Loss of Connection?

Rebecca asked 2 years ago

So I’ll jump right to it, 
My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years now, we love each other so much and I undoubtedly believe that.
Although we recently hit our 4 year anniversary and well…recently things have been slightly off. He reported not feeling as close to me as he used to be in the beginning and that our bond just doesn’t seem as strong any more. I’m very fragile and I was hurt that my boyfriend wasn’t as happy with me as he used to be as every day I wake up and I am thankful for him. We talked it out and to be honest we’re both clueless! We both are willing to try and let this bond and hyped up feeling back in but I guess we don’t know how and our heads are everywhere. I would really appreciate some advice on how to strengthen a connection with a partner.