Friends with benefith

Maria asked 2 years ago

I know a guy for an over a year now. We had sex few times and he told me that he doesn\\\’t want any commitments or relationship. He is very friendly and charming. He was never promising me anything. He is not a player.but he can go quiet for weeks. I really like him and I don\\\’t know what to do to make him like me more. I\\\’m not needy,  I\\\’m not texting or ringing him all the time. Im not putting any pressure on him.i have my own life. But I\\\’m separated from my husband and that could bother him I think. Thank you 

1 Answers
Tabitha Pratt answered 2 years ago

Hi Maria!
Here is the difference between men and women;
Men say what that mean.
Women don’t say what they mean.
Female to female communication does well with the above because women are very intuitive and can pick up on the non-verbal ques. Female to male communication does not do well with the above. Girls make a mistake when they believe that the guy has a hidden meaning under what he is saying. Trust me, He doesn’t. 
Rarely does a girl make it out of FWB ( friend with benefits) category into a more committed category. I’m sorry to break it to you, but it sounds like neither of you are ready for anything more than a FWB. If you are ok with random hookups when he wants you, then you are in a perfect scenario. If you desire more, I encourage you to deal with your husband first and get yourself emotional available and then move completely on.
A girl can not make a guy like her more by giving him sex. Never. Ever. Ever.