Too much work, and feels unauthentic

Relationship Questions and AdviceCategory: Make Him Fall in LoveToo much work, and feels unauthentic
Amy asked 3 months ago

I’ve been watching a ton of your advice videos, and part of me feels like, us women have to be the absolute BEST versions of ourselves, in order to simply get along with our men, and therefore  simultaneously avoiding confrontation… bc it seems when confrontation occurs(usually due to our needs not being met), men SUCK at being willing and able to resolve issues pracefully, aka as THEIR best versions… it seems unfair. Like, as long as we act like emotionless stepford wives, we will be appreciated.  If not, we ruin their lives (meanwhile they aren’t a walk in the park either)