Missing the Spark

Anon asked 12 months ago

Hi, I just broke up with a guy I have been dating for a year and a half. He’s funny, he’s nice, he’s in love with me. And I love him. But I’m not in love with him. I care about him, I just don’t have the spark anymore. We are both in college and hang out all the time, which lead to me becoming bored of our routine. We also weren’t really meeting any new people. To fix things, we first tried going out more. That didn’t help. We then tried hanging out less. That didn’t help either. We finally decided to go on a break. At first I was devastated. After a week, however I felt confident in my decision. However, we ended things officially, and I can’t help feeling like I made a mistake. He is such a good guy and right for me in so many ways. But I am pretty young and have a while before settling down, so I don’t know if I should try to fix things, or explore new things. I also don’t know if I am regretting things just because it ended officially and I miss being in my comfort zone. Please help!!!