Falling in love

Michele asked 2 years ago

  I have been with a man for 14 months he told me yesterday that he is not in love with me he thought he would be there right now he said he may fall of me it could happen and it could not and it might take a while he\\\’s going through a divorce so my question is is is this something we can work on and still grow together and hopefully find love or once a man tell you that he doesn’t love  you you can never get that ? I have to be honest I’m not in love with him either but I thought we can grow and work on a relationship and maybe fine love I’m confused and I don’t know what to do thank you