You meet a guy and he seems amazing… But before you know it, things change and he ends up ruining your life with toxic behaviors. How do you recognize toxic behaviors in a man, at the beginning, before you’re attached? Here is the #1 sign that he’s toxic… You feel bad when you’re with him […]
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Dear ____, I’ve been thinking a while on whether or not to write this letter. Please understand that the only reason I hesitated to send it was that I didn’t want to overstep my bounds and get involved in your business. I know we’re friends, but at the same time, I know it’s your life
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Have you ever heard the expression “Just ignore the troll and he’ll go away?” Seems like good advice. Some people are fueled off negative energy. The more you argue with them, the more excited they get to keep the conversation going. It’s a dysfunctional dynamic and yes, narcissists tend to this frequently. The problem is
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I’ve met some women who ask me about the dangers of dating “players”. And they ask me questions like, “How do I avoid falling for their lies?” or “resist their mind control” and “How can I resist falling for the act?” and stuff like that. There seems to be an almost sensational fear of getting
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Some of the most difficult people you’ll ever meet will have Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), which refers to a long-term pattern of self-importance, a grandiose desire to be loved by everyone, and a lack of empathy for other people. Notice that NPD has very specific symptoms, as opposed to general “egotism”, which of course, a
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It’s a shame that a large number of people really don’t understand what PTSD, nor do they get treatment for it. PTSD (posttraumatic stress disorder) means the various symptoms a person has after experiencing or witnessing a life threatening event. Your body and mind has difficulty reconciling that traumatic memory. While it’s debatable if official
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Narcissistic men are a clever bunch, aren’t they? They are so consumed with power, fame and success that they are willing to do literally anything to continuously feed their ego. Narcissists are driven by the desire to dominate and win in relationships, while feeling little to nothing for their partners. They are characterized by a
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Here’s one thing I’ve observed about narcissism in the modern age. The word is definitely over-used. Narcissistic actors, narcissistic politicians on Instagram, and yes, of course your narcissistic ex-boyfriend or ex-friend who were always so self-involved. Yes, it’s unpleasant to be friends or lovers with a man who is always self-absorbed. But be that as
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In past articles I’ve spoken on the subject of narcissism, specifically, avoiding men who have narcissistic tendencies. If you’ve never really read about narcissism or only vaguely understand the concept, then you may not understand why it’s such a “big deal” in dating. After all, narcissists are really easy to spot in a crowd, right?
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What are the signs he’s faking his love for you? One of the most cunning opponents in dating is the narcissist. Narcissists, sociopaths and god forbid “narcissistic sociopaths” are among the most unpleasant and unbearable people to be around. It’s hard to imagine having a long-term relationship with one of these guys. It’s constant misery
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