strategic use of space and mystery - learning when to pull back so he experiences your absence and wants to close the gap
• How to leverage history without being trapped by it - using the advantage of having loved him before while avoiding the trap of trying to recreate the past
• The difference between Broken Attachment and Relationship Restart - clearly understanding what pushes him away vs. what pulls him in

When you understand the psychology of what actually creates reattraction, you stop doing the things that seem logical but don't work (reminding him of the past, proving you care, staying in constant contact)

and start doing the things that ACTUALLY make him want to come back.

Without this foundation, you're guessing - and most guesses create Broken Attachment that pushes him away.

The problem with The Unfinished Story is that every action you take reinforces his perception of you as "the ex-girlfriend trying to finish what we had."

In this frame, he resists.

You need a specific system to shift his perception to: "an interesting woman I have history with who seems different now and triggers my curiosity/attraction."

This means:

• Specific text message sequences that create curiosity and positive emotion without referencing the past or being needy
• Strategic use of no contact (when appropriate) to create space for him to miss you and for you to reset
• How to handle contact when it happens so you're not falling back into old patterns or seeming desperate
• The framework for becoming "The Prize" so he's pursuing you instead of you chasing him
• Specific communication strategies that create NEW emotional experiences instead of recycling old ones
• How to use your shared history strategically without it becoming Broken Attachment

The system needs to be step-by-step, clear, and proven - not just theoretical advice.

You need to know exactly what to text, when to text it, how to respond when he reaches out, and how to navigate each phase of the restart process.

Without a proven system, you're improvising - and improvisation usually leads back to Broken Attachment patterns.

This is the most important piece:

You need a framework that helps him see the potential relationship not as a continuation of what you had, but as something completely new and different.

This includes:

• Understanding the 5 phases of Relationship Restart - from initial contact to full recommitment
• How to create "new relationship energy" even though you have history
• Strategic meeting and interaction guidelines that feel fresh and exciting (not like trying to recreate the past)
• How to handle the "getting back together" conversation so HE'S the one pushing for commitment
• Building a better relationship foundation so you don't just recreate the same dynamic that failed before
• How to maintain attraction post-restart so he doesn't pull away again

The Relationship Restart framework is what prevents you from just getting him back temporarily only to lose him again.

It ensures that if he comes back, it's into something BETTER and DIFFERENT than what you had before.

Without this framework, even if you get him back, you risk repeating the same patterns and ending up broken up again.

You stop the Broken Attachment behaviors that were pushing him away.

You shift from chasing him to being someone he wants to pursue.

You create space for him to miss you and experience your absence.

When contact happens, you use proven text messages and communication strategies that trigger curiosity and attraction instead of resistance.

He starts to see you differently - not as "the ex trying to finish the old story" but as someone who seems changed, interesting, and worth pursuing.

The dynamic shifts from you investing while he pulls away to him pursuing while you're selective and valuable.

When you meet up, it feels DIFFERENT - new energy, new emotions, not just rehashing the past.

He experiences wanting you again, but it feels like something new and exciting, not like going back to what didn't work.

The conversation about getting back together comes from HIM because he's the one who's been triggered to pursue.

You get back together, but into a Relationship Restart - something better and different than before.

And here's the most powerful part:

• This works even if he's told you he never wants to get back together
• This works even if it's been months or years since the breakup
• This works even if he's seeing someone else

Because you're not trying to continue the old story - you're creating conditions for a completely new one.

I've been teaching women in the dating and relationship space since 2013.

Over the past decade+, I've worked with hundreds of thousands of women from over 100 countries.

And one of the most common and painful situations I see is women trying desperately to get their ex back - doing everything they can think of, trying so hard - and accidentally pushing him away permanently.

I watched women:

• Send heartfelt messages that got ignored
• Stay in degrading "friends with benefits" situations for months
• Lose their dignity chasing men who were pulling away

And the worst part?

Most of them were smart, attractive, valuable women.

The problem wasn't THEM - it was their APPROACH.

They were all trying to finish the old story instead of starting a new one.

They were creating Broken Attachment instead of Relationship Restart.

How I Discovered What Actually Works

So I started researching what actually works.

I looked at:

• The psychology of pursuit and reattraction
• What women who got their exes back did differently
• The common mistakes that permanently pushed men away

I tested different approaches with thousands of women.

I tracked what worked and what didn't.

And I discovered something powerful:

The women who successfully got their exes back weren't the ones who tried hardest to finish the old story.

They were the ones who created a Relationship Restart - who understood how to trigger fresh attraction and pursuit instead of trying to resurrect the past.

They used specific text message sequences that created curiosity without neediness.

They understood when to create space and when to engage.

They knew how to shift from "ex trying to get me back" to "woman I want to pursue."

They leveraged their history as an advantage while creating new emotional experiences.

So I created a complete system based on these principles.

That system became Restart Your Relationship.

• Exact text messages to send at each phase
• Clear step-by-step process from where you are now to back together
• Specific guidance on what to do in different situations
• The psychology behind why each step works
• How to avoid the mistakes that create Broken Attachment

The Secret: The Relationship Restart Method

The program is built around what I call The Relationship Restart Method.

This is a specific framework that helps you stop trying to finish the old story and instead create conditions for a completely new one.

Here's how it works:

Phase 1: STOP THE BROKEN ATTACHMENT - Immediately stop all the behaviors creating resistance (trying to finish the old story, recreating the past, being needy or desperate) and create strategic space

Phase 2: RESET YOUR VALUE AND HIS PERCEPTION - Use specific strategies to shift from "desperate ex" to "valuable woman with options" in his mind

Phase 3: STRATEGIC RE-CONTACT - Use the proven 3-Step Text Message Sequence to reestablish contact in a way that creates curiosity and positive emotion (not resistance)

Phase 4: CREATE NEW EMOTIONAL EXPERIENCES - When you interact, use specific techniques to create FRESH attraction and emotions (not recycled old ones)

Phase 5: TRIGGER HIS PURSUIT - Implement strategies that make HIM chase and invest instead of you pursuing him

Phase 6: THE RELATIONSHIP RESTART - Navigate the "getting back together" conversation so he's the one pushing for commitment, and build a better foundation than before

The Result?

He shifts from seeing you as "the ex trying to get back what we had" to "a woman I want to pursue and restart something with."

Instead of you chasing him, he's pursuing you.

Instead of you trying to prove yourself, he's trying to prove he deserves another chance.

Instead of recreating the old relationship, you're building something better.

Who This Works For

Restart Your Relationship works for any woman with The Unfinished Story:

• Women who've been trying to get their ex back but nothing has worked
• Women stuck in "friends with benefits" limbo hoping it becomes more
• Women who hooked up with their ex but it didn't lead to relationship
• Women whose ex is seeing someone else but they still have feelings
• Women who broke up recently or months/years ago
• Women who've made mistakes (begging, chasing, being desperate) and need to reset
• Women ready to stop trying to finish the old story and start a new one

This system works whether it's been two weeks or two years since the breakup.

It works whether he's told you he never wants to get back together or left the door open.

It works whether he's single or seeing someone else.

Because you're not trying to continue what didn't work - you're creating something completely new.

Get the exact three text messages (word-for-word) that give you the best chance of reestablishing contact and triggering his curiosity without seeming desperate or needy, so he actually wants to engage instead of pulling away. These messages have been tested with thousands of women and refined over 11 years.

Discover the specific phases that must happen in order for you to successfully get your ex back, so you know exactly where you are in the process and what to focus on next. If you skip even one phase, your chances of success drop to almost nothing - this roadmap ensures you do it right.

Learn the specific techniques to recreate "new relationship energy" and make him feel the excitement and attraction he felt when you were first together, without falling into the trap of trying to recreate old memories. This makes him associate you with fresh emotions instead of the pain of the breakup.

Get the exact strategy for handling the situation where your ex is currently dating or in a relationship with someone else, including how to position yourself and when to make your move. Many women have used this to win their ex back even from serious new relationships.

Understand the single most important thing you need to do if you want any chance of success, and why skipping this will guarantee failure. This is counterintuitive and most women resist it, but it's absolutely essential.

Discover specific mindset shifts and practical strategies to stop chasing and become the confident, valuable woman he wants to pursue, so you show up as attractive instead of desperate when you interact with him. This internal shift is what makes everything else work.

Learn exactly what triggers a man's desire for committed relationship instead of casual connection, so you don't end up stuck in "friends with benefits" limbo or get him back only to lose him again. Mess this up and he won't stay even if he comes back.

Identify the two critical errors women make that create Broken Attachment and push men away permanently, and the specific strategies to avoid them so you don't sabotage yourself. You're probably making at least one of these right now.

Get the proven framework for reaching out that doesn't trigger his resistance or make him shut down, plus how to handle different responses so you know what to do whether he's cold, warm, or anywhere in between. This prevents you from blowing your chance with a badly-timed or poorly-worded message.

Learn the specific technique to diffuse his anger, shift the emotional tone, and get him from hostile to kind and caring in the conversation. This works even when he's saying harsh things or seems completely closed off.

Discover this subtle tactic to make him experience warm, loving feelings connected to your relationship WITHOUT directly referencing memories or seeming like you're trying to finish the old story. It's sneaky but incredibly effective.

Master this powerful approach to make him realize you're different now and associate you with curiosity and intrigue instead of the old relationship, so he wants to talk to and meet up with you to see what's changed. This is key to Relationship Restart.

Get specific strategies to ensure that when you reconnect, it leads to committed relationship instead of casual hookup situation where he gets what he wants without giving you commitment. This protects you from being used.

Learn exactly what to do when you see him in person to trigger his attraction and pursuit instinct at maximum level, plus the big mistake most women make that screws it all up. The difference between success and failure is often what happens at this crucial meeting.

Discover the specific signs that tell you whether he's genuinely invested and moving toward commitment or just keeping you as an option, so you can make informed decisions instead of wasting time hoping. Includes the big mistake to avoid if you want his commitment.

Get the exact framework for navigating the recommitment conversation so HE'S the one pushing for it and you're in the position of power, ensuring he shows up bigger in the relationship than before. This is how you ensure the Relationship Restart is real.

"I was stuck trying to recreate what we had..."

"Thank you so much, Matthew. I was completely trapped in The Unfinished Story - constantly bringing up memories, trying to make him remember the good times, even hooking up with him hoping it would lead somewhere. Nothing worked. He kept pulling further away. Your program showed me I needed to stop trying to finish the old story and create something NEW instead. I used the 3-Step Text Message Sequence and everything gradually got better between us. He did a complete 180. He's been talking about our future together a lot the past month (moving in together, marriage, kids) and he really wants to rush into a relationship, but I remind him he needs to prove himself first. Haha. He's been absolutely amazing. The great thing is I'm not only excited about our future but excited about every day up until that point. We've had so many deep conversations and he's told me he feels like we grow closer every day. It's SO much better than the old relationship. Thank you again!" - Allena

"This worked even though he was with someone else..."

"I was devastated when Josh left me for a woman who was younger and prettier. I accepted being 'just friends' while dying inside watching him date her. I kept trying to remind him of what we had, but it just pushed him away more. Restart Your Relationship taught me about the Relationship Restart approach - creating something NEW instead of trying to finish the old story. I used the techniques and within three months, Josh did a complete 180. He left the other woman, apologized for 'being an idiot,' and I made him PROVE how much he loved me before I took him back. The Relationship Restart framework worked even when I thought the situation was hopeless." - Tammy

"It had been YEARS and this still worked..."

"I'd been divorced from my ex-husband for over 6 years. I spent years trying to convince him I had changed and that we should get back together. It never worked because I was trying to get back into the same relationship we'd had. Once I learned about Relationship Restart, everything changed. I stopped trying to finish the old story and started creating new experiences and emotions with him. He began treating me the way he did when we FIRST met - buying me dinners, staring into my eyes, laughing at my stupid jokes. He started asking 'what happened to us?' Not only did he come back, HE PROPOSED AGAIN! I've never been so happy. And our relationship now is completely different and better than the first time around." - Karen

"I was making every mistake in the book..."

"I was hooking up with my ex hoping it would lead back to a relationship. I was reminding him of memories. I was basically begging for another chance. Everything I did pushed him further away. Restart Your Relationship showed me I was creating Broken Attachment by trying to finish the old story. The program gave me the exact text messages to use, the phases to follow, and helped me understand the psychology of what actually works. Once I stopped chasing and became the prize he wanted to pursue, everything shifted. He's now the one chasing me and proving himself. We're taking it slow and building something completely new and better." - Amanda

"This system is worth every penny..."

"I thank Matthew so much. His program changed my life. I was stuck in The Unfinished Story for months, getting nowhere. His advice and techniques are invaluable - easy to understand and implement. The 3-Step Text Message Sequence alone was worth the investment. I went from being the desperate ex trying to get him back to being the woman he's pursuing. The Relationship Restart approach works." - Kim

"I got my self-respect back along with my ex..."

"I was in an abusive relationship and when it ended, I lost all self-confidence. I was trying to get him back by proving my worth and being whatever he needed. Finding Matthew's program brought me back to life. It taught me to stop trying to finish the story on HIS terms and instead become the prize. I followed the Relationship Restart system and not only did the dynamic shift completely, but I also got my power and self-respect back. Whether you want your ex back or just want to stop feeling desperate, this program works. God bless you, Matthew." - Rachel

Restart Your Relationship contains everything you need to stop The Unfinished Story pattern and successfully get your ex back using the Relationship Restart framework.

If you hired a relationship coach to help you navigate getting your ex back, you'd easily pay:

• $200-500 per session for expert guidance
• $2,000-5,000 for a comprehensive coaching package
• Months of trial and error while making costly mistakes

I've charged over $500 per ticket just to teach this information at live workshops in the past.

And if I asked you what it would be worth to have your ex back - genuinely invested, pursuing you, in a relationship that's better than what you had before - you'd probably say it's priceless.

But you won't pay anywhere close to that today.

Here's Your Investment

Right now, you can get instant access to the complete Restart Your Relationship system for just $47.

$47 for the complete step-by-step system that could get your ex back in weeks instead of losing him permanently.

Why Only $47?

Two reasons:

First, I want to make this program available to just about anyone. I don't want finances to stop you from getting the right approach when you're currently doing things that are pushing him away.

Putting it at $47 makes it accessible to almost everyone.

Second, if this is your first time experiencing my work and you don't know or trust me yet, I want you to be able to try this system without a major financial commitment.

I'm confident that once you see how powerful the Relationship Restart approach is, you'll want more of my programs.

But right now, I just want to help you stop making the mistakes that create Broken Attachment and start doing what actually works.

This is less than the cost of a nice dinner - for a complete system that could change your entire relationship future.

I know you're anxious about whether this will work for your specific situation.

I know you might be skeptical after trying so many things that didn't work.

So I'm removing all the risk.

Here's my promise:

Get Restart Your Relationship right now. Download it immediately. Start implementing the system - the 3-Step Text Message Sequence, the Relationship Restart framework, all of it.

Apply it to your situation with your ex.

Watch as you stop creating Broken Attachment and start creating the conditions for him to pursue you.

See the shift from you chasing him to him being interested and curious about you.

If you don't see meaningful improvement in your situation - if the text messages don't work, if you don't understand the system, if you're not happy for ANY reason - simply email us within 60 days at support@matthewcoast.com for a full refund.

No questions asked. No hassle. No judgment.

You literally cannot lose.

Either this helps you get your ex back using the Relationship Restart approach, or you get your money back.

Here's the hard truth:

Every day you continue trying to finish the old story - sending messages that reference the past, trying to prove yourself, hooking up hoping it leads somewhere, being available while he pulls away - is another day of:

• Creating more Broken Attachment
• Pushing him further into "not interested" territory
• Teaching him he can have you without effort or commitment
• Cementing yourself as "desperate ex" instead of "woman worth pursuing"
• Losing ground in his perception
• Wasting the window when Relationship Restart is possible

You've already lost enough time to The Unfinished Story.

Restart Your Relationship gives you the proven system to stop trying to finish what's over and start creating something completely NEW - starting right now, today.

The women whose stories you read (Allena, Tammy, Karen, Amanda, Kim, Rachel) were exactly where you are.

Trapped in The Unfinished Story. Trying desperately to get their ex back. Making all the mistakes that create Broken Attachment.

They learned the Relationship Restart approach. And everything changed.

They stopped chasing and became the prize.

They created NEW emotions and experiences instead of trying to recreate the past.

They got their exes back - but into something BETTER than before.

Now it's your turn.

For just $47, you're getting the complete system that could end The Unfinished Story and start a brand new one.

You're protected by a 60-day money-back guarantee, so there's zero risk.

The only question is: are you ready to stop trying to finish the old story and start a new one?

Q: How is this different from other "get your ex back" advice?

Most breakup advice falls into two camps: either "move on and forget him" or generic tips like "give him space" and "work on yourself." 

Restart Your Relationship is different because it's based on a specific framework - the Relationship Restart Method - that addresses the core problem most women face: they're trying to finish the old story instead of creating a new one. 

This program gives you the exact psychology, specific text messages (word-for-word), and step-by-step phases to shift from Broken Attachment to Relationship Restart. 

It's a proven tactical system that's worked for thousands of women.

Q: What if I've already made mistakes (begging, being needy, hooking up with him)?

That's exactly who this program is designed for. Most women have already made mistakes before they find the right approach - I certainly did when I was going through my devastating breakup. 

The Relationship Restart framework specifically addresses how to RESET his perception of you even after you've created Broken Attachment through desperate behaviors. 

The program shows you how to stop the damaging patterns, create strategic space to reset, and then reestablish contact in a way that shifts his perception completely. 

Many women who've gotten their exes back using this system started from a place of having made every mistake in the book.

Q: Will this work if he's with someone else right now?

Yes. The program includes a specific section on what to do if your ex is currently dating or in a relationship with another woman. 

The Relationship Restart approach actually works BETTER in some ways when he's with someone new because it gives you the opportunity to be something fresh and different compared to his current situation. 

Several of the testimonials you read are from women whose exes were with other women when they started the program. The key is timing and approach - and the program shows you exactly how to handle it.

Q: What if it's been a really long time since we broke up (months or years)?

The Relationship Restart framework works regardless of how long it's been since the breakup. 

In fact, one of the success stories you read was from Karen, who had been divorced from her ex for over 6 YEARS before using this system to get him back. 

Time can actually be an advantage if you use it right, because it creates space for both of you to change and for the negative emotions of the breakup to fade. 

The program shows you how to leverage time instead of being defeated by it. Whether it's been two weeks or two years, the principles of Relationship Restart still apply.

Q: What if he's told me he never wants to get back together?

Men say things in the heat of emotion or to create boundaries that don't necessarily reflect their permanent position. 

What matters isn't what he SAID in the past - it's how he FEELS when you properly implement Relationship Restart. The program specifically addresses how to handle situations where he's been definitive about not getting back together. 

The key is that you're not trying to convince him to return to the old relationship (which he's firmly rejected) - you're creating conditions for him to be interested in something NEW. 

When you shift the frame from "getting back into what we had" to "experiencing something different," his resistance drops significantly.

Q: How long does this take to work?

It depends on your specific situation, but most women who properly implement the Relationship Restart system see meaningful shifts within 2-4 weeks and are back together within 2-3 months. 

Some women see results faster (especially if the breakup was recent and emotions are still high), while others take longer (especially if there's been a lot of damage from Broken Attachment patterns or it's been years since the breakup). 

The program gives you the framework to move through the 5 phases at the right pace for your situation - neither rushing nor dragging it out unnecessarily.

Q: What if I just want to move on but can't stop thinking about him?

While this program is designed to help you get your ex back, the Relationship Restart framework is also valuable if you ultimately decide you DON'T want him back. 

Understanding the psychology of attachment, Broken Attachment patterns, and how to properly create emotional closure will help you move on more effectively than just trying to "forget him." 

Many women find that once they stop trying to finish the old story and gain clarity on Relationship Restart principles, they can make a clearer decision about whether getting back together is even what they want. 

Either way, the program helps you stop being trapped in The Unfinished Story pattern.

Q: Does this include actual text messages I can send, or just advice?

Yes, this includes actual word-for-word text messages. The program features the 3-Step Text Message Sequence that's been refined and tested over 11 years with thousands of women. 

You get the exact messages to send at each phase, along with explanation of why they work and how to adapt them to your specific situation. 

There are also multiple other texting techniques and templates throughout the program (like the Time Machine Texting Technique and Present Positive Change Technique). This isn't vague advice - it's specific tactical guidance you can implement immediately.

Q: What if I'm not good at texting or communication?

That's exactly why the program gives you word-for-word text messages and specific frameworks for different types of conversations. You don't have to be naturally good at communication - you just need to follow the proven templates and understand the psychology behind them. 

The program breaks down complex communication strategies into simple, step-by-step instructions that anyone can follow. Many women who've successfully used this system considered themselves "bad at texting" before they started.

Don't Let The Unfinished Story End With You Losing Him Forever

Here's what you've learned today:

The Unfinished Story is the pattern where you're trying so hard to finish or continue the old relationship that you're actually ensuring it stays unfinished permanently.

Every attempt to remind him of the past, prove yourself, recreate what you had, or finish the old story creates Broken Attachment - which pushes him away instead of pulling him in.

The approaches you've been trying (hooking up hoping it leads somewhere, reminding him of good times, begging for another chance, investing to prove your worth) don't work because they're asking him to return to what he left.

Men don't want to go back to relationships they left - they want something NEW and DIFFERENT.

Without understanding the difference between Broken Attachment and Relationship Restart, you risk losing him permanently or staying stuck in degrading situations indefinitely.

But you don't have to keep making the same mistakes.

On the Other Side, Everything Is Different

On the other side of implementing Restart Your Relationship, your situation looks completely different:

You've stopped the desperate behaviors that were pushing him away.

You've shifted from chasing him to being someone he wants to pursue.

You're using proven text messages and communication strategies that create curiosity and attraction instead of resistance.

He's experiencing you as something NEW and different - not the same old relationship he left.

The dynamic has flipped from you investing while he pulls away to him pursuing while you're selective and valuable.

When you meet up, it feels fresh and exciting instead of like rehashing painful history.

He's the one pushing for commitment because you've triggered his psychology for pursuit and newness.

You're getting back together, but into a Relationship Restart - something BETTER than you had before.

That's the future waiting for you on the other side of this decision.

They Were Exactly Where You Are Right Now

The women whose stories you read (Allena, Tammy, Karen, Amanda, Kim, Rachel) were trapped in The Unfinished Story just like you.

They were trying desperately to get their exes back and accidentally pushing them away.

They were making the same mistakes - trying to finish the old story instead of starting a new one.

They learned the Relationship Restart approach. And everything changed.

Now it's your turn.

For just $47 - less than a nice dinner, less than you've probably spent on things trying to feel better about the breakup - you're getting the complete system that could get your ex back.

You're protected by a 60-day money-back guarantee, so there's literally zero risk.

The only question is: are you ready to stop trying to finish a story that's over and start writing a completely new one?

You deserve to be pursued, not to do the pursuing.

You deserve to be valued as a prize, not to chase someone who's pulling away.

You deserve to have a relationship that WORKS, not keep trying to resurrect one that didn't.

All of that is possible - starting today.

Don't let The Unfinished Story end with you losing him forever when the Relationship Restart approach could change everything.

The window to restart is open now.

But it won't stay open forever.

I'll see you inside,

Matthew Coast

P.S. Every day you continue trying to finish the old story is a day you cement yourself as "desperate ex" instead of "woman worth pursuing." 

The 3-Step Text Message Sequence in Restart Your Relationship could shift his perception of you within days, and the complete Relationship Restart framework could have you back together in weeks instead of losing him permanently. 

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