I need help. I thought I could answer other people's questions, but I can't even help myself. My boyfriend has dumped me for the third time in the last few years, except this time it only took him two months after we got back together. If I don't do something right, according to him, he gets mean and leaves me. I'm so in love with him, but I know that this is a very toxic relationship and he has control. How,in the world, do I just let him go, knowing it would be best for me. I'm in such pain, again. I did nothing wrong. I swear. He took advantage of me, I believe, after my husband passed away, and I was vulnerable. What should I do? I would appreciate any advice.