why does a guy just stop calling?

Relationship Questions and Advicewhy does a guy just stop calling?
Anonymous asked 4 years ago

I met a guy online and we decided to meet after a week of talking and texting everyday! we went out and the sparks flew! We sat and talked for hours, and decided to go out again. When we kissed on the first date, it was awesome! I felt the butterflies.. We had a lot in common, even our children’s ages matched up nicely. So after our second date 2 weeks later, we ended up sleeping together, it was awkward and weird.. he stopped calling and texting. I am not sure what happened, did something better come along, or did I just give it up too soon?? 

1 Answers
Matthew Coast Staff answered 4 years ago

It could be for a million reasons. Maybe he didn’t feel as connected to you as you did to him. Maybe he was seeing someone else.
What probably happened is that you didn’t find out whether or not the two of your were aligned in what you wanted out of a relationship. Maybe he was just looking to hook up.
Of course, the sex could have been really bad too. My suggestion is you make sure and talk to a guy about what he’s looking for out of dating. Most guys will be honest. And if he’s hiding something, you’ll quickly find that out too.
Make sure you have a connection AND what the two of you want from dating is aligned. Otherwise, you may end up in this situation again in the future.