What would you like to get out of this community?

[MatthewCoast]

If being a part of this community could help you with one thing, what would it be?

 

[KweenJeff]

how to maintain a healthy relationship with your partner?

 

[Suze]

If being a part of this community could help you with one thing, what would it be?

How to reconnect with my ex when I'm the one that left?

 

[DonnaP]

To understand what makes a guy after 3 1/2 years go from planning our future daily to not speaking to you and refuses to explain except for “I don’t know”

 

[Lostprincess]

To assure the love of my life that he’s my world

 

[Scarlett Myers]

If being a part of this community could help you with one thing, what would it

If being a part of this community could help you with one thing, what would it be?

Helping me understand why my husband insists he loves me yet continues to hurt me over and over again. How many times do I forgive him?

 

[harvickfan]

If being a part of this community could help you with one thing, what would it be?

To know if my man really loves me or if he's been stringing me along for 4 years in this LDR.

 

[Gkathieb]

If being a part of this community could help you with one thing, what would it be?

I have been divorced since 1996. I am tired of being single and want a loving forever relationship more than anything in this world

 

[Maurine]

If being a part of this community could help you with one thing, what would it be?

Learn how to move on after my husband of 30 years has been cheating on me for the past 6 years with an ex girlfriend when he was 18.

 

[Heaven]

I would like to know why my long distance boyfriend keeps on breaking up with me and a couple of months later, comes back to me, every time. I've read so much, but not about this turmoil of a relationship.

 

[Ash]

If being a part of this community could help you with one thing, what would it be?

How to move on when you still love and want to be with a someone, who you have a baby with, but he no longer wants to be with you. It's very difficult when you just had a baby, or have kids together. You still have to see and talk to them. All I hear is "only communicate when necessary about kids only" but that doesn't help at all, doesn't work!

 

[Newanna]

I love this community and the idea behind it. And nice to see Matthew as always

 

[deDeanna]

If being a part of this community could help you with one thing, what would it be?

To be smarter with my relationships, avoid getting hurt, finding a LTR that makes me happy.
If I can help others by sharing my dating experiences I would be happy

 

[ChaoticJuggz]

If this community could help me with one thing, I think it would be to get better at communicating in a relationship & if the other party isn't willing to put effort into that, how to move on without dwelling on the hurt/rejection feelings.

 

[Dwall]

If being a part of this community could help you with one thing, what would it be?

How to stay away from the past that hurt me and be able to freely move on.

 

[Jewlee]

After 16 years I was replaced by a bar stool, not a human but a bar stool. Crushed me! So I left..then he says he wants to work on us. Then goes to the bar he states to not think about us. We have alot more history than 16 years it's been a total of 34...give or take. He wont talk to our 27 year old son, he's let the business go to the waist side, and he had pushed me so far away that I almost don't see a future with him at all. Please help me understand.

 

[MatthewCoast]

After 16 years I was replaced by a bar stool, not a human but a bar stool. Crushed me! So I left..then he says he wants to work on us. Then goes to the bar he states to not think about us. We have alot more history than 16 years it's been a total of 34...give or take. He wont talk to our 27 year old son, he's let the business go to the waist side, and he had pushed me so far away that I almost don't see a future with him at all. Please help me understand.

You're looking to find out why he's given up on you and your son?

 

[Catia]

If being a part of this community could help you with one thing, what would it be?

I need to learn to move forward after heartbreak. Just lost my person. The one...

 

[Joluck69]

I have been in a terribly toxic marriage for 28 years. Hopefully my divorce will be final soon. I filed at the end of June 2021.

I have started to date and am getting involved with an old friend. He just got divorced also. We were both cheated on. We are both in counseling. How do we build trust? I think I'm ready to start a real relationship with him but he says he's not. He always asks about my male friends. I assure him they are nothing to worry about but he has "heard it all before". I get that but what can I do?