I know how confusing and exhausting this feels.

One day he's texting you constantly, making you laugh, seeming totally into you. The next day... crickets. Radio silence. Nothing.

He says he wants to see you "sometime," but when you try to make actual plans, he's suddenly vague or busy or non-committal.

You're left wondering: Is he interested? Is he just keeping me on the hook? Am I reading too much into this?

I'm Matthew Coast, and over the past 12+ years, I've helped hundreds of thousands of women navigate this exact situation.

The good news? Once you understand what's really happening (and what to do about it), everything changes.

The confusion ends. The anxiety stops. And you finally get the clarity you deserve—one way or another.

Let me explain what The Mixed Signals Trap is—and more importantly, how to escape it.

The Mixed Signals Trap is when you're dealing with a guy who shows interest sometimes but pulls back other times, leaving you constantly confused about where you stand.

He's not all in. But he's not completely out either.

He gives you just enough attention to keep you hooked—but never enough to feel secure or certain about his intentions.

And here's the thing: this isn't accidental confusion on his part.

It's a pattern. And it's keeping you stuck.

Maybe you're single and you like this guy, but you genuinely can't tell if he's actually interested or just enjoying the attention.

Or maybe you're in a relationship (or something relationship-adjacent), and he's giving you mixed signals about what this actually is or where it's going.

Either way, you're trapped in this exhausting loop of hope and disappointment.

You might recognize this as...
He's hot and cold with his texting.

One day he's blowing up your phone with funny messages and questions about your day. You go to bed thinking "okay, he's definitely into me."

Then the next day—or the next few days—nothing. He goes completely silent. You're left wondering what happened, what you did wrong, whether you should text him first.

He makes vague plans that never materialize.

"We should hang out sometime." "Let's grab drinks soon." "I'd love to see you."

It sounds promising. But when you try to pin down an actual day and time? Suddenly he's busy. Or he gives you another vague "yeah, definitely soon" with no follow-through.

You're stuck waiting for plans that never actually happen.

He gives you just enough to keep you hooked.

Right when you're about to give up and move on, he sends you a sweet text. Or he finally makes plans. Or he says something that makes you think "see, he IS interested."

Just enough breadcrumbs to keep you hoping. Just enough to make you think "maybe I'm being impatient" or "maybe he's just scared."

You spend hours analyzing his texts.

You screenshot his messages and send them to your friends. "What does this mean?" "Is he flirting or just being friendly?" "Why did he use that emoji?"

You're constantly trying to decode what he "really" means because his words and his actions don't match up.

You feel like you're always the one initiating.

You're the one texting first most of the time. You're the one suggesting plans. You're the one keeping the conversation going.

When you pull back to see if he'll step up... he doesn't. He's perfectly comfortable with the distance.

One moment he seems really into you, the next he's distant.

When you're together (on the rare occasions that actually happens), it's amazing. He's attentive, affectionate, present. You think "okay, THIS is real."

But then afterward, he goes back to being distant or unavailable. The warmth disappears. And you're left wondering which version of him is the real one.

You're stuck in this exhausting cycle of hope and disappointment.

You get your hopes up when he texts or makes plans or says something sweet. Then you crash when he disappears again or cancels or goes cold.

This emotional whiplash is draining you. One day you're convinced it's going somewhere. The next day you're convinced you're wasting your time.

You find yourself constantly checking your phone.

Waiting for a text that brings clarity. Hoping for a message that finally answers the question: "Is he interested or not?"

But that clarity never comes. Just more vague, confusing messages that leave you right back where you started.

Here's what's really happening:
The Mixed Signals Trap isn't about him being confused about what he wants.

It's not about him being "scared of commitment" or "bad at communication" or "going through something."

He's getting exactly what he wants from this situation.

Think about it: He gets your attention, your emotional energy, your availability, the thrill of your interest—all without having to commit to anything, risk anything, or show up consistently.

For him, this is comfortable.

For you, it's torture.

You're anxious about where you stand. You're exhausted from trying to read between the lines. You're frustrated by the lack of clarity.

Meanwhile, he's coasting along, enjoying the benefits of your attention without any of the responsibilities of actually pursuing you properly.

The anxiety of not knowing where you stand is eating you alive. You can't relax into it because you're never sure if he's actually interested or just bored.

The emotional exhaustion of constantly guessing his intentions is draining. Every text becomes a puzzle to solve. Every interaction requires analysis and interpretation.

The feeling of being kept in limbo—not quite together, not quite apart—is maddening. You can't move forward. But you can't let go either.

The self-doubt that creeps in is the worst part. "Am I reading too much into this?" "Is it me?" "Am I not attractive enough?" "Am I being too available?"

You start questioning yourself instead of questioning HIS behavior.

The frustration of breadcrumb attention—just enough to keep you interested, never enough to feel secure—keeps you stuck in this pattern.

Here's the truth about The Mixed Signals Trap:

You're not confused because he's unclear.

You're confused because he's deliberately keeping things vague.

Vagueness works in his favor. It keeps you interested without requiring him to step up. It keeps you available without him having to commit.

And until you understand this and know exactly what to do about it, you'll stay trapped in this exhausting pattern—wondering, hoping, analyzing, and never getting the clarity you deserve.

Most women think mixed signals mean one of two things:

Either he's "not that into you" and you should just move on.

Or he's playing games and deliberately trying to confuse you.

But here's what's really happening:

He's getting all the benefits of your attention and emotional energy without having to step up, risk anything, or commit to anything real.

Mixed signals aren't confusion—they're a comfort zone for him.

Think about what he gets from this situation:

• Your attention and interest
• The validation of knowing you're into him
• The possibility of something physical without commitment
• Someone to text when he's bored or lonely
• The ego boost of being pursued
• All the benefits of having you in his life—with zero pressure to show up consistently

And what does it cost him? Nothing.

He doesn't have to plan real dates. He doesn't have to be vulnerable about his feelings. He doesn't have to risk rejection. He doesn't have to do the work of actually pursuing you.

He's found the perfect setup: all reward, no risk.

And the reason he can maintain this setup is because you're still there, still available, still hoping he'll eventually get clear.

Here's the mechanism at play:
When you're stuck trying to decode his signals, YOU become the one doing all the emotional work.

You're the one analyzing his texts at 2am.

You're the one initiating contact when things go quiet.

You're the one hoping, waiting, wondering, worrying.

Meanwhile, he's just... existing. Texting you when he feels like it. Making vague plans when it's convenient. Enjoying your attention without any effort.

The trap is this: Your uncertainty keeps you engaged.

If he was completely clear (either fully in or fully out), you'd make a decision. You'd either be in a relationship with him or you'd move on.

But the mixed signals keep you stuck in the "maybe" zone—which is exactly where he wants you.

In the "maybe" zone, you're still available to him. Still giving him attention. Still hoping. But he doesn't have to commit to anything.

It's the perfect situation for a man who wants the benefits of your interest without the responsibilities of actually pursuing you properly.

Why common advice doesn't work:
"Just ask him directly where this is going"

You've probably thought about this. Maybe you've even tried it.

But here's what happens: He gives you a vague answer that leaves you more confused than before.

"I really like you, I'm just not sure about timing right now."

"I want to see where this goes, but I don't want to rush anything."

"I'm dealing with some stuff and I just need to figure things out."

Sounds reasonable, right? So you wait. And nothing changes.

He's bought himself more time in the "maybe" zone without actually committing to clarity.

"Play hard to get and he'll chase you"

You pull back. You stop texting first. You wait for him to step up.

And maybe it works... briefly. He notices your absence and reaches out. You feel validated.

But then once he has your attention again, the mixed signals return. You're right back where you started.

Playing hard to get doesn't solve the fundamental problem: he's comfortable with vagueness because it serves him.

"Be patient and give him space"

This is the advice well-meaning friends give. "He's probably just scared." "Give him time to figure out what he wants."

So you give him space. Days turn into weeks. Weeks turn into months.

And he's perfectly happy with this arrangement. He's got you waiting in the wings while he lives his life and keeps his options open.

The space doesn't create clarity. It just extends the limbo.

"Stop texting first and see what he does"

You decide you're not going to initiate anymore. You're going to make HIM show interest.

And then... nothing. He's fine with the silence. He's comfortable with the distance.

Because here's the thing: he doesn't NEED to reach out. You're still there when he decides he wants attention.

This isn't about one confusing guy
This is about not having a system for demanding clarity and inspiring clear pursuit.

Without that system, you'll keep attracting lukewarm men who keep you guessing instead of men who step up and chase you with certainty and enthusiasm.

The pattern will repeat:

You meet a guy. Things seem promising. Then the mixed signals start. You try to figure out what he wants. You make yourself available. You hope he'll get clear.

And either he keeps you in limbo indefinitely, or he eventually fades away, and you're left wondering what you did wrong.

The problem isn't you.

The problem is that you don't have the specific communication tools that force a man to either step up with clear pursuit or reveal that he was never going to.

You need a way to end the "maybe" zone—to make him choose—without seeming desperate, needy, or demanding.

And until you have that, The Mixed Signals Trap will keep happening, with this guy or the next one.

Let me paint you a picture of what happens if you stay in The Mixed Signals Trap.

Three months from now:

You're still in the exact same place.

Still confused about where you stand. Still waiting for him to finally be clear about his intentions. Still hoping that maybe this week he'll follow through on those vague plans.

Except now you're even more attached. Even more invested. Even more afraid to walk away because you've already put in "so much time."

You've spent three months of your life analyzing texts, waiting for clarity, accepting breadcrumbs, and convincing yourself that "he's just taking things slow."

Meanwhile, he's been enjoying your attention without any pressure to step up. Three months of comfort for him. Three months of anxiety for you.

Six months from now:

You've wasted half a year on someone who was never going to give you what you want.

Half a year of your life spent in emotional limbo with a man who couldn't even text you consistently.

You look back at all the weekends you kept open hoping he'd finally make real plans. All the nights you spent staring at your phone wondering why he went quiet again. All the times you made yourself available and he took it for granted.

And here's what hurts most: You've missed opportunities with other men because you were stuck waiting for this one to figure out what he wants.

That guy at the coffee shop who smiled at you? You didn't even notice because you were checking your phone for HIS text.

That coworker who asked if you wanted to grab drinks? You said no because you were "kind of seeing someone" (even though you weren't really).

Those months on the dating app where you barely swiped because you were emotionally unavailable—invested in someone who wasn't invested back?

All opportunities lost while you waited in the "maybe" zone.

A year from now:

You look back and realize you spent an entire year of your life in The Mixed Signals Trap.

An entire year that you'll never get back.

And one of two things has happened:

Either he's still giving you mixed signals (and you're still accepting them because now you're REALLY invested and it feels impossible to walk away).

Or he's finally made it clear he doesn't want a relationship with you—probably because he met someone else he IS sure about.

That second scenario is devastating. Watching him be clear and certain and all-in... with someone else. When he could never give you that clarity.

Realizing that he WAS capable of pursuing someone clearly and consistently. He just didn't want to pursue YOU that way.

Here's what happens to you emotionally:
Your confidence erodes with every vague text and canceled plan.

You start to believe that maybe you're not worth clear pursuit. Maybe this is the best you can expect. Maybe you're expecting too much.

Your standards drop because you've normalized accepting breadcrumbs.

You start questioning your worth.

"If I was prettier, would he be more consistent?"

"If I was more fun, would he make more effort?"

"Maybe I'm too much. Maybe I'm not enough."

You start twisting yourself trying to be whatever you think would make him finally step up—never realizing that the problem isn't YOU.

You become anxious and insecure in ways you never were before.

You used to be confident. Secure. You didn't obsess over texts or wonder where you stood with men.

But The Mixed Signals Trap has turned you into someone you don't recognize. Someone who's constantly anxious, constantly seeking reassurance, constantly afraid of doing the wrong thing.

You lose trust in your own judgment.

"I thought he was interested. Was I wrong?"

"I thought those signs meant something. Am I reading too much into things?"

"I thought I was worth pursuing. Maybe I'm not?"

You start doubting your ability to read situations accurately. And that self-doubt bleeds into every other area of your dating life.

Here's what happens practically:
You waste precious months (or years) on someone who was never going to commit.

Time you can never get back. Time you could have spent meeting someone who would pursue you clearly and enthusiastically.

Every week you spend stuck in The Mixed Signals Trap is a week you're not available to meet the right person.

You miss opportunities with quality men who would pursue you clearly.

While you're emotionally invested in someone who can't even commit to a Saturday night, amazing men pass you by.

Men who would text you consistently. Who would make real plans. Who would be excited and certain about you.

You don't even see them because you're too focused on trying to decode the guy who's keeping you in limbo.

You develop unhealthy patterns.

You start to believe that this is normal. That all men are vague. That you should lower your expectations.

You train yourself to tolerate confusion and inconsistency in relationships—patterns that will damage your future relationships even after you finally move on from this guy.

You accept less than you deserve.

Every time you accept a vague text after days of silence, you're teaching yourself that this is acceptable treatment.

Every time you accept breadcrumb attention instead of demanding consistent pursuit, you're lowering your standards.

And the longer you stay in this pattern, the harder it becomes to believe you deserve better.

How many more nights will you spend staring at your phone, waiting for a text that makes sense?

How many more times will you screenshot his messages and send them to your friends, asking "What does this MEAN?"

How many more weekends will you keep open, hoping he'll finally follow through on those vague "let's hang out" plans—only to be disappointed again?

How many more times will you make yourself available to someone who can't even commit to a simple dinner date?

How much longer will you accept being kept in the "maybe" zone when you deserve someone who's hell yes about you?

The truth is, The Mixed Signals Trap doesn't resolve itself.

It doesn't get better with time or patience.

It either continues indefinitely (with you slowly losing more of yourself in the process).

Or it ends when he finally decides you're not worth the minimal effort he's currently putting in.

Either way, you lose—unless you take action to change the dynamic right now.

When you're trapped in this confusing pattern, your instinct is to try everything you can think of to get clarity.

Unfortunately, the three most common things women do actually make the situation worse—keeping you stuck in limbo even longer.

What this looks like:

You tell yourself that if you're just patient enough, understanding enough, or give him enough space, he'll wake up one day and suddenly know what he wants.

You convince yourself he's "processing" or "figuring things out" or "dealing with something."

So you wait. You give him time. You don't pressure him. You stay available.

Why women do this:

You think that patience is virtuous. That being understanding makes you more attractive. That giving him space shows you're not needy or demanding.

You've been told that "the right person is worth waiting for" and that "good things take time."

You believe that eventually, if you're patient enough, he'll realize you're amazing and choose you.

But here's the truth:

His mixed signals ARE his answer.

If he wanted to be clear about his intentions, he would be. Clarity doesn't require weeks or months of "figuring things out."

When a man is genuinely interested and ready, he pursues clearly. He makes plans. He's consistent. He doesn't leave you guessing.

The vagueness isn't confusion on his part—it's a choice.

He's choosing the comfort of the "maybe" zone. He's choosing to keep his options open. He's choosing to enjoy your attention without committing to anything.

What actually happens:

You waste months waiting for clarity that never comes.

While you're patiently giving him space and time, he's enjoying your attention whenever it's convenient for him—without any pressure to step up.

Your patience doesn't make him suddenly get clear. It just enables him to stay comfortable in the limbo.

And the longer you wait, the harder it becomes to walk away because now you're SO invested. "I've already waited this long... I can't give up now."

You end up trapped by sunk cost—throwing more time into something that was never going to work because you've already invested so much.

What this looks like:

You think that if you're just more attractive, more fun, more available, more understanding—then he'll finally decide you're worth pursuing clearly.

So you:

Make sure you always look perfect when you might see him
Say yes to his last-minute plans to show you're easygoing
Act super cool and unbothered by his inconsistency
Avoid bringing up anything serious or "heavy"
Try to be the "cool girl" who doesn't need clarity or commitment
Why women do this:

You believe that his mixed signals mean you haven't proven your worth yet.

If you were just MORE (more attractive, more fun, more whatever), surely he would step up and pursue you properly.

You think the problem is that he doesn't see your value clearly enough—and if you can just demonstrate it, everything will change.

But here's what really happens:

The more you try to earn his clear interest, the less he has to work for it.

Think about it: You're doing all the pursuing. You're proving yourself to him. You're bending over backward to be what you think he wants.

Meanwhile, he's sitting back and letting you chase him—without having to step up, risk anything, or put in effort.

You're rewarding his vague, inconsistent behavior with more attention and availability.

You're teaching him that he can keep you hooked without actually pursuing you properly.

And men don't value what they don't have to work for. The easier you make it for him, the less valuable you become in his eyes.

What actually happens:

You exhaust yourself trying to prove your worth to someone who should already see it.

You twist yourself into knots trying to be the "perfect" version of yourself—never realizing that if you have to work this hard for someone's clear interest, they're not the right person.

The right person doesn't need you to prove your worth. They see it immediately and pursue you because of it.

And while you're busy trying to earn his pursuit, you're teaching him that:

• You'll accept breadcrumbs
• You don't require consistent effort
• You'll make yourself available regardless of how he treats you
• You're desperate for his validation

What this looks like:

You tell yourself that some attention is better than nothing.

You convince yourself that his occasional sweet text means he's interested—even though his actions don't match his words.

So you:

Accept his late-night "you up?" texts as signs of interest
Make yourself available for last-minute hangouts even though he won't commit to real plans
Settle for vague "we should do something soon" messages instead of actual dates
Convince yourself that inconsistency is normal or that you're being too demanding
Why women do this:

You're scared that if you demand more, you'll lose even the little bit you're getting.

You tell yourself that maybe this is just how he shows interest. That maybe you're expecting too much. That maybe this is modern dating and you need to adjust your expectations.

You're afraid that if you walk away, you'll regret it—especially if he was just about to step up and you gave up too soon.

But here's the problem:

Every time you accept breadcrumbs, you train him that mixed signals work.

You're showing him that he can keep you hooked with minimal effort. That he doesn't have to be consistent or clear because you'll stick around anyway.

You're reinforcing the exact behavior that's driving you crazy.

What actually happens:

You settle for less than you deserve and the pattern continues indefinitely.

He learns that:

A vague text every few days is enough to keep you interested
He doesn't need to make real plans because you'll accept "maybe sometime"
He can disappear for days and you'll still be there when he returns
He can keep you in the "maybe" zone without consequence
And you? You stay stuck in a situation that leaves you anxious, confused, and undervalued.

Months pass. You're still accepting breadcrumbs. You're still hoping they'll turn into something more. But they never do.

Because why would he change the dynamic when it's working perfectly for him?

Why your approach needs to be different:
Solving The Mixed Signals Trap isn't about:

• Waiting patiently for him to get clear
• Earning his interest by proving your worth
• Accepting breadcrumbs and hoping for more

It's about shifting the dynamic so that HE has to make a choice: either step up and pursue you clearly, or reveal that he was never going to.

It's about ending the "maybe" zone and getting the clarity you deserve—one way or another.

And that requires a completely different approach than what you've been trying.

Here's the truth about escaping The Mixed Signals Trap:

You don't need to wait for him to get clear on his own.

You don't need to play games or use manipulation tactics.

You don't even need to have a serious "where is this going" conversation that makes both of you uncomfortable.

What you need is a specific type of communication that forces him to either step up and pursue you clearly—or reveal that he was never going to.

Think about it this way:

Right now, he's comfortable giving you mixed signals because there's no consequence.

You're still there. Still available. Still hoping. Still accepting his vague texts and last-minute attention.

There's no pressure for him to change anything.

But what if you had texts that playfully called out his inconsistency?

What if you had messages that sparked his competitive instinct and made him realize another man might swoop in?

What if you had words that made him understand he might actually lose you if he doesn't step up?

Suddenly, sitting in the "maybe" zone isn't comfortable anymore.

Suddenly, being vague has a consequence.

Suddenly, he has to make a choice.

And that's exactly what you need—communication that ends the confusion and forces clarity.

Not angry confrontations or needy questions like "so what are we?"

Not serious relationship talks that put him on the defensive.

You need specific texts that playfully but firmly call out his vague behavior.

Messages that make him realize you're not going to sit around waiting forever—but without coming across as demanding, insecure, or bitter.

These messages need to feel light and confident (not heavy or desperate).

They need to communicate clearly that you expect real effort and clear interest.

But they need to do it in a way that doesn't push him away or make you seem like you're applying pressure.

It's a very specific tone—and when you get it right, everything changes.

He realizes you're not like other women who tolerate breadcrumbs. You have standards. You expect clarity. And he needs to step up if he wants to keep you.

You need texts that flip the dynamic.

That make HIM worry about losing YOU instead of you constantly chasing him for clarity.

These aren't manipulation tactics. They're not games.

They're strategic messages that tap into male psychology and trigger his natural instinct to pursue what he might lose.

Here's what most women don't understand: Men are competitive creatures. They want what other men want. They pursue what feels scarce or valuable.

When you're always available, always accepting his breadcrumbs, always waiting for him—you don't trigger his chase instinct.

But when you communicate (in specific ways) that you're not going to wait around indefinitely, that other men ARE interested, that you have options and standards?

His psychology shifts.

Suddenly you're not the sure thing in the "maybe" zone. You're something he might lose. Something he needs to lock down before someone else does.

And that triggers pursuit—real, clear, consistent pursuit.

This can't be vague advice like "be confident" or "know your worth."

You need exact copy-paste texts you can send TODAY—in your current situation, whether you've been talking for weeks or months.

Something simple enough that you can use it tonight.

Without overthinking. Without second-guessing. Without needing a Ph.D. in psychology or communication.

Just: Open the guide. Find your situation. Copy the text. Send it. Watch what happens.

That's it.

Because when you're anxious and confused and exhausted from The Mixed Signals Trap, the LAST thing you need is complicated strategy or vague principles.

You need simple, proven words you can send right now that will change the dynamic.

When you have all three of these pieces, something powerful happens:
The confusion ends.

Either he steps up and starts pursuing you clearly and consistently—making real plans, texting consistently, making his intentions known.

Or he shows you definitively that he was never going to—so you can move on without wondering "what if" or wasting more time.

You stop wasting emotional energy trying to decode every text.

No more late-night screenshot sessions with your friends trying to analyze what he meant.

No more agonizing over whether you should text first or wait for him.

No more anxiety about where you stand.

You KNOW where you stand because you forced the clarity.

You stop feeling anxious and insecure.

The constant wondering stops. The fear about doing the wrong thing disappears.

You're not walking on eggshells anymore because you've communicated your standards clearly.

You feel confident again—like yourself again—because you're no longer tolerating confusion.

You stop accepting breadcrumbs.

You either get consistent, clear pursuit—or you get closure.

Either way, you're no longer stuck in the degrading pattern of accepting mixed signals and hoping they'll turn into something real.

Instead, you inspire clear, enthusiastic pursuit—or you get the clarity you need to walk away and find someone who will chase you properly.

That's the difference between staying trapped in confusion and finally getting the clarity you deserve.

And it all comes down to having the right words to text him—words that force the choice and trigger pursuit.

After working with thousands of women stuck in The Mixed Signals Trap, I noticed something crucial:

The women who escaped it fastest weren't the ones who waited patiently.

They weren't the ones who played hard to get or had long serious talks.

They were the women who knew exactly what to TEXT him that forced clarity and sparked pursuit—without seeming desperate or needy.

They had specific words that changed the entire dynamic in a matter of days.

So I started collecting those texts.

I studied what made certain messages trigger his chase instinct while others pushed him away.

I tested different approaches with hundreds of women in real situations—women stuck in the "maybe" zone, women getting breadcrumbs, women dealing with hot-and-cold behavior.

I refined the messages until I had a collection of texts that consistently worked to end the confusion and inspire clear pursuit.

That collection became Texts That Make Him Chase.

• Vague plans that never materialize
• Hot and cold behavior

Whatever specific version of The Mixed Signals Trap you're dealing with, there's a text for it.

Here's why these texts work so fast and so well:
The truth is, men don't respond to subtle hints, long explanations, or frustrated messages.

What they respond to—every single time—are emotional triggers.

These powerful texts instantly spark his curiosity, ignite his desire, and create a sense of urgency to pursue you.

They're carefully designed to tap into his emotions, making him realize he can't risk losing you.

Here's how it works:
Step 1: Pick your script

Easily select the perfect script clearly categorized for your exact situation (mixed signals, friend-zone, ghosting, and more).

Step 2: Copy and paste the text

No guesswork, no stressing out. Just copy-paste the proven script in less than 10 seconds.

Step 3: Hit send and watch him chase you

Sit back and experience the thrill as he responds clearly, enthusiastically, and consistently—finally giving you the attention and pursuit you deserve.

You don't need to pretend you're someone you're not.

Instead, confidently show your playful, authentic self in a way he simply can't ignore.

No guessing. No anxiety about saying the wrong thing. No complicated strategies.

Just simple, proven texts that force clarity and inspire pursuit.

Some women see results within minutes of sending. Others within 24-48 hours.

But either way, the confusion ends quickly.

You're no longer stuck in The Mixed Signals Trap wondering what he wants.

You know. Because you forced him to show you.

With these scripts, you'll finally be able to:

The exact message that playfully but firmly addresses his hot-and-cold behavior.

This text makes him realize you've noticed his inconsistency—and you're not going to tolerate it indefinitely.

He'll either step up immediately with clear interest and consistent effort, or he'll reveal he was wasting your time so you can move on without wondering "what if."

(One woman used this text after weeks of vague "we should hang out" messages and he asked her to dinner that same night—with a specific time and place.)

What to say when he keeps suggesting you "hang out sometime" but never actually makes concrete plans.

This forces him to either schedule something real (with an actual date, time, and activity) or admit he's not serious about seeing you.

No more keeping weekends open hoping he'll follow through. No more accepting "maybe" as an answer.

(After months of "let's grab drinks soon," one woman sent this text and he responded within an hour with three specific dates he was available—and they went out that weekend.)

The specific message that shifts his perception without risking the friendship or seeming desperate.

This text creates just enough intrigue and romantic tension to make him see you differently—without being so direct that it's awkward if he doesn't reciprocate.

It works even if you've been in the friend-zone for months or years.

(One woman had been friends with a guy for over a year with zero romantic interest from him—she sent this text and within two weeks he asked her to be his girlfriend.)

How to re-engage a guy who went cold or disappeared without looking like you've been sitting around waiting for him.

This text reignites his curiosity and makes him explain himself—without you seeming bitter, hurt, or desperate for his attention.

It's light and playful but still communicates that his behavior was noticed and not acceptable.

(Multiple women have used this to bring back guys who went radio silent for weeks—and the guys came back apologetic and way more consistent than before.)

The simple text that makes it easy for him to finally tell you how he really feels.

This creates a safe space for honest communication without putting him on the spot or making it awkward.

It's perfect for when you've been dating or talking for a while but he hasn't made his intentions clear.

(This text has led to more "I really like you and want to see where this goes" conversations than any other script in the collection.)

Don't just take my word for it. Here's what women who were stuck in this exact pattern are saying after using The Devotion Switch:

"I went from thinking all men were players to being engaged in 6 months"

"I kept meeting guys who seemed great at first but always turned out to want something casual. I thought maybe I was just attracted to the wrong type. The Value Screening questions changed everything—I stopped wasting time on smooth-talkers and started recognizing genuine quality. I met James three months into the program, and I KNEW within two dates he was different. We're engaged now and I can't believe I almost gave up on finding someone like him." - Sarah M

"Finally, a system that actually works in the real world"

"I'd tried everything—apps, matchmakers, asking friends to set me up. I was meeting men, but none of them wanted what I wanted. The Fast Attraction Method showed me I was screening for the wrong things. The questions felt awkward at first, but they worked. I filtered out three guys in one week who would have wasted months of my time. Then I met David, and everything the program said would happen... happened. We've been together 8 months and he just asked me to move in." - Jennifer K.

"I thought this wouldn't work because I'm over 50"

"Honestly, I was skeptical. I'm 52, divorced, and everyone told me 'all the good men are married by now.' But the screening system doesn't care about age—it cares about values and intentions. I learned to ask better questions and trust my assessment of his answers. I met Robert at a friend's party, used the Connection Code during our first conversation, and we had our third date before the week was out. A year later, we're talking about marriage. I didn't think this was possible at my age." - Linda T

"No more months of 'where is this going?'"

"My pattern was getting attached to guys who 'weren't sure what they wanted' and hoping they'd eventually choose me. The Fast Attraction Method taught me to eliminate those guys BEFORE getting attached. The Power Phrase alone was worth the entire program—I used it on a third date and he immediately clarified he wanted a relationship. We've been together 10 months and I've never felt more secure." - Michelle R.

"I was meeting men, just the wrong ones"

"The diagnosis was so accurate it scared me. I WAS meeting men—just men who weren't right for me. The screening framework helped me see patterns I'd been missing. Within two weeks of starting the program, I could spot time-wasters in the first conversation. I met Tom a month later through a dating app, and unlike every other guy I'd talked to, he passed every single screening question. We're celebrating our one-year anniversary next month." - Amanda S.

Everything I just described—the complete Value Screening system, all the scripts, the frameworks, the questions, the bonuses—is available to you right now.

I've had women pay me $20,000 for a one-day intensive where I taught them these exact strategies.

Then I opened it to women in my exclusive $8,000 coaching program, where they got personalized support implementing this system.

More recently, I offered a $3,000 group coaching option for women who wanted this knowledge with some guidance.

But today, for women who are truly ready to solve The Right Men Shortage once and for all, I'm doing something different.

You're getting access to my absolute best material—the same system that's helped thousands of women go from frustrated and discouraged to happily committed—for a fraction of what others have paid.

Your total investment today is just $47.

That's right. $47 for the complete Fast Attraction Method.

Why so low?

Because I know how transformative this system is. I've seen it change lives. And I want to make it accessible to every woman who's ready to stop wasting time on the wrong men and start attracting the right one.

Here's what I want you to do:

Join the program right now. Go through the material. Start implementing the Value Screening system. Use the questions. Apply the frameworks.

Notice how your confidence increases as you learn to identify quality men quickly.

Feel the relief of walking away from wrong-fit men before getting attached.

Experience what it's like when a genuinely compatible, commitment-ready man starts pursuing you.

If within 60 days you don't feel you're on a clear path to attracting the right man, simply email us at support@matthewcoast.com for a full refund.

No questions asked. No hard feelings.

I'm that confident this system will change how you experience dating.

You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.

Click the button below and you'll be taken to a secure order form where you'll enter your name, email address, and payment details.

You can pay with any major credit card, or if you prefer, you can use PayPal, which is one of the most trusted payment solutions on the planet.

After you complete your order, you'll be sent to a "thank you" page, and within 10-15 minutes you'll receive login details to access FAM (Fast Attraction Method) inside our members area.

That's it. Simple, easy, and you can get started TODAY instead of wasting another day, week, or month stuck in this pattern.

Q: How is this different from other dating advice I've tried?

Most dating advice focuses on attracting MORE men or making yourself more appealing. The Fast Attraction Method does the opposite—it helps you filter OUT wrong-fit men quickly so you only invest time in the right ones. It's not about changing yourself; it's about screening smarter.

Q: What if I've tried everything and nothing works?

If you've tried everything and you're still struggling, it's likely because you didn't have an effective screening system. You were either meeting the wrong men or not filtering them out fast enough. This program gives you the specific questions and framework to identify right-fit men within the first conversation.

Q: How long does it take to see results?

Many women report filtering out time-wasters within the first week of using the Value Screening questions. The average time from starting the program to meeting a quality, commitment-ready man is 2-4 months—but some women meet their person within weeks.

Q: Will this work if I'm over 40/50/60?

Absolutely. The screening system works regardless of age because it's based on values and intentions, not demographics. We have success stories from women in their 20s through their 60s. Quality men who want commitment exist at every age—you just need to know how to identify them.

Q: What if I'm not meeting ANY men right now?

The Fast Track Dating System shows you exactly where and how to meet relationship-ready men, both online and offline. But even if you're already meeting men, the screening system will dramatically improve the quality of who you're investing time in.

Q: I'm worried about seeming too picky or demanding.

The Value Screening questions are designed to feel natural and conversational, not like an interrogation. Quality men actually APPRECIATE women who know what they want and communicate clearly. It's the wrong men who get defensive about screening—which is exactly how you identify them.

Q: How much time does this require?

The program is designed for busy women. You can go through the core material in a weekend, and start implementing immediately. The screening questions take minutes to use, but save you months of wasted time on wrong-fit men.

Here's what you've learned today:

The Right Men Shortage isn't about there being no good men available.

It's about not having a reliable system to identify them quickly and filter out the wrong ones before you get attached.

You've been meeting men—just the wrong men. Or spending months with seemingly promising men only to discover they're not right for you.

But it doesn't have to be this way.

On the other side of implementing The Fast Attraction Method, your dating life looks completely different:

You meet a man, and within one conversation you know whether he's worth pursuing.

You go on first dates only with men who've already demonstrated relationship readiness and value alignment.

You stop wasting months hoping someone will change or "come around" to wanting commitment.

You recognize quality, commitment-ready men immediately—and they recognize you as the woman they've been looking for.

Within months (not years), you're in a secure, loving relationship with a man who cherishes you and wants to build a future together.

That's the life waiting for you on the other side of this decision.

The women whose stories you read earlier—Sarah, Jennifer, Linda, Michelle, Amanda—they were exactly where you are right now.

Frustrated. Discouraged. Wondering if they'd ever find the right person.

They took action. They implemented this system. And their love lives completely transformed.

Now it's your turn.

For just $47, you're getting the complete system that's helped thousands of women solve The Right Men Shortage and find lasting love.

You're protected by a 60-day money-back guarantee, so there's literally no risk.

The only question is: are you ready to stop struggling and start attracting the right man?

Click the button below to get instant access to The Fast Attraction Method now.

Your future self—the one in a loving, committed relationship with the right man—will thank you for taking action today.

I'll see you inside the program.

Matthew Coast

P.S. Remember: this $47 introductory price won't last forever. This is a special rate for women who take action now. Don't let another month go by wasting time on the wrong men. Click the button above and get started today.

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