What am I doing wrong

Anonymous asked 4 years ago

i been in just abusive relationships. I meet a wonderful man and been dating 4 months. I made the mistake of telling him I loved him. I am scared I am gonna screw this up

1 Answers
Matthew Coast Staff answered 4 years ago

I thanks for the message. It’s hard for me to gauge what’s going on with as little information as you gave me.
Telling a man that you love him isn’t a mistake, unless he’s scared of having a real relationship or he’s not emotionally invested in yours. And by the 4 month point, he better be emotionally invested in your relationship or you’re probably just wasting your time.