Rebound girlfriend?

Dori asked 2 years ago

My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 4 months, although it seems rather fast he recently moved in with  me. My issue is that I just found out that he and his ex broke up much more recently than he had told me when we first met. I was under the impression they had broken up over a year ago but, come to find out that it was only a couple of months before he and I got together. 
I think he may still be in love with his ex and I don’t know what to do. My main reason for thinking that he still loves her is that he becomes visibly upset when he talks about her, thankfully he does not do this too often but just he has also mentioned having dreams about her.  He treats me good, better than anyone ever has and I am very much in love with him but I feel like it is only a matter of time before he realizes that he does not truly love me, that I was merely a band-aid until he gets over all the hurt she caused him; this thought alone is killing me. I honestly do not know what to do. I did attempt to talk to him about it but he basically waved it off like I was trying to find a problem where there isn’t one. Please help.

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