Online dating

anon asked 3 years ago

How do you nicely tell someone your not interested after talking with them online? It seems mean to just not respond? 

1 Answers
Tabitha Pratt answered 3 years ago

Awe, you are so sweet…I am really proud of you for having empathy for the other person in this instance.
Honestl, honesty is the best policy! Lying is good too, but you have to make up a really fantastical story and that takes some serious skills! JK
Begin by expressing gratitude and appreciation for something about them that you enjoyed or your interaction with them (stroke them), and then express your feelings; no longer interested, not feeling it, etc. Do not attack them or make it about them at all.
Basically this;
“It’s not you, it’s me”   🙂
Sugar Tip; stick with your feelings here. Rejection will send a male into convince mode and he will want to out argue you if you state logical reasons.