If you’re struggling with the question of whether you’re with the right man or not, you’re not alone…
Knowing whether you’re with “the one” for you and forsaking all others is a big decision that many women wrestle with.
The last thing anyone wants is to be stuck in a marriage where you’re both unhappy. You’re better off not getting married at all than committing yourself to a horrible relationship.
I don’t believe in fairytale romance but I do believe that are 6 signs that will tell you whether you’re with the right man or not.
Here they are…
1. You respect him from the heart.
Lust is temporary. Being “in love” can come and go in a relationship. But when you truly respect a man’s character, his morals, his values, and his attributes, know that you have found someone truly special.
In fact, if you leave such a man behind and settle for someone who is significantly less moral, less caring and less heroic, it will always leave a hole in your heart. Good men ARE hard to find and if you know in your heart that his qualities make you feel good, and make you a better person, then this is a very good sign that you’ve met the right one.
2. You both like to laugh together.
Looks come and go but laughter goes a lifetime. Having a compatible sense of humor will help you survive tough trials, bond closer together, and enjoy each other’s company day by day.
You’ll not only entertain each other, but laugh at the same things.
In fact, studies seem to show that couples that can laughter together will usually last for the long run.
An article from Scientific American concluded that laughter means everything in a relationship, from flirtation in the beginning to long-term survival into marriage.
3. He has a positive effect on you – you are a better person when he’s in your life.
Whereas lust and “second-hand relationships” will always be characterized by misery and suffering, your partner just seems to make you happier day by day!
Maybe you don’t feel the LUST for him that you would feel for Brad Pitt (are we still using this guy as a sex symbol? He’s 53 years old now, come on!), but there may be other qualities about him that make you feel secure, more confident, more at peace with the world, and more exuberant in daily life—especially when you interact with him. When you meet the right one you know, and everyone knows, because you shine with positivity. It’s a contagious feeling of inner peace and something that continues through the years, growing stronger.
4. You know each other better than anyone else does.
Granted, this sign might not be as important as the other ones (positive effect, BETTER than knowing someone inside and out).
But it is still a must for a long-term relationship. Soul mates know each other fully, they understand how the other person thinks, and what they are feeling moment to moment.
Do you share your most intimate thoughts and feelings with each other? Do you tell each other things you’ve never told anyone else?
If so, there’s a good chance he’s a keeper for life.
5. You can talk disagreements out like mature adults!
Bad relationships are characterized by an inability to discuss things honestly, or without the argument escalating into madcap insanity.
When you’re actually with the right one, you may find that you disagree about many things…but that you can live with your partner’s viewpoint.
You can agree to disagree but the respect you have for your partner doesn’t diminish. He doesn’t belittle you or insist upon winning the argument.
He knows when to back away, as you do, until tempers calm down. Any differences in opinion can be tolerated and any disagreement can be worked out, negotiated, and finalized with love and respect.
6. You’re EMOTIONALLY attracted to him.
Not only does lust and physical attraction come and go but you can have these types of feelings for a lot of people.
And if your relationship is just based on a surface level of attraction, that same surface level of attraction for someone else could completely derail or outright destroy your relationship.
Emotional attraction is much more rare though… you’re attracted to everything about him, the way he thinks, the way he treats you, and the way he makes you feel good about yourself and your life.
That’s the kind of attraction that your relationship won’t survive without.
The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys a Man’s Love For You And Drives Him Out Of Your Life
There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…
It usually comes out as an honest question when you want to connect with him…
But only serves to push him away and slowly kill your relationship from the inside out…
It can take a man who is filled with love and passion for you…
And make him feel cold, distant, and uninterested…
Have you figured out what it is yet?
Many women send this as a text message when they’re feeling insecure…
And then are confused why he suddenly pulls away and disappears completely…
Most of the women who ask it don’t even know how harmful it is…
Yet it can take a relationship that seems like it’s perfect…
A relationship where you feel loved, cared for, and like you’ve finally found “the one”…
And overnight, it can tear that relationship apart…
Leaving you confused, frustrated, and heartbroken…
If you don’t know what this simple yet seemingly innocent question is…
I want you to stop what you’re doing and go watch this video presentation that I put together for you at the link below…
Click here to watch the video now <<
My name is Matthew Coast and I’ve been teaching in the dating industry on since 2005…
I’ve helped hundreds of thousands of women, all over the world…
Get into relationships where they feel loved, seen, and cherished by the men they’re with…
When you click the link this link right here <<
I show you what this 5 word phrase is…
I’ll teach you about why men pull away, how to stop it from happening…
And how to attract the man you want…
Into a relationship where you’re loved and adored and treated like a priority…
No matter how painful things have been in your past…
You can attract a great man and have a great relationship…
Just click this link and the watch the video right now…
If you’re struggling with men pulling away from you…
If you’re tired of giving everything to a relationship and only being taken for granted…
And if you’re ready to have a man see you as a woman that he wants to be with forever…
Click this link to watch my video right now <<
I am more forthcoming about feelings,opinionated to a fault..Serious overthinker when things start out as one way then shift in a different direction..This is new for both of us..We both agreed we wanted that one person..We’ve only been out once and it went well..We work different schedules so time isn’t in our favor due to his career at least until spring and having 50% custody of his son..He is 35 I’m 42..He is more reserved.but I feel if we can’t see each other often that in order to move forward there has to be a line of communication until our time in person isn’t so limited..I tend to seek reassurance more so because up until the past week or so he’s always given me that..Just states that he wants to go slow and that he likes me…I don’t feel that he understands where I’m coming from and that I come across as forceful..What can I do to be firm on what I require without being demanding…He’s kinda the calm to my crazy…
I’m sorry that you are going through this situation. I would back off and give this guy space and see how he responds with you taking a back seat. Let him miss you and if he really wants to be with you he will make time for you . It’s so hard to be in that situation but in that space that you give him you will see his real actions. Good luck and l have been listening to these videos as well ❤️
I am in love with Dan Patrick! He is now cold @ignoring me! He is the love of my life!