Your Results Are In...
Here's exactly what that means—and what to do about it
Your quiz results reveal something frustrating: he's sending you mixed signals.
One day he's texting nonstop, the next he's MIA. One minute he's flirting and engaged, the next he's cold and distant. You're constantly trying to decode what he's thinking, and it's driving you crazy.
This isn't in your head. He IS being inconsistent. And there's a specific reason why.
I'm Matthew Coast, and over the past 12 years, I've helped hundreds of thousands of women break free from the "mixed signals" zone and turn confused, uncommitted men into eager pursuers.
My work has been featured on CNN, ABC, and Success Magazine, but what matters most are the real results women like you are experiencing every day.
The good news? You can cut through his ambiguity and get him to show his true feelings—and I'm going to show you exactly how.
When a man sends mixed signals, it means he's caught between desire and fear.
Part of him is attracted to you and wants to pursue you. But another part of him is scared... of commitment, of getting hurt, of losing his freedom, of making the wrong choice.
So he vacillates. Hot and cold. Interested then distant. All in then pulling back.
You might recognize this as:
One day he's texting constantly, the next he disappears for days. When he's engaged, he's ALL in... flirty, attentive, asking questions, making plans.
Then suddenly... nothing. Radio silence. You're left wondering what you did wrong or if he's lost interest entirely.
He's affectionate in person but distant over text. When you're together, he's warm, touchy, present. He looks at you like you're the only person in the room.
But between dates?
Crickets. Short responses. Hours (or days) between replies. It's like you're talking to a completely different person.
He talks about future plans but never commits to actual dates. "We should go to that new restaurant." "We need to do a road trip sometime." "I want to take you to meet my friends."
But when you try to nail down actual plans? He's suddenly busy, vague, or non-committal.
His behavior changes based on how available you are. When you pull back or seem busy, he suddenly pursues harder. But the moment you're responsive and available, he cools off. It's like he's only interested when he thinks he might lose you.
You can never tell where you actually stand with him. Are you dating? Are you exclusive? Does he see this going somewhere?
You have no idea because he won't define it. He keeps things ambiguous... close enough to keep you hooked, but vague enough that he's not committing to anything.
His words and actions don't match. He says he's really into you... but doesn't make time to see you.
He says you're special... but won't introduce you to his friends or family. He says he wants a relationship... but keeps you in this weird limbo for months.
Sound familiar?
You're not imagining it. You're not being "too sensitive" or "overthinking it."
What's happening is this: He's keeping you in the "maybe" zone because he hasn't decided if he's all in or all out.
And until something shifts that dynamic, you'll stay stuck in this painful limbo.
Most women think men send mixed signals because:
But here's what's actually going on:
Men send mixed signals when they're attracted to you but haven't invested enough emotionally to overcome their resistance to commitment.
Let me break that down.
He IS attracted to you. That's why he keeps coming back. That's why he texts you when he's feeling it. That's why he pursues when you pull back.
But attraction alone isn't enough to make a man commit.
For a man to go all in, he needs to feel EMOTIONALLY INVESTED. He needs to feel like you're someone he can't afford to lose. Like he'd regret it forever if he let you slip away.
And right now? He's not there yet.
"Just be patient and give him space to figure out his feelings"
Giving him unlimited time to "figure it out" just keeps you stuck in limbo while he enjoys the benefits of your attention without having to commit. Time alone won't make him more invested... it just gives him permission to stay comfortable in the "maybe" zone.
"Tell him how you feel and ask where this is going"
Having "the talk" before he's emotionally invested usually backfires. It puts pressure on him to make a decision before he's ready, and most men will choose to pull back or end things rather than commit under pressure.
"Ignore him and make him chase you"
Going completely cold or playing hard to get might get his attention temporarily, but it doesn't create the emotional investment needed for real commitment. He might pursue in the moment, but once he "wins" you back, he'll likely return to the same hot-and-cold pattern.
"Just walk away... if he wanted to, he would"
While it's true that you shouldn't waste years on a guy who won't commit, many men need a push to overcome their resistance. Walking away before you've disrupted the pattern means you might be giving up on someone who would have stepped up if you'd communicated differently.
None of these strategies address what's actually creating the mixed signals: his lack of emotional investment.
When you're always available, always understanding, always patient with his inconsistency... you're not creating the emotional urgency he needs to overcome his fear.
You're making it easy for him to stay in the "maybe" zone.
He gets the emotional connection when he wants it. He gets your attention when he reaches out. He gets the girlfriend experience without the commitment.
And because there's no consequence to his hot-and-cold behavior, there's no reason for him to change it.
Here's the mechanism at play: Men commit when the fear of losing you becomes greater than the fear of committing to you.
Right now, he's more afraid of commitment than he is of losing you.
He knows... consciously or unconsciously... that even when he pulls back, you'll still be there when he returns.
So he keeps one foot in and one foot out, testing the waters, enjoying the connection when it feels good, and pulling back when it feels like too much.
This is the bigger pattern you haven't seen: His mixed signals aren't about his confusion... they're about his comfort.
He's comfortable in the ambiguity because it gives him everything he wants without requiring him to risk anything.
Until you disrupt that comfort and create a fear of losing you, the pattern will continue.
Here's the honest truth about what happens if you stay stuck in the "mixed signals" zone:
Two weeks from now: You're still analyzing his texts. Still wondering if he's really interested. Still stuck in the same confusing pattern. Nothing has changed because nothing has disrupted the dynamic.
One month from now: Your patience is wearing thin. You're starting to resent him for the inconsistency, but you're also afraid to bring it up because you don't want to "scare him away" or seem demanding.
Three months from now: You've had a version of "the talk," and it went exactly as you feared. Either he gave you vague reassurances that nothing's wrong while continuing the same behavior... or he pulled back entirely, saying he's "not ready for something serious right now."
Six months from now: You've wasted half a year in relationship limbo. Your self-esteem has taken a hit from constantly second-guessing yourself. You're exhausted from the emotional roller coaster of his hot-and-cold behavior. And you're starting to wonder if you'll ever find someone who's genuinely all in.
A year from now: Either you're STILL stuck in the same pattern with this guy... settling for breadcrumbs and occasional attention... or you finally walked away, heartbroken and confused, wishing you'd done something different six months ago.
Every day you stay in the "mixed signals" zone, it takes a toll:
Your self-doubt grows louder with every unanswered text. When he goes cold, you immediately assume you did something wrong. You replay every conversation, analyzing what you might have said to push him away. You start to question your worth, your attractiveness, your judgment.
You lose trust in your ability to read situations. If you can't tell whether this guy is into you or not, how can you trust your judgment with anyone else? The confusion chips away at your confidence in your own instincts.
Your energy gets drained by constant emotional whiplash. The highs when he's engaged and the lows when he pulls back... it's exhausting. You can't relax or enjoy the connection because you're always bracing for the next time he disappears.
You become anxious and insecure in ways you've never been before. Even if you came into this confident and secure, his mixed signals have you checking your phone constantly, overanalyzing everything, and feeling needy in ways that don't feel like you.
You settle for less than you deserve. You start accepting breadcrumbs... occasional texts, vague plans, inconsistent effort... because you're so invested that even the bare minimum feels better than nothing.
You waste months (or years) in relationship limbo. Time you could be spending with someone who's genuinely excited about you and ready to commit. Time you'll never get back.
You miss opportunities with other men. While you're stuck decoding this guy's mixed signals, other high-quality men who would pursue you properly are passing you by. You're unavailable emotionally because you're so focused on him.
The pattern gets harder to break the longer it continues. The more time you invest, the more painful it becomes to walk away... even when you know you should. You become more attached while he stays comfortably detached.
He learns he can get away with low-effort behavior. Every time you accept his inconsistency without consequence, you're teaching him that he doesn't need to step up. The pattern becomes self-reinforcing.
You develop a pattern of attracting emotionally unavailable men. When you tolerate mixed signals from one guy, you're likely to repeat the pattern with the next one. You start attracting men who sense you'll put up with ambiguity.
Men who send mixed signals don't suddenly wake up one day and decide to commit if nothing changes.
The dynamic you have now is the dynamic you'll continue to have unless you disrupt it.
He's comfortable keeping you in the "maybe" zone because it's working for him.
He gets connection without commitment. Attention without effort. The girlfriend experience without the relationship.
And if you keep accepting it, why would he change?
The longer you stay in this pattern, the more entrenched it becomes.
But here's what you need to know: You have the power to change this dynamic starting with your very next text.
Not by chasing harder. Not by having "the talk." Not by playing games.
By using strategic communication that forces him to make a real decision: either step up and pursue you properly, or lose you.
When a man sends mixed signals, your instinct is to either try harder to get clarity or pull back and wait for him to sort himself out.
But unfortunately, most of what women try actually keeps them stuck in the "maybe" zone longer.
Here are the three biggest mistakes I see:
This looks like always being available when he finally reaches out, never calling out his inconsistent behavior, accepting his vague explanations without pushback, and continuing to invest emotionally even when he's pulled back.
Why women do this:
You don't want to seem demanding, difficult, or high-maintenance.
You're afraid that if you push for clarity, he'll pull away completely.
You think if you're patient enough, he'll eventually realize you're worth committing to.
You believe "the right person will choose you without you having to ask."
Why it backfires:
When you're endlessly patient and understanding, you remove all the urgency for him to make a decision.
He learns that no matter how inconsistent he is, you'll still be there waiting when he returns.
There's no consequence to his hot-and-cold behavior, so there's no reason to change it.
You're essentially giving him permission to stay in the "maybe" zone indefinitely.
What actually happens:
Months pass and nothing changes. He's still hot and cold. You're still confused.
He gets comfortable with the ambiguity because it's working perfectly for him.
Your resentment builds while your self-esteem shrinks, but you keep accepting the breadcrumbs because you're so invested.
Eventually, you're the one who has to walk away... exhausted, heartbroken, and wondering why you waited so long.
This looks like asking "where is this going?", telling him you need clarity or commitment, expressing your frustration with his mixed signals, or giving him an ultimatum.
Why women do this:
You're tired of the confusion and want clarity... even if it's bad news.
You think if he knows how you feel, he'll either step up or let you go.
You believe honesty and directness will inspire him to be honest too.
You're hoping that expressing your needs will make him realize what he's risking.
Why it backfires:
Having "the talk" before a man is emotionally invested puts massive pressure on him to make a decision before he's ready.
Most men will choose to pull back or end things rather than commit under pressure.
It makes you seem like you're trying to "lock him down" before he's chosen you.
You're essentially asking him to commit to someone he hasn't fully invested in yet... and the answer will almost always be no.
What actually happens:
He either gives you vague reassurances ("I really like you, I just need more time") while continuing the same behavior...
Or he pulls the "I'm not ready for a relationship right now" card and ends things.
Either way, you don't get what you want... and you've now made the dynamic awkward and pressured.
The relationship either ends or limps along in an even more uncomfortable version of the "maybe" zone.
This looks like suddenly not responding to his texts, pretending you're busy when you're not, acting distant or uninterested to "teach him a lesson," or flirting with other guys to make him jealous.
Why women do this:
You think if you seem less available, he'll pursue harder.
You want him to feel what it's like when someone pulls away.
You believe creating mystery and distance will spark his interest.
You're trying to regain control and make him chase you.
Why it backfires:
Going cold or playing games might get his attention temporarily, but it doesn't create the emotional investment needed for commitment.
He might pursue you in the moment out of ego or competitiveness, but once he "wins" you back, he'll likely return to the same hot-and-cold pattern.
Playing games creates a dynamic based on manipulation instead of genuine connection.
If he senses you're being inauthentic or playing hard to get, it can actually push him away permanently.
What actually happens:
You play hard to get, and he pursues for a few days or weeks.
You think it's working, so you become available and responsive again.
He gets comfortable again and returns to the same inconsistent behavior.
You're right back where you started... except now you're exhausted from the games and he's learned that his mixed signals work.
Breaking out of the "mixed signals" zone isn't about being more patient, having "the talk," or playing games.
It's about using strategic communication that forces him to make a real decision: either step up and pursue you properly, or lose you.
You need texts that:
Let me show you exactly what that looks like.
To break free from the "mixed signals" zone and get him to commit or walk away, you can't keep using the same approach.
You need something that works with male psychology, not against it.
Here's what actually creates change:
You don't need to have "the talk" or give him ultimatums.
You need texts that call out his inconsistency in a way that's playful and confident, not needy or confrontational.
This means:
When you communicate this way, you create a moment of truth.
He can no longer hide in the ambiguity. He has to make a real decision.
And most men, when forced to choose between losing you or committing, will step up... if they're actually interested.
Right now, he's comfortable sending mixed signals because there's no consequence.
What you need is communication that disrupts that comfort and makes him realize he's about to lose you if he doesn't get his act together.
This means:
When a man feels like he might actually lose you, it triggers something powerful: the fear of regret.
Suddenly, his fear of commitment becomes less scary than his fear of losing you.
And that's when men step up.
Most advice tells you to either be brutally direct or play mind games.
What you need is a middle path: strategic communication that inspires him to commit without you seeming desperate, demanding, or manipulative.
This means:
When you have the right scripts, you don't have to agonize over what to say or spend hours crafting the perfect message.
You just copy, paste, send... and get a real answer about where he stands.
He stops the hot-and-cold behavior and becomes consistent.
He either steps up and pursues you properly or reveals he's not ready... giving you clarity either way.
You stop wasting energy trying to decode his mixed signals and get a definitive answer.
And you either build a real relationship with someone who's all in, or you free yourself to find someone better.
That's the power of strategic communication.
Over the years, I've worked with thousands of women stuck in the "mixed signals" zone.
They would come to me exhausted from the emotional whiplash, confused about where they stood, and desperate for clarity.
Most had tried everything: being patient, having "the talk," playing hard to get.
And it wasn't working. He was still hot and cold. They were still stuck in limbo.
So I started researching what actually forces a man to make a decision and commit... or walk away.
I studied male psychology, attachment patterns, and the communication strategies of women who successfully turned ambiguous situations into committed relationships.
I worked with women who naturally inspired men to step up and stop the mixed-signal behavior.
What I discovered was fascinating:
The women who got men to commit weren't the most patient or the most understanding.
They were the ones who knew how to create a moment of truth... a point where the man had to decide if he was in or out.
They had the right words to call out the inconsistency without being confrontational.
They knew how to trigger his fear of losing them without playing games.
They didn't wait endlessly for him to "figure it out"... they forced clarity with strategic communication.
That research became Texts That Make Him Chase.
Texts That Make Him Chase is a collection of 15 playful, proven text message scripts designed to cut through his mixed signals, force him to show his true intentions, and inspire him to step up and pursue you properly.
This isn't about manipulation or games.
It's about using words that create clarity, trigger his emotional investment, and force him to make a real decision about you.
Inside Texts That Make Him Chase, you'll discover:
This program gives you everything you need to break free from the "mixed signals" zone and get a real answer about where he stands.
Inside Texts That Make Him Chase, you'll get 15 copy-paste text message scripts designed to force clarity and make him commit or walk away.
Here's what you'll discover:
📣 “I was stuck in ‘Does he like me?’ hell for months. After using one of the texts, he finally asked me out. Now we’re planning a weekend getaway!”
– Emily, 29
📣 “I loved how the scripts felt true to me – playful but not desperate. For the first time, I felt in control of my dating life.”
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📣 “I used the ‘mixed signals’ text, and his response was so clear. No more guessing games!”
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📣 “I’ve tried other dating guides, but this was different. The texts felt natural, and the results were instant.”
– Jess, 26
Texts That Make Him Chase contains everything you need to break free from the "mixed signals" zone and get him to commit or give you closure.
This isn't about being more patient or having awkward conversations.
This is about using strategic communication that forces him to make a real decision about you.
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Here's what you've learned today:
When a man sends mixed signals, it's not because he's confused about his feelings.
It's because he's comfortable in the "maybe" zone... getting connection without commitment, attention without effort.
Without strategic communication that forces him to make a real decision, you'll stay stuck in this painful limbo while he enjoys the best of both worlds.
But it doesn't have to be this way.
On the other side of using Texts That Make Him Chase, your love life looks completely different:
You're no longer stuck analyzing his every text and wondering where you stand.
You're no longer accepting hot-and-cold behavior and breadcrumbs.
You're no longer wasting emotional energy on someone who won't commit.
Instead:
You have clarity... either he stepped up and is pursuing you properly, or you got the closure you needed to move on to someone better.
You feel confident and in control... because you're no longer waiting passively for him to figure out his feelings. You forced a decision with strategic communication.
You're either in a real relationship with someone who's all in... or you're free to find someone who will be, without wasting months in limbo.
You know exactly what to text to get real answers... no more guessing, no more overthinking, no more wondering if you're saying the right thing.
The confusion, the emotional whiplash, the endless wondering... it all ends when you send the right text.
That's the relationship clarity waiting for you on the other side of this decision.
The women whose stories you read earlier... Emily, Maya, Lauren, Rachel, Jess... they were exactly where you are right now.
Stuck in the "mixed signals" zone. Confused about where they stood. Exhausted from the hot-and-cold behavior.
They used Texts That Make Him Chase. And everything changed.
Emily got him to finally ask her out, and now they're planning getaways together.
Maya felt in control of her dating life for the first time.
Lauren got crystal-clear communication... no more guessing games.
Rachel gave him the courage to step up, and he did.
Jess saw instant results... he stopped the mixed signals within 24 hours.
Now it's your turn.
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I'll see you inside,
Matthew Coast
P.S. Remember: The longer you stay in the "mixed signals" zone, the harder it becomes to break free. These scripts could get you clarity starting with your very next text.
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