The #1 Biggest Mistake Women Make When a Man Pulls Away

And How to Make Him Want to Come Back And Never Leave Again...

If you’ve ever had a man pull away from you, disappear, or play “hot and cold” with you, then you know how frustrating this can be.

This is one of the biggest complaints women come to me with.

You want to feel loved and cherished by a man

You want to feel like you’re so important to him that he never wants to let you go.

You want to be the woman that he wants to be with forever

But then one day he starts pulling back, goes cold, or disappears altogether.

Leaving you feeling heartbroken, confused, and questioning whether you’ll ever find the love you really want.

When a man pulls away, if you want him to come running back to you and never leave again, you need to avoid the biggest mistake women make that push men even further away...

It’s something I call, a “Connection Barrier.”

It’s like slamming a door in his face.

Most women do this because you want to feel seen, heard, and appreciated but this only tells him that he’s not welcome around you.

Instead, you want him to feel like it was a mistake to pull away and like he can’t wait to have you in his arms again.

I’ll tell you how to do that in just a minute…

But first…

Here Are The Biggest Connection Barriers That Push Men Further Away...

The biggest connection barrier I see women use is this…

1. Trying to “Teach Him a Lesson.”

This looks like yelling at him, cussing him out, or freaking out on him…

Women do this because they are feeling hurt and they aren’t sure how to tell him that so they attack him in this way.

Unfortunately, he won’t get the message.

He’ll only feel like he doesn’t ever want to talk to you again.

When you do this, you’re training him to avoid coming back to you because he’ll experience pain when he does.

Because of this, it’ll take him longer and longer to come back, if he does at all.

Instead, you want him to feel like coming back to you is the best thing he can possibly do.

2.  Giving Him the “Silent Treatment.”

This looks like going cold on him, going silent, or ignoring him…

Women do this because they want to give him “a taste of his own medicine.”

So they take revenge on him.

This is fine if you don’t ever want to talk to him again but any emotionally healthy man will take it as a sign that you’re not interested anymore, at best.

If you’re trying to send him a message that you’re feeling taken for granted, he probably won’t receive it this way.

If you want him to know that you feel disrespected like this, you need to set a boundary instead.

And if you do it the right way, it’ll make him appreciate and respect you more.

3. Communicating Neediness.

This usually looks like getting jealous, constantly seeking reassurance that he still likes you or loves you, baiting him for compliments, asking him if he’s going to leave you, etc.

You may get a small dose of relief if he gives you what you want but he’ll start to value and appreciate you less because of it.


Because it tells him that you don’t value yourself enough to believe that you deserve to have a great man and a great relationship.

And most men will start to lose interest and slip away after you do this, especially if you continue to do it over time.

There’s a 5 word phrase that women use that will destroy a man’s love for you and drive him out of your life forever.

We’ll talk about that in just a minute...

Most women do this because they’re afraid of losing a guy.

They don’t realize that this is what will push him away even further.

Instead, you need to believe in your own value so much that you confidently know that you deserve a great man AND a great relationship.

Here’s how you do that...

The Secret to Making Him Want to Come Back And Never Leave Again

If you want a man to come back to you and never leave again, you need to use something that I call…

The Forever Woman Formula.

This formula will... 

Raise your value in men's eyes...

Connect with his heart so that he falls in love and wants to be with you forever...

Protects you from men trying to take advantage of you...

Makes whatever man you're with afraid to lose you...

Gives you power and choice in your dating life so that you can end up with a great guy who cherishes the ground you walk on...

The Forever Woman Formula has three parts to it...

1. Believe in Your Value

There’s something I call, “The Law of Belief Transference.”

What it states is that whoever has a stronger belief about something will transfer that belief to the other person.

So if you believe that you’re not valuable, a man will ultimately start believing it as well, even if he WANTS to believe you’re valuable.

Why? Because it comes across in your actions, your words, and your overall communication.

You’ll start acting needy, wondering when he’ll leave you, questioning whether he really loves you or not.

You can fake believing it for a while through tricks and manipulation. 

But eventually your truth will be communicated and he’ll start to lose interest, pull away, and disappear forever.

Instead, you need to believe that you’re worthy of a great man and a great relationship at your core.

There’s a very specific way to do this that I’ll talk about in just in a minute.

2. Position Yourself in Value

If you want a man to NEVER want to pull away again, there’s one very simple thing that you will want to do…

You need to make him feel scared of losing you.

How do you do this?

You need to put yourself in a position where he feels and knows in his core that he could lose you if he doesn’t play his cards right.

If you do this the right way, he’ll be pursuing YOU for the kind of relationship that YOU want to have with him.

3. Communicate Your Value

This is the most common thing women come to me to find out…

They want to know, “What should I say to him?”

And this is VERY important.

Not only do you want to say something to him that makes him FEEL like it was a mistake to pull away in the first place…

You also want to communicate the right things WHEN HE’S WITH YOU.

If a man has already pulled away, I have a 4 word text message that is designed to get his attention, make him realize he was wrong for pulling away, and get him talking to you again.

We’ll get to that in just a minute...

Ultimately, you want him to value you, appreciate you, and cherish every moment he’s around you.

You want him to fall in love with you, see you for the amazing woman you are, and feel like he wants to move mountains and travel to the ends of the earth to be with you.

How Do I Know All of This?

My name is Matthew Coast and I’ve been teaching in the dating industry since 2005.

Maybe you’ve heard of me?

Over the last decade and a half I've spoken to, taught, and coached hundreds of thousands of women from over 40 countries about how to get into and stay in committed relationships that last.

I’ve helped save marriages, heal broken hearts, and helped women attract great guys who love, see, and cherish them.

Many of the women I’ve worked with have gotten into great relationships, gotten married, and are happier than ever before.

And their success can be YOUR success.

I believe that success leaves clues. People who’ve been successful before you have done certain things right…

What I do is research. I look for patterns for what works and what doesn’t work.

If you're reading this right now, my guess is that you're tired of men pulling away from you and you want to attract a guy into a committed relationship where he truly values you.

If you're having trouble right now, it's really not your fault.

A higher percentage of women than ever before in recorded history are single.

We live in the "hookup culture" where both men and women are choosing shallow sexual hookups instead of anything meaningful together.

The biggest complaint I get from are that men are pulling away and not looking for anything serious.

But here's the good news...

If you use The Forever Woman Formula to connect with a man, he'll feel like he doesn't want to pull away...

And instead, start imagining a life with you together.

Clients of mine who have used this have gotten amazing results...

Here Are Some Real Examples...

Melanie came to me after going through a heartbreak. 

She said she had heard so many good things about me that she was ready to try just about anything to change her situation around.

She said that the most important part, for her, was believing in her own value and remembering the affirmations that I had taught her when she went on a date with an amazing man.

After 3 weeks, he made things official with her and within a month he was telling her how much he loves her.

She told me that she "went from a heartbroken wreck to a woman who is worshipped and told by her man how much he loves her multiple times a day!"

Robyn had a man who was quickly pulling away and disappearing on her.

He had told her that he didn't want anything serious with her and that he was going to start seeing other people.

She positioned herself in value and then communicated her value to her man in the way that I taught her to.

She said that he came back to her with a different attitude, told her that he wanted to be with ONLY her, and even said that he appreciated the way she talked to her because he "needed the kick in the pants."

Mimi had a husband who was isolating himself, watching porn all the time, and was completely shut down.

She felt betrayed by him and didn't know what to do. She couldn't get him to go to therapy and decided to come to me as a last resort to try and fix her marriage.

She took concepts that I taught her about The Forever Woman Formula and used them on herself and with her man.

She said one of the most important part was the questions that I taught her about how to connect with her husband's heart.

She told me that not only did he stop watching porn, he opened up to her about his fears and they're closer now than they've ever been before.

Now when he goes out with her, he tells their friends how much he loves her and how proud he is that he's with the woman of his dreams.

If you're tired of men pulling away, going cold, and disappearing on you...

If you're tired of men seeing you as someone he just wants to hook up with and nothing more...

If you're tired of being taken for granted by men...

And you're ready to attract a man who loves you, cherishes you, and sees you as the woman he wants to be with forever...

Then you need to use my Forever Woman system.

The Forever Woman

The Forever Woman is the most powerful system that you can use to get a man to see you as the woman he wants to be with forever.

The reason this works so well is that it's based on the research that I've done into dating and relationships since 2005. 

It's based on human psychology and biology, what ACTUALLY WORKS to change the way that a man sees you so that he sees how valuable, amazing, and special you are.

It works for all women of all countries, young and old, of every race and background.

There are obvious cultural differences in each of these but the psychology and biology is the same everywhere.

It shows you how to protect yourself from ending up as a woman that a man just hooks up with while he's waiting for "the one" to show up.

Instead, YOU will be the one he's looking for. The woman he wants to commit himself to for life.

You'll be the woman he thinks about when he goes to bed at night and the first thing he thinks about in the morning.

You'll be the woman he wants to shower with love and romance.

This WILL work for you, even if...

... you're in a situation where men pull away, go cold, and disappear on you.

... you're in a situation where men only want to hook up or have casual "situationships" with you and nothing real.

... you've made some mistakes and you're afraid that nothing you can do will change things.

... even if you think that you've tried everything!

Inside The Forever Woman, you'll discover...

The 4 Word Text Message That Pulls Him Back

Use This If He's Pulled Away, Ignoring You, Or Gone Completely Cold On You.

This is guaranteed to get him to respond. If a man has become non-responsive with you, send him this 4 word text message that is designed to get his attention, show him it's a mistake to pull away, and make him want to reconnect with you again.

Women have used this to turn things around completely, gotten him to apologize, and take them out to dinner just from sending him this text message.

The Abundance Principle

If you want to get rid of your insecurities and have men chasing you, investing in you, and fighting to win your attention, use something I call, The Abundance Principle.

This will position you in value and make men scared that they're going to lose you to other men.

The Polarity Principle

If you want a relationship filled with passion and excitement... where your man can't keep his hands off of you and constantly wants to make passionate love to you, use The Polarity Principle.

Even if your relationship has gone cold and boring, this can spice things up and rekindle that passionate desire he has for you.

The Emotional Range Principle

If you want him to feel an obsessive type of love for you, miss you when you're not around, and feel like you're a blessing to him and his life, you need to use The Emotional Range Principle.

These questions create a deep and powerful emotional connection with any man that you use it on.

Value Framing

Discover the secret to raising your value in a man's eyes so that he wants to be with you and only you forever.

That's the power of value framing. He'll see how valuable and amazing you are want worship the ground you walk on.

The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys Relationships

You’ll discover the seemingly innocent 5 word phrase that will destroy his desire for you and drive him out of your life forever…

Most women who say or text this have no idea how lethal it is, thinking that it will actually bring you closer together…

While it only serves to kill his love dead and make him want to distance himself as much as possible from you.

And So Much More!

Here's What To Do Next...

In the past, I've charged over $500 a person to give them the secrets and life-changing information in The Forever Woman.

But today, if you buy it from this page, you can get it for just one payment of $47.

If you’re tired of struggling with men and you’re ready to have a man pursue YOU for the kind of relationship that you want to have, click the link below and get started right now…

Results In 60 Days Or Else It's Free

Even with this extreme discount I think it's only fair to prove The Forever Woman to you.

So it comes with my 60-Day "Love It or Leave It" Guarantee:

Use The Forever Woman for 60 days and if you don't absolutely love it, just send us an email at support@matthewcoast.com and we'll give you every penny back.

I'm doing this because, if you're still reading this, I know you need it.

You want to make sure this is right for you and I want to make sure you feel comfortable purchasing this today.

If you're tired of being a "second thought" in a man's mind and you're ready to be a man's priority, who he loves and cherishes, click the button below and sign up right now.

Talk soon,

Matthew Coast

Here's What Others Are Saying

We have some amazing women in our community who have used my products, here's some of what they have to say...


"Thank you so much for this. Matthew. I took you advice and everything has only gradually gotten better between us. He's done a complete 180.

He's been talking about our future together a lot the past month (moving in together, marriage, kids) and he really wants to rush and be in a relationship, but I remind him that he will feel much better when he has his life together to do that. 

Haha. He's just been absolutely amazing. The great thing about it is I'm not only excited to get to that point where we can move forward but I'm excited about everyday up until that point. We have had so many deep conversations where he had told me that he feels like we grow closer everydayand we think it's great we've taken everything very slow. It's so much better than jumping into things. I just wanted to thank you again! Hope all is well with you and God bless you. 🙂"


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“I thank Matthew so much. His program changed my life. His advice and techniques are invaluable. Easy to understand and implement.”  


I actually did this...everything I could to prove how great of a catch I was. I did for 32 year marriage then again after the divorce and in a bad relationship for 2 years. 

I did until I found you, Matthew Coast and now I'm in the most amazing relationship with a man, who I do NOT "have to work to prove" anything. He treats me like a goddess and calls me "Beautiful, Queen, bride." ❤


Yesterday I joined and watched all the videos I probably went through them 2 more times today I applied the tips today and saw amazing results my husband. 

It made me so happy today that I could not stop smiling and was almost in tears from joy. I can't wait to learn more 🥰

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