Get him to commit

Joy Jarvis asked 8 months ago

ive been communicating with a guy long distance for 6 months. He was in a relationship much of the time and we just flirted a lot. Now he’s broken up, but he’s seeing other people. And still in touch with me. I’m going to be in town nearby for a month and we are trying to figure out what we want to do. But he wants to keep dating other women, including someone he seems rather serious about, in addition to me. This drives me crazy. I’ve been really falling for him, and wanted this time to be a time where we could really see if this is going to go somewhere long term. But I’m really preoccupied with this one other woman he told me about that is also really interested in. It feels like he’ll never make up his mind and I want to just walk away. But I also would love to be in a real relationship with him where he’s really committed. Help!