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Why Does He Keep Coming Back

There’s nothing quite as frustrating as a hot/cold lover who doesn’t know they want.

In fact, if you’ve never had this kind of relationship before, it’s difficult to describe. It feels like a “twin flame” sort of thing, a relationship that’s very intense and passionate – but then self-destructs in a horrible way. You love him but can’t live with him. You hate him in some ways, but you can’t stop seeing him – you can’t even imagine life without him.

And one of the most confusing aspects of this twin flame type of relationship is when he leaves you for good…only to come back. Again and again.

It’s enough to drive a person crazy! Why would a man leave and then come back? Worse yet, why does he keep coming back even after you do this dance a number of times?

It seems complicated, insane, and twisted…

But you’re going to find that the answer is quite simple – almost obscenely simple! He wants something from you. Let’s talk about it…

First, we’re going to discuss several reasons why a man might come back to you again and again, even if you break up and mean it.

Then we’re going to talk about the most important factor in a dysfunctional relationship: the HOW. As in how do you stop the cycle?

“What is he thinking breaking up and then getting back together?”

Well, since you asked…

1. “I just want to keep having sex with her.”

Sadly, many of these on and off again relationships are insultingly simple. The guy just wants sex, or a friends with benefits type of relationship. Rather than admit that, he pretends to be interested in something real. But by the time he gets what he wants, he realizes he doesn’t want a commitment.

2. “I just love feeding her addiction to me. The power trip turns me on.”

Twisted indeed, some men literally keep coming back because they know their ex can’t resist them. He knows that no matter how s**tty he treats his ex, she will always open the door, listen, make up a bed, and give him chance after chance. He doesn’t want commitment, but he loves playing this mind game over and over again. He can…that’s why he does it.

3. “Because no one else seems to want me at the moment and she’s a sure thing.”

Pathetic but true. He has gone fishing for other romances and has come up short – to his surprise. So no wonder he is going back to you, trying to pretend as if he still has options out there.

4. “I just don’t want to be alone.”

He may or may not have other bootycalls. But when it comes to saying goodnight…he’s downright miserable. He hates living alone and misses you…but only when he’s forced to be alone with his own thoughts. The problem is with him, and really has nothing to do with you. It’s the equivalent of a boy who’s “scared of the dark” but in adult relationships.

5. “I need her…for something other than sex.”

Now this is where it gets super creepy. Some guys keep inserting themselves into your life for other reasons of greed and exploitation, and not necessarily sex. Money, knowledge, control, who knows? Gee, I hope he’s not CIA or KGB or something!

6. “I need to figure something out about myself. And she can help me do that!”

This is a somewhat different scenario since the guy is not selfishly motivated, but just very confused. He doesn’t know what he wants. He keeps coming back to you because he thinks maybe you can help him find the big revelation that will explain his love life. In short, he’s just using you for sex and for soul-searching. On that subject…

There’s also the guy that literally just treats you like his therapist – well, his therapist / Friend with Benefits. He wants to tell you all his problems and figures you’re just fascinated by his life. He doesn’t want to pay for a therapist but does want someone to listen to him yak on for hours – and of course, you always have to take his side and never question his motives.

Are you really into free counseling at this stage in your life?

7. I don’t really want a relationship. And she doesn’t either!”

This one might hurt. But it’s very possible that he just goes back to you all the time, because he assumes you’re as confused as he is. He doesn’t know what you call this weird “thing” between the two of you. But he figures it’s something and he enjoys it.

Unfortunately, that’s probably not what you want. You want a real relationship. You want something tangible, real, and with promise. With a payoff of marriage and family. But with him, that might never happen. He may just want a weird “It’s Complicated” thing as long as you both enjoy experiencing this mutual confusion.

8. “I want her to take the lead in moving forward.”

Most guys are commitment-phobic and don’t want to get married. However, there is a small percentage of guys (like 5% maybe?) that do want commitment – but are just shy and a little nervous about pushing you towards marriage too fast.

Maybe he’s waiting for you to talk more about commitment. He wants to feel you out before he takes a big risk and goes for a proposal. He doesn’t want to scare you off, but thinks about moving forward all the time.

Yeah, it happens. So try to give him a chance to discuss it, if you sense he’s holding off.

But don’t kid yourself. A man who is commitment-phobic cannot hide it or fake it for very long. Over time, you will sense that either he loves you a lot and is carefully planning his future…or he’s just planning his exit.

9. “Some girl treated me like crap…the way I treated you. Now I get it.”

This is another rarity but it does happen from time to time. Sometimes during a break, a man will learn humility. He will experience those same bitter “fruits” and will get the karmic revenge you always felt he deserved. Maybe he was treated poorly. Maybe he started thinking back to the way he treated you. Now he wants to make amends…and maybe rekindle what you once had.

The Real Question: Why Do You Want Him to Come Back?

In closing, remember that guys like this have no real power over you. The only reason they keep coming back is because you let them. They will always go after a “sure thing” resource once they find it.

It’s up to you to be strong and decisive and say NO, if you are tired of these mind games. Once you decide that you can do better, and that you’re bored of his predictable cycle of use and dispense, you can take back the power in the relationship.

Sure, that will attract him to you even more…but by now, you understand what he’s all about. And you’re not going to make the same mistake again, not with a productive and exciting NEW relationship on the horizon.

The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys a Man’s Love For You And Drives Him Out Of Your Life

There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…

It usually comes out as an honest question when you want to connect with him…

But only serves to push him away and slowly kill your relationship from the inside out…

It can take a man who is filled with love and passion for you…

And make him feel cold, distant, and uninterested…

Have you figured out what it is yet?

Many women send this as a text message when they’re feeling insecure…

And then are confused why he suddenly pulls away and disappears completely…

Most of the women who ask it don’t even know how harmful it is…

Yet it can take a relationship that seems like it’s perfect…

A relationship where you feel loved, cared for, and like you’ve finally found “the one”…

And overnight, it can tear that relationship apart…

Leaving you confused, frustrated, and heartbroken…

If you don’t know what this simple yet seemingly innocent question is…

I want you to stop what you’re doing and go watch this video presentation that I put together for you at the link below…

Click here to watch the video now <<

My name is Matthew Coast and I’ve been teaching in the dating industry on since 2005…

I’ve helped hundreds of thousands of women, all over the world…

Get into relationships where they feel loved, seen, and cherished by the men they’re with…

When you click the link this link right here <<

I show you what this 5 word phrase is…

I’ll teach you about why men pull away, how to stop it from happening…

And how to attract the man you want…

Into a relationship where you’re loved and adored and treated like a priority…

No matter how painful things have been in your past…

You can attract a great man and have a great relationship…

Just click the link on your screen and the watch the video right now…

If you’re struggling with men pulling away from you…

If you’re tired of giving everything to a relationship and only being taken for granted…

And if you’re ready to have a man see you as a woman that he wants to be with forever…

Click this link to watch my video right now <<

The REAL reason men fall OUT of love (you MUST know what it is...)

Stop Contacting Him and See What Happens

You know how the doctor use to say, “What hurts?” And then you say, “It hurts when I do this?” And the doctor says, in all of his great wisdom, “Well, stop doing that!”

It’s a corny old dad joke, but hey, there’s a lesson to glean from that.

That is, that sometimes the most obvious solution is the correct one. We tend to overcomplicate love and relationships, don’t we?

We’re almost insulted when we hear really simple advice. Like, “leave him (if he makes you feel that awful)” or “don’t sleep with him too soon!”

Yet, simple advice is usually what works. We reject the simple advice and we create alternative strategies, and sometimes very complex solutions to the problem.

But in the end, we usually find that everyone’s advice was right. It was our instinct that was off. Why is that? Maybe it’s because we give ourselves too much credit. That, and we fail to realize that when a person looks in “from the outside” they can see details that might otherwise be invisible.

That’s why a family member or a friend can see problems in our relationship that we are blind to. Stuff we may miss or may even deny because we so desperately want to believe this love is real. We’ve all been there.

But when we stop thinking so hard and instead go for the most obvious solution, sometimes it helps.

NO CONTACT – Why It Works

For example, take the NO CONTACT rule. It seems really simple.

If the relationship is not progressing and the guy is acting weird (like distancing himself from you or changing the energy level in your conversations) then it’s time to STOP doing what you’re doing.

Maybe your instinct says, “Whoah something is wrong. It’s time to talk it out.” Or, “I must have done something wrong. I better apologize.”

But that’s what we mean by “overcomplicating” the issue. The issue is simple. He isn’t comfortable with what’s going – as is, right now. There is only one direction to go: in reverse.

So that means it’s time to resist the urge to move forward, to talk things out, to apologize, to interrogate him, or all other panic emotions.

Instead, it’s time to back away. While some might think that slowing down communication works well (and gives the guy some space) others might feel more drastic action is needed.

After all, they say, you don’t want to reward him for pulling a stunt like this, right? So rather than “slowing down” communication, they just END ALL CONTACT.

Does it work? Does the guy ever come back or does he just move on and forget that you two were ever close?

When is No Contact Justified?

Then again, that’s just what some people say. There is no golden rule for how “tough” you need to be, when dealing with a guy. That depends on your personality, his personality, and what actually happened in the relationship.

If his disposition has changed only slightly (but you can tell he still likes you) then there’s no reason to punish him with a week-long snub. Maybe he just needs some space and there’s nothing wrong with giving him that space.

On the other hand, what if he took more drastic action first? What if he is canceling dates or talking about breaking up with you, or cheating, or becoming temperamental for no reason?

Then it’s very possible he’s taking you for granted. In this case, a NO CONTACT rule is definitely justified, because he’s the one who doesn’t seem to want this relationship anymore.

By choosing not to contact him (AT ALL, not even online or just as a friend) you’re letting him know that he has made the choice to end things between the two of you. You’re not punishing him…you’re just tired of getting hurt. You’re tired of trying to make this relationship work when he’s obviously not happy.

The Powerful Effects of No Contact

Guess what usually does happen at this point? If he still has feelings for you, they come out like fireworks!

A man who cares about you, and who is scared of losing you will come back. He will dote on you with attention until he can get back what he lost. He may even try to change, as he now realizes that he was in the wrong, carrying that negativity into an important relationship.

Even if he can’t decide if he loves you (which is a no-go for sure!) he may still be provoked at the idea of you not wanting to text him anymore. He may become jealous or curious to see what you’re up to.

Hey, if you really want to mess with his mind, then start making big changes in your life and post them all over (public) social media. Let him stalk you just a little bit and see that you’re doing much better without him. This “Jedi Mind Trick” always seems to work with exes, and they will usually text you just to see if they still can – if you will respond at all.

When this happens, it’s all a matter of making him work for your attention. NOT rewarding him or jumping back to the way things were, just to make him happy. Hopefully, this simple experiment taught you both something about relationships and the effort both of you must put forth to make things work.

The Side Effects of No Contact

Of course, there are some “side effects” of the NO CONTACT rule. It may hurt you immensely, to ignore him, or block him, or stop checking out his social page. It may hurt, to see him “negotiating” with you about getting back together. These are issues you must think seriously about, and determine what you want from him and from a relationship. You must do this BEFORE you get back together with him and send him positive cues to follow.

The No Contact rule does work, but it’s not just a trick. It’s a test to see how much you love each other and where your future is really going.

The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys a Man’s Love For You And Drives Him Out Of Your Life

There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…

It usually comes out as an honest question when you want to connect with him…

But only serves to push him away and slowly kill your relationship from the inside out…

It can take a man who is filled with love and passion for you…

And make him feel cold, distant, and uninterested…

Have you figured out what it is yet?

Many women send this as a text message when they’re feeling insecure…

And then are confused why he suddenly pulls away and disappears completely…

Most of the women who ask it don’t even know how harmful it is…

Yet it can take a relationship that seems like it’s perfect…

A relationship where you feel loved, cared for, and like you’ve finally found “the one”…

And overnight, it can tear that relationship apart…

Leaving you confused, frustrated, and heartbroken…

If you don’t know what this simple yet seemingly innocent question is…

I want you to stop what you’re doing and go watch this video presentation that I put together for you at the link below…

Click here to watch the video now <<

My name is Matthew Coast and I’ve been teaching in the dating industry on since 2005…

I’ve helped hundreds of thousands of women, all over the world…

Get into relationships where they feel loved, seen, and cherished by the men they’re with…

When you click the link this link right here <<

I show you what this 5 word phrase is…

I’ll teach you about why men pull away, how to stop it from happening…

And how to attract the man you want…

Into a relationship where you’re loved and adored and treated like a priority…

No matter how painful things have been in your past…

You can attract a great man and have a great relationship…

Just click the link on your screen and the watch the video right now…

If you’re struggling with men pulling away from you…

If you’re tired of giving everything to a relationship and only being taken for granted…

And if you’re ready to have a man see you as a woman that he wants to be with forever…

Click this link to watch my video right now <<

9 Cute Things to Say to a Guy

Signs His Love is Not Real

When you first discover that a man can “act” like he’s in love with you, it’s a bit of a mind-warping experience. If you hear about it from someone else, you may not be able to comprehend how someone could do that. If it happened to you, god forbid, you may be coming from years of deep pain, resentment, and hopefully some healing in due time.

It might help to think of it from the guy’s POV. And not that we’re making excuses for a guy who fakes love in a relationship, because no, that’s despicable.

But in learning him, we can identify the signs of a fake loving relationship. That way, if you’re ever suspicious again, or fear getting hurt by another talented “actor”, you can put a stop to the relationship before it gets serious.

1. He lovebombs you in the beginning.

Love should happen slowly, ideally, as you get to know the person. That doesn’t mean that you clash or fight in the beginning and then fall in love at the “end of the movie.” That’s a nonsense movie cliche. But there is something to be said about talking to each other over months or even years, and getting to know a person at a comfortable pace.

In contrast, a fake romance is epic in the beginning. He’s almost too perfect. Too romantic. He instantly chooses you as the woman who completes him. That’s not natural and screams “strategy.”

2. It’s always “what he says” rather than what he does.

If his actions always seem to speak louder than words, then his words are cheap. Talk is cheap, especially if he spends most of his time apologizing, gaslighting you, minimizing his mistakes, denying his mistakes, and so on.

A fake relationship is built on lies and he knows that all it really takes to make it work is a lot of pretty speeches, assuring you of his undying love. If a guy really loves you, he doesn’t have to convince you. His actions always back up what he says.

3. He always keeps secrets.

A man is entitled to his privacy. But if he’s always keeping secrets from you, it’s a sign that he’s pushing you out of his “real life.” He doesn’t want to share, he doesn’t want to trust you…he might even be living a double (or triple?) life that he doesn’t want you to know.

The best way to avoid a man with secrets is to tell him how important honesty is, even if it involves confessing uncomfortable thoughts. It’s better that the both of you talk out your conflicts, rather than keeping secrets – which only avalanches into more lies.

4. He never seems satisfied with you.

It’s sad when a woman tries so hard to give her boyfriend or husband the best years of her life and yet it never seems to be enough. At some point, you have to ask yourself, “What would make him happy?” Does he have an answer? Is he focused on finding happiness?

Or does it seem like he’s always telling you how miserable he is – and how you have disappointed him in some way? That can’t possibly be love. He is either faking the entire romance or he doesn’t understand love at all and is projecting all of his woes onto you, knowing full well you can’t fix him. It’s a dangerous dynamic and it has to stop.

5. He doesn’t respect you.

There’s a fine line between respect and a “friend” that tags along. A man may have lots of friends, but that doesn’t mean he respects any of them. He may see most of his buddies as adult playmates, bros, sisters, or casual dudes he hangs out with. He thinks nothing of cutting them down or being condescending to them because he doesn’t respect them.

So does he treat you like a bud? One of the guys, or one of his girlfriends? Or does he put you on a higher pedestal? Do you always feel that he has great respect for you, your heart, your mind, and your life – even when you disagree on matters?

Maybe he barely respects you…but he doesn’t show the proper respect to your family. Though you might think it’s not necessary for him to like your family (maybe you don’t always get along with your mom/dad!) but the point is does he try at all?

If he has contempt for your family members or doesn’t want to communicate with them at all, it shows how little respect he has for you and your life apart from his.

6. He is never there for you when you need him most.

He is always there for the good times. But when the bad times come, he splits. He is always unavailable and you end up depending on someone else to get you back on your feet.

It’s understandable why a guy is not available 24/7, every single time there’s an issue in your life. But is he EVER there for you? Is he ready to talk, ready to offer help, and treat you like the very best friend he has?

Or does he always seem to disappoint you when the going gets tough? You may set the bar progressively lower, and lower, and lowest, hoping he does the bare minimum to show proof of his love. But for a guy faking it, or not feeling it, he will always go below even that minimum standard – and will never take responsibility for it.

7. There are no special moments.

Finally, you can evaluate the potential of a relationship by the way he makes you feel. Are there any special moments of love or caring? Or is it just sex and laughs? Does he make you feel like you’re on his team, and part of his life?

Does he share the best memories of his life with you whenever possible?

When you’re in a go-nowhere relationship you feel it. You never talk about anything deep. Most of the time, you feel miserable. That’s not normal, no matter if he tries to convince you otherwise.

Try to be objective about a relationship and think beyond emotion and passion. Think about evidence, what proof he has offered of his love. And there you will have the answer to the “Love me, Love me not” question on your mind.

 

The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys a Man’s Love For You And Drives Him Out Of Your Life

There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…

It usually comes out as an honest question when you want to connect with him…

But only serves to push him away and slowly kill your relationship from the inside out…

It can take a man who is filled with love and passion for you…

And make him feel cold, distant, and uninterested…

Have you figured out what it is yet?

Many women send this as a text message when they’re feeling insecure…

And then are confused why he suddenly pulls away and disappears completely…

Most of the women who ask it don’t even know how harmful it is…

Yet it can take a relationship that seems like it’s perfect…

A relationship where you feel loved, cared for, and like you’ve finally found “the one”…

And overnight, it can tear that relationship apart…

Leaving you confused, frustrated, and heartbroken…

If you don’t know what this simple yet seemingly innocent question is…

I want you to stop what you’re doing and go watch this video presentation that I put together for you at the link below…

Click here to watch the video now <<

My name is Matthew Coast and I’ve been teaching in the dating industry on since 2005…

I’ve helped hundreds of thousands of women, all over the world…

Get into relationships where they feel loved, seen, and cherished by the men they’re with…

When you click the link this link right here <<

I show you what this 5 word phrase is…

I’ll teach you about why men pull away, how to stop it from happening…

And how to attract the man you want…

Into a relationship where you’re loved and adored and treated like a priority…

No matter how painful things have been in your past…

You can attract a great man and have a great relationship…

Just click the link on your screen and the watch the video right now…

If you’re struggling with men pulling away from you…

If you’re tired of giving everything to a relationship and only being taken for granted…

And if you’re ready to have a man see you as a woman that he wants to be with forever…

Click this link to watch my video right now <<

Here’s What You Should Do When He Doesn’t Text Back

Do Guys Notice When You Stop Texting Them

It depends on the guy! Now I know there is a more complicated answer, which we will discuss soon. But the simple answer is that some guys will notice immediately if you stop texting them, and others will notice…eventually. Maybe months later, if it’s a guy who gets lots of text messages from women or his friends.

It’s possible that some guys will never notice you walked away, IF…

1. He never really remembered your name in the first place. (Owch)
2. He is some celebrity who even doesn’t check his DMs. (He’s kind of a jerk, you know)
3. He was heavily inebriated the last time you chatted. (Poor guy is probably embarrassed about that)
4. He is busy doing something else – or falling for someone else. (If he’s in love, he is very distracted!)
5. He only associated you with someone else, like your sister or BFF. (He never really thought of you apart from the “other”)
6. He has never liked you all that much. (Owch…but yeah, it happens)
7. You slept with him too soon, and all he really wanted was sex. (Whoops!)
8. If his life has drastically changed and he’s going through major issues. (If he is going through trauma, he is not himself…don’t take it so personally)
9. He has short-term memory problems. (Hey, it could happen!)
10. He is easily confused, and thinks you’re still texting him – but is actually talking to someone else. (Weirdly enough, this happened to a friend of mine)

In other words, a guy will probably only notice AND REACT (which is what you want) if there was some friendship and some romantic banter here and there.

I’m always confused and sympathetic when I hear a friend tell me:

“Well, he/she stopped messaging me just when I was starting a conversation. I just have never had the chance to talk one on one with my crush. There’s always someone else…or we’re always just missing each other, you know?”

I hate to say it, but in those cases, because there never was any real flirtation or romance or much of anything going on besides platonic chat, there’s very little chance you’re going to be remembered.

Or shall we say, fondly remembered.

Sure, guys will notice if that “one girl” stopped writing. But it will be a passing thought, probably based on a first impression that wasn’t very complimentary.

When we don’t click with someone, or shall we say, when we don’t really make an emotional connection, that person will shrug it off.

That guy might even be relieved that you stopped sending messages, IF he sensed you liked him and he did not like you.

You have to think of dating conversation as an ongoing story you’re helping to tell. Think of a book. If a book is long, boring, and nothing much happens in it, then you probably won’t finish reading it.

Well, the same is true of potential romances. They have to sizzle, they have to tell a story – the story of you meeting him and forming a special connection.

If you avoid “real talk”, and don’t communicate attraction, flirting, or at least desire, then don’t be surprised if the other person is just plain confused by your appearance. It’s kind of like a book that goes nowhere!

That’s why it’s very important to establish right away how you feel about him and how you want him to react to you.

You need to establish early on that you’re attracted to him and may respond to him, if he puts forth any effort. You want to avoid any silly platonic conversation that’s too awkward or not at all memorable. Because he may associate you with negative feelings.

But how do you do this without being too aggressive?

Here are some ways to communicate your attraction:

• Always maintain strong eye contact and a smile
• Embrace the “awkward tension” – don’t be afraid of it
• Project what you feel – attraction to him! (He can sense it!)
• Ask questions that keep the conversation going (It shows you want this to keep going)
• Pay attention to what he says and remember key points (He’ll be impressed you remember!)
• Do something nice for him – just a gesture, a tiny favor, or something cute that lets him know you’re thinking of him)
• Open up first – tell him something about your life (This lets him know you’re comfortable confiding in him)
• Give him the chance to confide in you, by being a good listener and showing interest in all the verbal clues he leaves behind, suggesting there’s more to the story)
• Flirt with him by innocent touching, compliments, or making him laugh

How to Tell the “Story” (that demands chapter 2!)

Once you establish a good rapport, it’s important to make every conversation thereafter feel meaningful. About something. Your ongoing conversation shouldn’t start to fall back and become safe, formal, or overly platonic.

Bond regularly. Ask stuff that only a close friend would ask. Show interest in his life, his hobbies, and his perspective. You can also

Conclusion

Does a guy notice when you stop texting? Yes, but the real issue, as we’ve discussed, is how he feels about you. Does he miss you? Did you make a good point – did you make him feel something and then stop texting?

If so, he will definitely notice that you’re missing. He may even feel jealous, insecure, or come to miss you. He will hurry to write you back or touch base somehow, wondering if the attraction still exists. Just by delaying your texts slightly, you can test how much he likes you.

But if you stop texting him and he doesn’t have those positive memories, then he has nothing to fall back on. He doesn’t sense the value or the loss.

That doesn’t mean, however, that it’s a lost cause, even if the guy hasn’t noticed you’re gone. You can still send him a message if you’d like – but this time, you want to try something different. Something that works! We will discuss this topic in a future article.

The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys a Man’s Love For You And Drives Him Out Of Your Life

There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…

It usually comes out as an honest question when you want to connect with him…

But only serves to push him away and slowly kill your relationship from the inside out…

It can take a man who is filled with love and passion for you…

And make him feel cold, distant, and uninterested…

Have you figured out what it is yet?

Many women send this as a text message when they’re feeling insecure…

And then are confused why he suddenly pulls away and disappears completely…

Most of the women who ask it don’t even know how harmful it is…

Yet it can take a relationship that seems like it’s perfect…

A relationship where you feel loved, cared for, and like you’ve finally found “the one”…

And overnight, it can tear that relationship apart…

Leaving you confused, frustrated, and heartbroken…

If you don’t know what this simple yet seemingly innocent question is…

I want you to stop what you’re doing and go watch this video presentation that I put together for you at the link below…

Click here to watch the video now <<

My name is Matthew Coast and I’ve been teaching in the dating industry on since 2005…

I’ve helped hundreds of thousands of women, all over the world…

Get into relationships where they feel loved, seen, and cherished by the men they’re with…

When you click the link this link right here <<

I show you what this 5 word phrase is…

I’ll teach you about why men pull away, how to stop it from happening…

And how to attract the man you want…

Into a relationship where you’re loved and adored and treated like a priority…

No matter how painful things have been in your past…

You can attract a great man and have a great relationship…

Just click the link on your screen and the watch the video right now…

If you’re struggling with men pulling away from you…

If you’re tired of giving everything to a relationship and only being taken for granted…

And if you’re ready to have a man see you as a woman that he wants to be with forever…

Click this link to watch my video right now <<

3 Ways to Make a Man ADDICTED To You

Why Do Guys Push Against You When Kissing

You may have noticed a few times that some guys sort of “push into you” or even against you when they go for a kiss. It seems like a confusing gesture, since part of him is pushing you away, but part of him is bringing you closer. What does this mean, especially if this is your first kiss together?

Let’s consider a few possibilities and then consider the most likely scenario. Then we’ll finish with a final thought on how to evaluate a man’s kiss and what it means for the overall future of the relationship.

Scenario #1: He’s trying to be sexy or dominant or something.

Yeah guys do this sometimes, especially if he’s kind of new to dating, or just thinks you want a dominant partner who is ultra confident and very intense in the bedroom. It’s not entirely accurate though. Most women are not looking for Christian Grey. You want sexy. You want confident. But there’s no need to go over the top and be pushy, grabby, or bratty. All that acting, while fun in roleplaying, should be discussed first and not just assumed.

But that’s probably not why he’s doing it. Let’s consider some other options.

Scenario #2: He’s ambivalent about the kiss.

He loves you, he hates you! Or maybe he’s already taken but still wants you! Or maybe he’s afraid of you, afraid of his own passion around you, but still so irascibly drawn to you! The kiss represents the battle going on in his head.

Yeah, sure that’s all possible too. But again, not likely. Let’s consider two other scenarios.

Scenario #3: He wants to be near you and instinctively moves closer.

This one’s a plausible theory, and it’s possibly true that instinctively we want to be near to the person we like. Even in flirting, sometimes we unconsciously move closer to our date, or a crush, whenever they make eye contact.

So if you’re kissing together and the feeling is intense, he might want more tension, and more intimacy. His subconscious mind says, “bring her closer!”

So it’s not so much that he’s pushing against you, but more like he’s coming closer and trying to stay nearer to you in mid-kiss. It’s a positive gesture.

But then here’s another scenario…

Scenario #4: He is trying to uh, accelerate the romance into something much freakier.

In essence, yeah, he’s very aroused and by pushing against you he’s giving you the hint that he thinks you should go into the bedroom. (Or wherever…hopefully not the restaurant bathroom)

But if you’re kissing romantically and passionately, he might just be “pushing in” because he’s letting you know he’s available for the night. He wants you now, or soon, and is waiting to see what you do in return. Maybe he’s even hoping for a little bit of sexual contact, at least a graze or a sliver.

Will you signal to him that it’s time to go back? Or will you back away and send him into panic?

Possibe. But let’s consider one more…

Scenario #5: He just likes the way it feels.

Sometimes men do stuff like pushing against you because it feels good. He wants to be more hands on. He wants his body closer to you, maybe even to feel his body pushing against yours. It might be a sexual thing…OR it might just be a romantic and sweet thing.

You won’t really know until the next step – what he does after the kiss. Is he going to keep sending you obvious hints that he wants more? Or…is he going to want to gaze into your eyes, smile, kiss you again, and be happy with the moment you just shared?

This is the most likely scenario, in my opinion. Guys sometimes forget themselves in the heat of the moment. He might be pushing into you because he’s excited, or maybe even over-stimulated and he’s having a hard time controlling himself. That’s a pretty good sign!

He’s not being pushy but he’s really happy to be here and taking the next step.

What comes next is up to the both of you. Is this the right moment? Has he fallen for you yet, and will he come back to you again?

How to Read His Kiss

Here’s the takeaway. Don’t take one gesture so seriously, like pushing against you during a kiss. Instead, compare this gesture to a few others he uses. For example, does he keep holding onto your waist after the kiss? Does he use his fingers to gently roll a lock of hair from your face? Does he gaze into your eyes and smile?

It’s relatively easy to sense what guys are thinking and feeling after a kiss. Negative reactions are distancing. They instantly create awkward and defensive energy. Attraction feels magnetic. He doesn’t want to let go. He doesn’t want this moment to end.

From there, you can always ask how he liked it. If he’s quick to say it was great, or if he laughs or smiles, or blushes, you can bet that the first kiss was a success. He was pushing against you because he was very into the moment. He was carried away with feeling and attraction and just couldn’t help but express himself.

Assuming he doesn’t do anything too pushy, like touching your breasts or trying to undress you, you can assume he’s taking things slow. That’s a good start. A man shouldn’t push you into sex, as if telling you now is the right time.

It’s up to you to decide if this is the right time and he will wait for your consent. Why? Because a decent man knows that love and sex is much better when a woman is into it, excited about it, and ready to move forward in the relationship.

Try not to worry so much about what he’s thinking but pay closer attention to what his body is feeling. That way, you will always know what he’s really saying with his kissing pattern.

 

The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys a Man’s Love For You And Drives Him Out Of Your Life

There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…

It usually comes out as an honest question when you want to connect with him…

But only serves to push him away and slowly kill your relationship from the inside out…

It can take a man who is filled with love and passion for you…

And make him feel cold, distant, and uninterested…

Have you figured out what it is yet?

Many women send this as a text message when they’re feeling insecure…

And then are confused why he suddenly pulls away and disappears completely…

Most of the women who ask it don’t even know how harmful it is…

Yet it can take a relationship that seems like it’s perfect…

A relationship where you feel loved, cared for, and like you’ve finally found “the one”…

And overnight, it can tear that relationship apart…

Leaving you confused, frustrated, and heartbroken…

If you don’t know what this simple yet seemingly innocent question is…

I want you to stop what you’re doing and go watch this video presentation that I put together for you at the link below…

Click here to watch the video now <<

My name is Matthew Coast and I’ve been teaching in the dating industry on since 2005…

I’ve helped hundreds of thousands of women, all over the world…

Get into relationships where they feel loved, seen, and cherished by the men they’re with…

When you click the link this link right here <<

I show you what this 5 word phrase is…

I’ll teach you about why men pull away, how to stop it from happening…

And how to attract the man you want…

Into a relationship where you’re loved and adored and treated like a priority…

No matter how painful things have been in your past…

You can attract a great man and have a great relationship…

Just click the link on your screen and the watch the video right now…

If you’re struggling with men pulling away from you…

If you’re tired of giving everything to a relationship and only being taken for granted…

And if you’re ready to have a man see you as a woman that he wants to be with forever…

Click this link to watch my video right now <<

Is He Cheating? Here’s How to Know…

Signs He Pretends to Love You

The very idea of a man “pretending to love you” is shocking. We all like to think that love is something genuine, something emotional that can’t be faked. We even love the movie trope of a rich, handsome guy pretending to fall in love with an everyday woman as a dare – and then actually falling in love with her once he gets to know her!

But the reality is pretty harsh. There are some guys that fake love pretty well, and it sometimes DOES look and feel like the real thing.

I know a lot of people like to shrug this off too, figuring well boys will be boys and the girls should have been smarter. But I’ve known friends whose lives and marriages have been destroyed because they fell for the wrong guy, someone who tricked them for purely selfish reasons, and never bothered to apologize.

It can be rough. The best thing to do is to not let the heart make decisions for you, but to analyze the evidence and listen to what your mind says. If it’s real love then your heart and brain should agree on the guy.

Let’s consider some signs that reveal when a guy is pretending, and then the one sign that shows real love.

1. He sends mixed messages.

It’s not just your imagination. If your guy is trying not to lie (but still pretending to love you) he might try to play word games and hint at how he feels, but not come outright and say anything that implies commitment.

He might even be literally trying to use hypnotic techniques that make you feel close to him, but then follow it up by acting cool, distant, or unconvinced that he really wants you. You feel strongly attracted to him, and yet never really know how he feels because he avoids telling you. That’s not normal in a relationship.

2. He doesn’t chase you but tries to make you chase him.

A man in love with you wants to work for your approval. He invests in you. Mostly time, some money, and lots of physical “stakes” in this relationship. A guy that pretends doesn’t have to invest in you because he figures his romantic words can do all the talking.

3. He treats you like a princess in private and like a frog in public.

Sure, a guy can say anything and he might mean it. But the real issue is, does he back up his words in public? Does he say the same romantic things when he’s with his family or friends? Is he proud to be linked with you or does he seem ashamed to admit the relationship is real?

Men who pretend will treat their partner like a mistress and avoid changing their lifestyle to accommodate a girlfriend.

4. He is not really emotionally connected to you. It’s all physical or romantic, but not genuine connection.

You will notice, if you pay close attention, that he doesn’t actually try to connect with you on an emotional level. He may be afraid of what that will mean, and whether that will ruin his plan of conquest. He may change the subject, or try to change real conversation for more sex or empty talk. Only the best liars (Criminal Geniuses!) can actually fake emotional connection – most guys cannot handle it!

5. He is unusually curious about other things, besides sex and getting to know you.

Take special note of what ELSE he asks about, when it’s not about sex, or not about saying romantic things. Is he curious about your finances? Your family’s money? Anything else that might imply he’s fishing for information? This is something that player guys have in common with scammers. The desire to know specific information that is none of their business.

6. He doesn’t treat your family, or others, very well. It’s all about him finishing the mission.

It’s no coincidence that the family and friends of a woman will usually hate the guy who’s conning her. It’s usually not for the jealous or shallow reasons you think it first. It’s because they sense an arrogance about him, or something fake about him that he is projecting to everyone else – except you. Take the word of your loved ones seriously, especially if more than one loved one tells you the same thing.

7. He rarely ever takes blame for his mistakes.

This is a common trait for a narcissist who is so ego-driven, he can’t admit fault. Narcissists usually start off very charming and use love-bombing to deceive you. So be careful!

8. He is rarely ever emotionally available for you during crisis.

Real men are there for you when the going gets tough – even if it’s a stressful situation. Guys who are lying to you? They disappear. They don’t want anything too real with you, just the romantic highs of a fake and sex-based relationship.

9. He is satisfied spoiling you – NOT interested in helping you find your true purpose.

Finally, and this one is a kicker…ask yourself, does he want you to be happy? Or does he actually bring out your WORST traits? Does he help you sabotage your efforts to be successful? Does he spoil you with support and attention – when you know you’re making a mistake? Does he put your temporary comfort above your health?

That’s scary! That means he’s literally pushing you off the cliff, rather than stopping you and telling you that he’s worried about a fall. A guy who’s faking love will always do this, because “selling” the idea of a relationship with him is more important than being real and questioning your real feelings on the matter.

Conclusion

In closing, think about what real love feels like. When a man is faking love, very often it involves making you feel something for him. Forcing you, manipulating you, putting it into your head that he loves you and you desire him.

But love is different. When it’s real, it has a much more positive effect on you. Your life improves, you’re happier and more productive, and you have a very honest and communicative relationship that keeps you inspired.

Real love also benefits him. It’s not about trying making a miserable man happy. He’s already happy and hard-working and you can see that. He works hard to please you and to earn your respect over time – not just talk.

You are two equal partners who come together for a fruitful relationship full of happy memories and shared interests.

In the future, try to analyze your relationship or crush. Determine if you see real evidence that you’re both compatible, or if it seems more like a one-sided thing for him. If you’re truly in love you don’t need “love bombing” and that’s the truth!

The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys a Man’s Love For You And Drives Him Out Of Your Life

There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…

It usually comes out as an honest question when you want to connect with him…

But only serves to push him away and slowly kill your relationship from the inside out…

It can take a man who is filled with love and passion for you…

And make him feel cold, distant, and uninterested…

Have you figured out what it is yet?

Many women send this as a text message when they’re feeling insecure…

And then are confused why he suddenly pulls away and disappears completely…

Most of the women who ask it don’t even know how harmful it is…

Yet it can take a relationship that seems like it’s perfect…

A relationship where you feel loved, cared for, and like you’ve finally found “the one”…

And overnight, it can tear that relationship apart…

Leaving you confused, frustrated, and heartbroken…

If you don’t know what this simple yet seemingly innocent question is…

I want you to stop what you’re doing and go watch this video presentation that I put together for you at the link below…

Click here to watch the video now <<

My name is Matthew Coast and I’ve been teaching in the dating industry on since 2005…

I’ve helped hundreds of thousands of women, all over the world…

Get into relationships where they feel loved, seen, and cherished by the men they’re with…

When you click the link this link right here <<

I show you what this 5 word phrase is…

I’ll teach you about why men pull away, how to stop it from happening…

And how to attract the man you want…

Into a relationship where you’re loved and adored and treated like a priority…

No matter how painful things have been in your past…

You can attract a great man and have a great relationship…

Just click the link on your screen and the watch the video right now…

If you’re struggling with men pulling away from you…

If you’re tired of giving everything to a relationship and only being taken for granted…

And if you’re ready to have a man see you as a woman that he wants to be with forever…

Click this link to watch my video right now <<

8 Dating Rules for Women

How to Make Leo Man Regret Losing You

Almost everyone knows Leo by his gregarious, yet sensitive nature. He loves to be the center of attention. He’s proud, sure, but also very good at what he does. He’s passionate, witty, and ambitious. He’s a good debater and can back up all of his lion-like proclamations.

But did you know Leo is also an old soul romantic? He’s not only romantic and idealistic when he’s young, but keeps those qualities as he grows older. You might even say Leo is fiercely loyal – even if he flirts with everybody, just to show his power.

However, what can you do when the unthinkable happens – and you lose Leo? Is there an easy way to get that hungry lion’s attention back?

Let’s tackle this subject from two perspectives; generally speaking, and with specifics as to why the two of you broke up in the first place.

How to Make a Leo Man Miss You (Generally Speaking)

1. Be a warm and happy presence in his life.

Leo men are very turned off by cold women, the type who gives them no attention or respect. Leo will inevitably go back to where he is wanted, a ready and willing “pride” of lionesses, so to speak.

If you want to attract him emotionally and physically, even after he’s distanced himself, give him some warm energy to come back to. Let him know he is still welcomed as a friend.

2. Make sure your confidence level is high.

Leo is not attracted to desperation. He wants an equal, a queen for his king. Don’t be needy now that he is watching you again. Try to be friendly, without being overly flirty, or begging for his attention. Give your attention to others in the room too, and let him do his thing – entertaining you and chasing you like the lion he is.

3. Do something subtle that will remind him of you later.

This works pretty well. Consider it a magic spell of sort. As an example, consider that Leos are very attracted to scent. If you’ve had a relationship with him in the past, he probably still associates you with certain smells, like perfume, and such. A witchy woman might consider wearing that familiar perfume just to get a reaction out of him. Subtle little reminders work well with Leo, who’s easily provoked at the “scent” of a woman he wants to chase and hunt. Scent can mean anything though, including visuals, wording, or other sounds and tastes that recall the old relationship – and the fun you used to have.

4. Give him the attention he craves and don’t just let him chase you.

Leos have a habit of womanizing in the beginning and so he may have paid lots of attention to you initially. But for the second go around you have to show yourself more attune to what he FEELS and what he wants from the relationship. Do you listen to him? Do you reward him by letting him tell his story, share his feelings, and communicate more of himself to you?

Leo loves the way you stroke his ego. He doesn’t just want a one-sided relationship where he does all the work.

5. Stalk your Leo!

Stalk him in a special way – in the sense that you actually put forth serious effort to get to know him. Think of it like a breadcrumb trail of knowledge. Remember things he says, or used to say. Mention to him little details that show you keep notes about what you talked about, and what kind of stuff he’s into. He won’t feel stalked (as long as you don’t tell him anything too private) and will take it as a sign you miss him.

And of course, Leos love to be missed by strong and beautiful women!

How to Get a Leo Man Back After a Breakup

It’s important to remember that relationships end because of real world issues and incompatibilities. Some can be sorted out and worked on, others may be impossible. So while there might be some truth to astrological matchmaking, you can’t blame the end of a relationship just on a sign.

If your relationship exploded with a Leo, consider the arguing points and conflicts that brought on the break up in the first place.

Were you upset at Leo for being true to his nature and being gregarious, flirtatious, and ambitious? Is there a way to show more support when it comes to Leo finding happiness? Leo can’t change who he is and he himself wouldn’t be happy if he had to tame his spirit.

Or maybe the conflict is about other things, everyday stuff that could be talked out or ironed out with a few kind words, and of course, some ego-stroking that Leo loves so much.

Lastly, avoid any behavior that comes across as needy or controlling because Leo will instinctively revolt against that. He is OK with some boundaries, but not with micromanagement or forcing him to conform to “average male protocol.” Leo can’t be “normal” and you wouldn’t even like him that way!

In conclusion, remember that Leo is a sign that thrives on attention, and that means your attention. You have to consider the flaws of the relationship somewhat (his mistakes and yours) and balance that with a better understanding of the Leo sign, and the general personality type.

Even if you don’t believe every horoscope you read, it’s safe to say that there are many Leo personalities out there, and their scientific equivalent might be considered the ENFJ Protagonist type. Leos are not “untouchable” or difficult men, although they can be challenging. In the end, they want what most men want, which is appreciation and respect from a partner who understands them.

Leos are not always easy to understand. It takes a dedicated woman to learn a Leo’s behavior, learn how to respond to him, and finally, how to speak his love language.

You can learn to do the same and get your lost Leo to come back to you.

The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys a Man’s Love For You And Drives Him Out Of Your Life

There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…

It usually comes out as an honest question when you want to connect with him…

But only serves to push him away and slowly kill your relationship from the inside out…

It can take a man who is filled with love and passion for you…

And make him feel cold, distant, and uninterested…

Have you figured out what it is yet?

Many women send this as a text message when they’re feeling insecure…

And then are confused why he suddenly pulls away and disappears completely…

Most of the women who ask it don’t even know how harmful it is…

Yet it can take a relationship that seems like it’s perfect…

A relationship where you feel loved, cared for, and like you’ve finally found “the one”…

And overnight, it can tear that relationship apart…

Leaving you confused, frustrated, and heartbroken…

If you don’t know what this simple yet seemingly innocent question is…

I want you to stop what you’re doing and go watch this video presentation that I put together for you at the link below…

Click here to watch the video now <<

My name is Matthew Coast and I’ve been teaching in the dating industry on since 2005…

I’ve helped hundreds of thousands of women, all over the world…

Get into relationships where they feel loved, seen, and cherished by the men they’re with…

When you click the link this link right here <<

I show you what this 5 word phrase is…

I’ll teach you about why men pull away, how to stop it from happening…

And how to attract the man you want…

Into a relationship where you’re loved and adored and treated like a priority…

No matter how painful things have been in your past…

You can attract a great man and have a great relationship…

Just click the link on your screen and the watch the video right now…

If you’re struggling with men pulling away from you…

If you’re tired of giving everything to a relationship and only being taken for granted…

And if you’re ready to have a man see you as a woman that he wants to be with forever…

Click this link to watch my video right now <<

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How to Know if He Enjoyed the Kiss

You know the look. When you kiss for the first time and it feels magical. Gradually, you let go of the embrace and hold each other close. And he gazes at you….thinking something.

But what is he thinking? Is he smiling because he enjoyed it? Or is he fake smiling? Is he giving you a pity smile or a patronizing, “Aww, that was cute” kind of smile?” Or is it an even more off-the-wall thought?

How do you know what a man is thinking, especially after something so intimate? Usually, a man says “That was great!” after a wonderful kiss. So how do you know what he’s really thinking if he doesn’t immediately say something?

Relax. You can actually figure out if he enjoyed himself just by studying his gestures, body language, and facial expressions right after the first kiss. Let’s consider a few positive signs that he enjoyed the kiss and is ready for even more connection.

1. He is speechless!

The best sign of a guy enjoying the kiss is when he’s smiling and yet looks completely surprised or speechless. He’s not embarrassed, he’s not disappointed. But he’s just sort of shocked. He’s probably not shocked that you two kissed. Just amazed at how good it was. He doesn’t want to disappoint you with the followup and he’s not an experienced player. That means he’s just wowed by the moment and that’s a great sign.

2. He seemed a little nervous before the kiss and calmer now.

If the guy seemed nervous before and is calmer now after the kiss, that means he was very genuine about wanting to get it right. It doesn’t always means he’s a newbie to kissing. It just means this one was special and he wanted to make sure you remembered it.

3. Eye contact is even more intense afterward.

Easy way to tell if he didn’t like it? Eyes are distracted. He looks away. He looks regretful, maybe darts his eyes around like he’s ashamed of what happened. But on the opposite end, we have Intense Eye Contact! He’s not only looking at you, he’s locked into position, feeling the magnetism you’ve created. That’s a great sign, because you know he wants more and wants to try it again.

4. He stays still, perhaps holding you a little tighter than before.

If he keeps his hands on you and grips your waist a little tighter, that means he’s very interested in keeping the feeling going. He wants more, but at the same time, he doesn’t want to demand anything. It’s up to you…but you can tell by his energy and smile, he’s up for more if you are.

5. He seems a little heated, in temperature or visible sweat.

If his body increases in temperature, it’s probably not the heating system in the house! He gets flushed, temperature rises, things are getting heated, it’s a good sign.

6. He tells you so!

Guys aren’t always so mysterious. Sometimes he will just come out and say that was great! He might resist being too emotional, because he doesn’t want to scare you away. But if he seems exuberant, relieved, and thrilled that the kiss went so well, that’s a good sign that he’s pleased and hopes you feel the same way.

7. He laughs nervously.

A man laughing nervously is a good thing. A harsh and guttural laugh, well, not such a good thing. But usually guys will mirror your shy energy and give you a little giggle to match your own.

True, a confident guy is also a relief. After he kisses you he might lower his voice, look into your eyes and assure you it was a very good kiss. But that’s almost too smooth. The good news is if the guy seems a little nervous or laughing, he is just nuts about you.

8. He’s very flexible and can follow your style of kissing.

If and when you decide to kiss again, you will notice that he is flexible to the way you approach the second kiss. If you’re hot and passionate he follows that note. If you’re shy and timid, he doesn’t push too hard. He wants you to enjoy the kiss and so he takes things slowly, making sure this is what you want, and this is the way you imagined it.

9. He’s always excited to go another round…or save it for another day.

You know you’ve met someone special when he’s completely available to keep kissing for a while (even without needing sex yet) OR he’s also cool with calling it a night. This is actually a test you can use to determine if the guy really likes you and is willing to wait, or if he’s so desperate for sex he’s not even thinking about how you feel about him.

A good man who respects you AND wants you, is strong enough to call it a night, but always eager to please when you decide it’s time.

10. You get the follow up right away!

Finally, if the guy is eager to talk to you or text you the next day (probably the morning) you know he really enjoyed himself, and hopes you felt the same.

Conclusion

Hindsight is 20/20 and usually, guys regret accidental kisses or one night stands if the relationship itself is bad idea. For example, someone taken, a mismatch in age or lifestyle, if their partner is inappropriate as serious date material.

But the good news is that you can measure how he felt about the kiss by his actions in the now. Is he still reaching out to you in the days following? Is he even warmer and friendlier after the kiss?

If he’s feeling awkward and quiet (which sometimes happens), is he still glowing when he looks at you – as if you’re the only thing he’s focused on and he’s slowly falling in love? Does he still find excuses to make contact? If he wants to give you loving attention, your kiss has sealed the deal!

The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys a Man’s Love For You And Drives Him Out Of Your Life

There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…

It usually comes out as an honest question when you want to connect with him…

But only serves to push him away and slowly kill your relationship from the inside out…

It can take a man who is filled with love and passion for you…

And make him feel cold, distant, and uninterested…

Have you figured out what it is yet?

Many women send this as a text message when they’re feeling insecure…

And then are confused why he suddenly pulls away and disappears completely…

Most of the women who ask it don’t even know how harmful it is…

Yet it can take a relationship that seems like it’s perfect…

A relationship where you feel loved, cared for, and like you’ve finally found “the one”…

And overnight, it can tear that relationship apart…

Leaving you confused, frustrated, and heartbroken…

If you don’t know what this simple yet seemingly innocent question is…

I want you to stop what you’re doing and go watch this video presentation that I put together for you at the link below…

Click here to watch the video now <<

My name is Matthew Coast and I’ve been teaching in the dating industry on since 2005…

I’ve helped hundreds of thousands of women, all over the world…

Get into relationships where they feel loved, seen, and cherished by the men they’re with…

When you click the link this link right here <<

I show you what this 5 word phrase is…

I’ll teach you about why men pull away, how to stop it from happening…

And how to attract the man you want…

Into a relationship where you’re loved and adored and treated like a priority…

No matter how painful things have been in your past…

You can attract a great man and have a great relationship…

Just click the link on your screen and the watch the video right now…

If you’re struggling with men pulling away from you…

If you’re tired of giving everything to a relationship and only being taken for granted…

And if you’re ready to have a man see you as a woman that he wants to be with forever…

Click this link to watch my video right now <<

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The #1 Sign That He’s Toxic

You meet a guy and he seems amazing…

But before you know it, things change and he ends up ruining your life with toxic behaviors.

How do you recognize toxic behaviors in a man, at the beginning, before you’re attached?

Here is the #1 sign that he’s toxic…

You feel bad when you’re with him or after you leave him.

Most of your time with a man should leave you feeling uplifted, loved, special, or inspired.

If you feel drained, confused, or exhausted, you may want to question what’s going on with him.

Here’s the rule to remember…

If something feels off, it probably is.

If you want to attract a quality man who loves, sees you, and cherishes you into a committed, lasting relationship…

You need to know how to avoid toxic men FROM THE BEGINNING.

You need to know what attracts quality men.

You need to connect with a quality man in a way that makes him feel like you’re that one special woman that he wants in his life.

If you’re ready to attract that man, check out my beta launch of my new program The Forever Man

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Most women GIVE EVERYTHING to a man and then get taken for granted…

Most men only need a few things. And if you give him everything but he’s not getting those few things, he won’t value and appreciate you.

You can do LESS work and get a great guy who loves and adores you.

But you need to connect with him in the RIGHT WAY.

That’s what I teach you how to do in The Forever Man.

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Matthew Coast

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What Does It Mean When a Guy Looks At You While Kissing

You know the visual…the prelude to a kiss. Butterflies in your stomach. Your eyes lock and the attraction is sizzling. Then your eyes start to close for the amazing first kiss…

But just as your eyes start to close, you notice he’s still staring at you.

You close your eyes and kiss…and it feels great! But out of curiosity, you open your eyes again. He’s still looking at you while you’re kissing.

It’s not really weird or disturbing, but just a little odd when you see it happen. Our instinct is to close our eyes when the kiss is really good. But he’s intentionally keeping his eyes open.

What does it mean? Let’s consider a few theories about the “open eye kiss.”

1. He is trying to be romantic/sexy/cool and wants to impress you.

There is something endearing about a man who isn’t afraid to look you in the eyes and connect so closely. Maybe he is planning to alternate between a closed eye kiss and an eye gazing kiss. Maybe he’s having fun and just wants to try both ways. Maybe he read that eye-gazing is a popular thing, who knows. The point is, he is just trying to be cute and it’s not a huge deal.

2. He is checking to see “how he’s doing.”

Well, it’s not quite as cool when a guy is feeling insecure and checks to see how you like the kiss. But this scenario happens too. It might be a sign that he’s self-conscious about his technique, his body, breath, or some other personal aspect of himself. He may be trying to gauge if you’re enjoying it. And frankly, it’s sweet that he’s taking the kiss so seriously!

3. He wants to connect with you on a deeper level.

In this scenario, he’s not just eye-gazing for pleasure but really trying to experience a deeper bond between the two of you. He may already feel connected to you, but with a gazing kiss, he might be trying to connect with you emotionally, to fully take in the experience. Or in like manner…

4. He may be trying to create a vivid memory.

Whether it’s for him, or for you, or both of you, he thinks that opening his eyes and immersing himself with all his senses will make this a memory for the ages. That’s a pretty cool sign, since that means he wants to remember this kiss and this moment for the rest of his life. He may be burning the lovely image of you into his mind, taking the time to be there with you in this unique experience. Or he may be hoping that you see him the same way, as someone devoted to you and who wants this to last beyond just a passionate affair.

5. He is playing you(!)

This is a controversial theory, to say the least. But some women claim that guys who stare at them during a kiss might be players, or narcissists, or just dudes being creepy. The thought is that he is so “rehearsed” he doesn’t really feel the romance anymore – just the sex. He may even be completely removed from the emotional experience, or even dead inside.

He enjoys the kiss, the conquest perhaps, but doesn’t feel love the same way you do.

Well, this sounds feasible but the problem is there is no sure way to know if a guy is a player just by the way he kisses and stares. You have to take more factors into account like how he treats you, how many ex-girlfriends he’s had (and his reputation), and any other disturbing behaviors he might be exhibiting.

If he’s “clean” in every other way, it’s very possible you’re reading too much into his harmless eye gaze. It’s certainly not a dead-giveaway that he’s a psychopath. It just means he doesn’t want to close his eyes at this particular moment, for his own personal reasons.

6. He is paranoid you’re going to steal his wallet…or something else!

Who knows? Maybe your boyfriend is keeping his eye on you because he doesn’t entirely trust you. Maybe he’s heard rumors about how well you pickpocket or cut off locks of his hair for witchcraft purposes. Only kidding…I don’t think any guy is this paranoid! But if he really is that paranoid, uh yeah, you should probably think twice about dating him.

7. He’s not attracted to you and is second-guessing the relationship.

This is a somewhat unlikely but still possible scenario. If the guy feels forced into the relationship and is not all that excited to be kissing you, he might stare emotionlessly, wondering if he’s making a mistake.

But once again, it depends on what ELSE he’s doing. Is he kissing hesitantly? Is he breaking the embrace before you’re done? Does he seem annoyed or fearful or even offended? These are the behaviors that matter. The eye gaze alone doesn’t mean he’s having second thought. It simply means he wants to look at you, and that’s not necessarily a bad thing.

Does the Open Eyed Kiss Matter?

The point is, don’t fret about the guy enjoying the kiss in his own unique way. Men don’t all kiss the same and sometimes they want to try something different. What you should pay more attention to is his enthusiasm, his energy level, and his desire to make the kiss good for you.

What really matters is that he wants to keep the kiss going, not the strict technique. So if you determine that his “stare” is harmless, just reward him with another great kiss and close your own eyes. If you enjoy closing your eyes during a kiss, then do what feels right.

Maybe he will try it your way next and close his eyes. Maybe he just likes to experiment and discover his favorite way to kiss you. There’s nothing wrong with trying something new. Encourage his passion and welcome the embrace, once you sense his good vibes coming your way.

The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys a Man’s Love For You And Drives Him Out Of Your Life

There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…

It usually comes out as an honest question when you want to connect with him…

But only serves to push him away and slowly kill your relationship from the inside out…

It can take a man who is filled with love and passion for you…

And make him feel cold, distant, and uninterested…

Have you figured out what it is yet?

Many women send this as a text message when they’re feeling insecure…

And then are confused why he suddenly pulls away and disappears completely…

Most of the women who ask it don’t even know how harmful it is…

Yet it can take a relationship that seems like it’s perfect…

A relationship where you feel loved, cared for, and like you’ve finally found “the one”…

And overnight, it can tear that relationship apart…

Leaving you confused, frustrated, and heartbroken…

If you don’t know what this simple yet seemingly innocent question is…

I want you to stop what you’re doing and go watch this video presentation that I put together for you at the link below…

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My name is Matthew Coast and I’ve been teaching in the dating industry on since 2005…

I’ve helped hundreds of thousands of women, all over the world…

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I show you what this 5 word phrase is…

I’ll teach you about why men pull away, how to stop it from happening…

And how to attract the man you want…

Into a relationship where you’re loved and adored and treated like a priority…

No matter how painful things have been in your past…

You can attract a great man and have a great relationship…

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