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How to Talk Dirty to a Man (6 Steps to Become Irresistible to Him)

How to Talk Dirty to a Man (6 Steps to Become Irresistible to Him)

Looking to infuse something fresh into your erotic repertoire or change things up in the bedroom? Verbal Sex, AKA talking dirty might be just the spice. Some well-placed hot words can heat things up in the bedroom, help your man feel great about himself and enhance your erotic life together.

Do you feel a little nervous about what to say or how to say it? Let me help.

1. Do a little research

If you’re unsure what bedroom talk your man might love, ask him about it before you’re in the bedroom:

“Do you like me to talk to you during sex sometimes, babe?”

“Any particular things really turn you on?”

He may let you in on some stuff you didn’t know about his erotic world and the conversation itself will create some fun anticipation.

2. Be you, be real

Helping your partner to feel special, attractive and desirable is a generous, caring gift and it’s an essential part of nurturing your long-term relationship. Speak your mind; share your desires; share your enjoyment of him in an intense moment:

“I want you more than anything now”

“I want to feel you inside me”

“All day I’ve been waiting for this/waiting to feel you…”

3. Take him a little off guard

Talking dirty works best when it unsettles him in a good way – so don’t be predictable with it.

Let things be quiet for a while and then as it starts to heat up, come in with a few well-chosen words softly delivered by his ear and send a shiver of erotic excitement through him.

4. Speak in images more than words

To have a scintillating effect your verbal sex can evoke vivid imagery. Your word pictures can be pure fantasy; memories of other great sex together; or zero in on his particular desires. Keep it simple for maximum impact:

“I’m imagining you’re kissing my…”

“Remember when I…”

“Imagine I’m kissing/touching your…while you…”

5. Ask, listen and learn

You’ll quickly see and feel which ideas turn your man on most and which don’t work such magic. If something doesn’t seem to push him over an erotic edge, don’t stress, move on or ask for feedback.

“How does this feel?”

“Do you want more of that?”

“Do you like x? Do you want it now?”

“Do you want me to do x for you?”

“Do you like me to do that faster, softer/harder?”

6. Use Encouragement, compliments or give direction

Most men love some guidance about what their woman wants during sex, because it teaches them about you and takes the pressure off them feeling they have to make it all happen for you.

It’s also sexy to hear what you like, sensuously described in the moment.

“That’s fantastic, like this, here…”

“I love it when you…”

“If you keep doing that I’m going to…”

Compliments are icing on the cake of love as long as they’re heartfelt and genuine.

“I love how your shoulders look”

“You feel amazing in me”

“I love it that you know just how to…”

“You’re so great at that…”

The goal of talking dirty is to enhance the pleasure for both of you, so relax, be real, and leave it for another time if it feels contrived or you’re self-conscious in the moment. Moans of appreciation can be good to hear, but screaming isn’t so great. And remember, you don’t have to use any words you wouldn’t normally use to infuse a shot of passion and excitement during sex.

Sex is essentially creative and talking dirty is really just adding your voice to the delicious mix of erotic self-expression your bodies and minds can play with and enjoy.

Just BE the love that you ARE. x

How a GOOD girl can unleash her NAUGHTY side…

If you’re a “good” girl who’s feeling that crazy itch to
be just a LITTLE bit naughty you go read this article right now…

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What I love about this article is that it teaches you the
secret of being INCREDIBLY sexy and alluring to a man
without ever acting or feeling “slutty”…

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In fact, when you read this you’ll learn how to get a
man more turned on and desperate for *you* . . .

While fully clothed . . .

Acting totally innocent . . .

Than any other woman he’s ever met could while totally
naked…

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Fill in the blank:

The only erogenous zone on a man that matters is
his ____________.

Do you know the answer?

Do you know how to USE the answer?

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Best,

Matthew Coast

P.S. The reason so many men “pull away” from women is
because women don’t understand this naughty secret
about men…

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15 thoughts on “How to Talk Dirty to a Man (6 Steps to Become Irresistible to Him)”

  1. I am rebounding a 34 yr of marriage, abusive, both verbal and other. My self esteem has took a hit. I was always a good girl but I want to be prepared in being better, not only for him, but for me too. Thanks for all this wonderful information. I want to be ready for my next relationship if it comes.

  2. I love this I always talk dirty to my man and we are really wild in the bedroom Ladies do it and you will be pleased and love how he treats you

  3. This is so beautiful I have learnt a lot about this and now I really know what to do if I fell in love with someone and I really love your advice it is true and romantic thank you so much may God bless you

  4. I really wants to learn, I am totally clueless when it comes to giving a man endless pleasure , talking dirty to drive him crazy. I freeze, just don’t know how

  5. I had been doing that unknowingly……….He sticks on me always family complain why ge does not think of bingung 2nd wife

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