Regaining power

Nikki asked 2 years ago

I just read your article on how to get over jealousy in the relationship. I realized that I have lost control and power in our relationship. He just isn’t as interested in sex as usual and I get jealous for no reason. I intend to do exactly what the article says to do and describe my jealousy to him and all that. What else should I do to regain that power?