Connection after trauma

Anonymoys asked 2 years ago

My marriage is recovering from an affair (it\’s a long story). Due to guilt and disappointment my husband has a difficult time being intimate and flirtatious with me because he identifies those things with the mistake he made…I\’d like to know what women can do to help their husbands reconnect and feel positive about being sexy and allow them to express themselves without negitive feelings? Or to help change associated negitive feelings into positives again? Thank you!