Sex too soon

Jean asked 2 years ago

How do I make it clear that sex is off the table until we have established a meaningful foundation without pushing him away?

1 Answers
Tabitha Pratt answered 2 years ago

Hi Jean!
I am super, proud of you for having the sense to keep sex off of the table!! Yay!! You have already increased your value in his eyes! This makes me so happy!
The best way to do this is to wait until he brings the subject up and then let him know that you feel best when sex comes after commitment. Stick with expressing your feelings and your don’t wants. Males are built to influence and debate, so he may attempt to persuade you as to why the opposite needs to happen with his logic and reasoning. Do not fall for it! If he is truly interested in you then he will stick around and probably be more intrigued.
Good luck woman! You can do it!