Look, I know how frustrating it is. You're not sitting at home waiting for Prince Charming to knock on your door. You're actually out there—going on dates, meeting new people, putting yourself out there.

But somehow, the guys you meet just aren't... right.

Either they're not looking for anything serious, or they seem great at first but turn out to be players, or they just want to keep things casual indefinitely.

I'm Matthew Coast, and over the past 12+ years working exclusively with women, I've helped thousands break out of this exact pattern. 

The good news? 

This isn't about you being broken or doing something wrong. And it's definitely not because "all the good men are taken."

There's a specific reason this keeps happening, and once you understand it, everything changes.

Let me paint a picture for you, and tell me if this sounds familiar:

You meet a guy. There's chemistry. The conversation flows. You're excited—maybe this is finally it.

The first date goes well. Maybe the second and third too. You start imagining where this could go.

Then somewhere around week three or four, things shift. He gets vague about plans. The texts slow down. Or he finally admits he's "not looking for anything serious right now."

And you're left thinking: How did I not see this coming?

Here's what Right Men Shortage actually means: You're not having trouble getting dates. You're having trouble finding men who want what you want.

You might recognize this pattern as:

Going on dates that start out promising but fizzle after the third meeting, leaving you wondering what went wrong or what you could have done differently.

Getting genuinely excited about someone new, investing emotional energy and time, only to discover weeks or months later that he just wants to "see where things go" indefinitely—which really means he's keeping his options open.

Feeling like every quality man you meet is either already in a relationship, fresh out of one and "not ready," or just interested in something casual—meanwhile your friends seem to have no trouble finding commitment-ready partners.

Meeting guys who seem perfect on paper—attractive, successful, fun to be around—but when it comes to actually moving forward into a real relationship, they always have one foot out the door.

The frustrating part? You're doing everything you're "supposed" to do. You're on the apps. You're saying yes to setups. You're going to places where you might meet someone. You're staying open and positive.

But you keep ending up in the same place: alone, frustrated, and wondering if you're somehow attracting the wrong type of guy.

And here's what makes this so exhausting: It's not that these men are obviously wrong for you from the start. If they were, this would be easy.

The problem is they seem right at first. The chemistry is there. The dates are fun. Your friends say "he sounds great!"

It's only after you've already started to care that the truth comes out.

Now here's where everything you thought you knew gets turned upside down.

Most women think the problem is one of these things:

• "I'm not attractive enough"
• "I'm too picky"
• "All the good men are already taken"
• "Men just don't want commitment anymore"
• "I'm too old / too young / too intimidating / too whatever"

But that's not it at all.

The real problem is this: You're using the wrong filter at the wrong time.

Let me explain what I mean.

When you meet a man you're attracted to, what happens? Your brain gets flooded with feel-good chemicals. You notice how he makes you laugh. How easy the conversation is. How attracted you are to him.

So you say yes to another date. Then another. You start texting regularly. Maybe things get physical.

And somewhere in all of that, you start to get attached.

Here's the problem: Attraction and chemistry tell you NOTHING about whether he wants commitment.

Zero. Zilch. Nada.

A man can have incredible chemistry with you, enjoy your company, be genuinely attracted to you... and still have absolutely no interest in a committed relationship.

Not because you did anything wrong. Not because you're not "enough." Simply because chemistry and commitment are two completely different things.

But here's what most women do (and this isn't your fault—no one teaches us this):

They use attraction and chemistry as their primary filter.

If the spark is there, they keep going. They wait. They hope that the chemistry will naturally lead to commitment.

And then, weeks or months later, after they're already emotionally invested, they try to figure out what he actually wants.

By that point, it's too late. You're already attached.

Now walking away feels impossible, even though you can see he's not giving you what you need. So you either stay in limbo hoping he'll change, or you end it and start the whole cycle over with someone new.

This is why common dating advice makes everything worse:

"Just be yourself and the right person will come along" - Translation: Keep doing what you're doing and hope for different results. No strategy, just hope.

"Play hard to get to make him chase you" - This might create short-term pursuit, but it doesn't screen for commitment. Players LOVE the chase. Commitment-minded men get frustrated and move on.

"Don't talk about what you want too early, you'll scare him off" - So you wait until you're already invested to find out you want completely different things. Great plan.

"Focus on building chemistry and connection first" - Which is exactly what gets you attached to men who were never going to commit in the first place.

The mechanism that's actually happening beneath the surface is this:

You're screening for compatibility AFTER attraction, when you should be screening for intentions BEFORE attachment.

Think of it like this: Imagine you're hiring for a job. You wouldn't hire someone just because you enjoyed talking to them in the interview, then wait six months to check if they actually have the skills you need.

You'd screen for qualifications FIRST. Then, among qualified candidates, you'd pick the one you connect with best.

But in dating, most women do the opposite. They screen for connection first, THEN try to figure out if he's "qualified" (meaning: wants commitment, shares their values, is emotionally available).

And that's why you keep ending up with men who are fun to date but not interested in building a future.

Here's the bigger pattern you haven't seen yet:

Every time you invest in a man who isn't right for you, you're not just losing time with him. You're also missing opportunities to meet men who ARE right for you.

You're at capacity emotionally. You're hopeful about this one. So you're not really open to meeting anyone else.

And the cycle continues.

The good news? Once you understand this pattern, you can break it.

But first, you need to see what's really at stake if you don't.

I need to be honest with you about something.

This problem doesn't fix itself.

I wish I could tell you that if you just keep doing what you're doing, eventually you'll get lucky and meet the right guy. That's what we want to believe, right? That our person is just around the corner, and any day now...

But here's what actually happens when this pattern continues:

Six months from now:

You're still going on dates that seem promising at first. Still texting guys who seem interested. Still getting your hopes up.

And still ending up disappointed when it doesn't go anywhere.

Maybe you've met someone new by then. Maybe he's different—or at least, he seems different at first. But a few weeks in, the same pattern emerges. He's vague about the future. He's not making plans more than a few days out. And you're starting to get that familiar sinking feeling.

You tell yourself you're just being paranoid. That you need to relax and see where it goes.

But deep down, you already know how this ends.

A year from now:

You're more exhausted. The optimism you used to feel when meeting someone new has been replaced with caution. Maybe even cynicism.

You've been through this enough times now that you recognize the signs earlier. But recognizing them doesn't help, because you still don't know how to avoid them in the first place.

Your friends are starting to say things like "just give it time" or "you're too picky" or "maybe you need to lower your standards."

But you know that's not the answer. You've already tried being less selective. It didn't work.

You're starting to wonder if maybe you're just meant to be alone. Or if you should settle for someone who's "good enough" even though something feels off.

Two years from now:

Someone you know just got engaged. Someone else is getting married. Your social media feed is full of couple photos and wedding announcements.

Meanwhile, you're still stuck in the same pattern.

The emotional toll of repeated disappointment has left you either desperate or guarded—sometimes both at the same time.

If you're desperate, you start overlooking red flags because you just want SOMEONE to work out. You lower your standards. You accept breadcrumbs. You convince yourself that "maybe this is just how modern dating is."

If you're guarded, you start pushing men away before they can disappoint you. You test them. You look for problems. You self-sabotage because at least that way YOU'RE in control of when it ends.

Neither approach works.

Here's what most people don't talk about: the compounding effect.

Every disappointing experience doesn't just waste your time. It changes you.

It makes you more skeptical. More tired. More likely to either settle or give up entirely.

And here's the really painful part: Every month you spend with the wrong person is a month you're NOT available to meet the right person.

When you're emotionally invested in a guy who's stringing you along, you're not really open to anyone else.

When you're recovering from another disappointment, you're taking a "break from dating."

When you're stuck in the cycle, you miss the opportunities that could actually change everything.

Time is your most valuable resource in dating. Not because there's some arbitrary deadline, but because the longer you stay in this pattern, the harder it becomes emotionally.

The frustration builds. The hope fades. The energy it takes to keep putting yourself out there starts to feel like too much.

I'm not saying this to scare you or pressure you.

I'm saying it because it's the truth. And you deserve to hear the truth.

The good news is that this pattern can be broken. But it requires doing something different than what you've been doing.

And that starts with understanding the specific mistakes that are keeping you stuck.

If you've been stuck in this pattern, I can almost guarantee you've made at least one of these three mistakes.

Not because you're doing something wrong, but because no one ever taught you a better way.

Here's what this looks like:

You meet a guy. There's a spark. The conversation flows easily. He's attractive, funny, interesting. You feel that flutter of excitement you haven't felt in a while.

So you say yes to a second date. Then a third.

The chemistry is undeniable. You're texting constantly. You can't wait to see him again.

And in the back of your mind, you're thinking: "This feels different. This could really be something."

You assume that if the chemistry is this strong, if you're this compatible, commitment will naturally follow.

But here's what actually happens:

Weeks go by. Maybe months. You're essentially in a relationship—seeing each other regularly, texting every day, maybe even meeting each other's friends.

But when you bring up "what are we?" or "where is this going?" he gets vague.

"I'm really enjoying getting to know you."

"I'm not trying to rush into anything."

"I like how things are—why do we need to label it?"

And you realize with a sinking feeling that while YOU thought you were building toward something, HE was just enjoying the ride.

Why this backfires:

Chemistry and compatibility are completely different things.

You can have incredible chemistry with someone who doesn't want what you want.

You can be wildly attracted to someone who isn't emotionally available.

You can have amazing dates with someone who has zero interest in commitment.

Chemistry tells you whether you enjoy being around someone. That's it.

It doesn't tell you if they share your values. It doesn't tell you if they want the same kind of relationship you do. It doesn't tell you if they're emotionally ready for commitment.

And when you use chemistry as your primary filter, you end up getting attached to people based on how they make you feel in the moment—not whether they're actually right for you long-term.

Here's the thinking behind this mistake:

"I don't want to seem pushy or desperate by asking what he's looking for too soon."

"It's too early to have that conversation—we just started dating."

"I'll know what he wants based on how he acts. His actions will speak louder than words."

"If I just go with the flow and let things develop naturally, it'll all work out."

So you wait. You don't want to be "that girl" who's talking about relationships on the second date. You don't want to scare him off.

Here's the problem:

While you're waiting, you're getting attached.

Every date, every text, every inside joke, every physical intimacy—it's all building an emotional connection in your brain.

And by the time you finally have "the talk" and discover he's not looking for anything serious?

You're already in too deep.

Now the thought of walking away is devastating, even though you can clearly see he's not giving you what you need.

So you either:

• Stay, hoping he'll change his mind (he won't)
• Try to convince him you're worth committing to (you are, but this doesn't work)
• Settle for a casual situation that leaves you feeling unfulfilled and anxious
• Finally end it, heartbroken, and start the whole cycle over with someone new

Why this backfires:

The time to find out what someone wants is BEFORE you're emotionally attached, not after.

When you wait, you're essentially gambling. You're betting weeks or months of your emotional energy on the hope that this person wants the same thing you do.

And when you lose that bet? It costs you.

Not just the time you spent with him. But the recovery time after. The emotional toll. The hit to your confidence. The cynicism that creeps in.

The longer you wait to have clarity, the higher the cost when it doesn't work out.

Maybe you've tried this approach. A lot of women do after they've been burned a few times.

They think: "Okay, being authentic didn't work. Maybe I need to be more strategic."

So they follow "The Rules" or whatever modern version of dating strategy is popular.

Here's what this looks like:

• Playing hard to get, even when you're genuinely interested
• Waiting a specific amount of time before texting back to seem less available
• Acting less interested than you actually are
• Following scripts or "techniques" to make him chase you
• Pretending not to want commitment when you actually do
• Being intentionally mysterious or withholding to keep him intrigued

The thinking is: "If I make him work for it, he'll value me more. If I seem unavailable, he'll want me more."

Why this backfires:

First of all, games attract game-players.

The guy who's excited by the chase? He's usually excited by the chase itself, not by you. Once he "wins," the thrill is gone and he moves on to the next challenge.

The guy who wants genuine commitment? He's looking for authenticity and emotional connection. When you're playing games, you're actively repelling the exact men you actually want.

Second, even if it "works" and you get him into a relationship, now you're stuck pretending to be this person you're not.

You can't relax. You can't be yourself. You're constantly strategizing and second-guessing every text, every response, every interaction.

That's exhausting. And it's not real intimacy.

Plus, if he's attracted to the version of you that you've manufactured, what happens when the real you inevitably comes out?

The deeper problem with all three mistakes:

They're all variations of the same core issue: trying to make the wrong men become the right men.

Trying to build chemistry into commitment.

Trying to turn a casual guy into a serious one.

Trying to manufacture interest through strategy.

But here's the truth: You can't create desire for commitment where it doesn't exist.

No amount of chemistry, patience, or games will make a man who doesn't want commitment suddenly want it.

The solution isn't to do these things better.

The solution is to do something completely different.

Here's the truth about solving The Right Men Shortage:

You don't need to meet MORE men.

You don't need to expand your dating pool or swipe on more apps.

You don't even need better "luck" or timing.

What you need is a filtering system that eliminates wrong-fit men before you waste weeks or months finding out they're not right for you.

Think about it this way:

If you're meeting men who seem great at first but turn out to want something casual... or men who start strong but fade away... or men who are emotionally unavailable...

The problem isn't that there aren't enough good men out there.

The problem is you don't have a reliable way to screen them out early.

And that's not your fault. Nobody teaches women how to do this effectively.

Most dating advice tells you to "give him a chance" or "don't be too picky" or "chemistry is what matters."

But that's exactly backwards.

To solve The Right Men Shortage once and for all, you need three specific things:

Not surface-level questions like "what do you do for work" or "what are your hobbies."

You need questions that reveal his true intentions, his relationship readiness, and whether his values actually align with yours—questions you can ask BEFORE the first date, so you're not wasting time on men who aren't looking for what you want.

These questions need to feel natural and conversational (not like an interrogation), but they need to cut through the BS and give you real information fast.

Asking the right questions is only half the battle.

You also need to know how to interpret his answers—because men who aren't serious have learned to say what you want to hear.

You need a proven framework that helps you spot the difference between a man who's genuinely ready for commitment and one who's just testing the waters or keeping his options open.

This framework should work regardless of what he says, focusing instead on what he does, how he responds, and the patterns he shows in his behavior.

This can't be vague advice like "trust your gut" or "set boundaries."

You need a complete, paint-by-numbers system that tells you exactly what to say, when to say it, how to interpret his response, and what to do next based on what he shows you.

Something you can start using TODAY—in your current conversations, on your next first date, or before you even agree to meet someone new.

A system that works whether you're on dating apps, meeting men through friends, or getting approached in real life.

When you have all three of these pieces in place, something remarkable happens:

You stop wasting months on men who were never going to give you what you want.

You stop second-guessing yourself or ignoring red flags because you're "hoping he'll change."

You stop feeling like you can't find the right men—because you're finally able to identify them quickly and invest your energy where it actually matters.

The right men don't feel scarce anymore... because you're no longer confusing "charming" or "attractive" or "fun to talk to" with "right for me."

After analyzing hundreds of case studies from women I'd worked with over the years, I noticed something remarkable.

The women who found their ideal partners fastest—the ones who went from single to happily committed in months instead of years—weren't doing what typical dating advice recommended.

They weren't playing hard to get. They weren't "putting themselves out there more." They weren't lowering their standards or hoping chemistry would turn into compatibility.

They had a system.

A systematic way to evaluate men early, filter out the wrong ones quickly, and focus their energy only on men who were genuinely right for them.

So I reverse-engineered exactly what they were doing.

I broke it down into a simple, step-by-step process that any woman could follow—regardless of her age, dating history, or how discouraged she felt about her prospects.

That process became The Fast Attraction Method.

Here's how it works:

First, you learn the psychology behind why men commit—what actually makes a man want a serious relationship versus just casual dating. This gives you the foundation to understand what you're screening for.

Second, you get the exact questions to ask (and when to ask them) that reveal a man's true intentions and relationship readiness. These aren't awkward interview questions—they're natural, engaging conversation prompts that tell you everything you need to know.

Third, you learn how to interpret his responses using a proven framework that cuts through smooth talk and reveals what he's really offering. You'll know within the first conversation whether he's worth pursuing.

Fourth, you get step-by-step scripts and strategies for every stage of dating—from initial messaging to first dates to moving into commitment—so you always know exactly what to say and do next.

The result?

You stop wasting time on men who were never going to give you what you want. You stop second-guessing yourself. You stop feeling like all the good men are taken.

Instead, you become a magnet for quality, commitment-ready men—and you know how to recognize them immediately when they show up.

When you join The Fast Attraction Method today, here's exactly what you're getting:

Don't just take my word for it. Here's what women who were stuck in this exact pattern are saying after using The Devotion Switch:

"I went from thinking all men were players to being engaged in 6 months"

"I kept meeting guys who seemed great at first but always turned out to want something casual. I thought maybe I was just attracted to the wrong type. The Value Screening questions changed everything—I stopped wasting time on smooth-talkers and started recognizing genuine quality. I met James three months into the program, and I KNEW within two dates he was different. We're engaged now and I can't believe I almost gave up on finding someone like him." - Sarah M

"Finally, a system that actually works in the real world"

"I'd tried everything—apps, matchmakers, asking friends to set me up. I was meeting men, but none of them wanted what I wanted. The Fast Attraction Method showed me I was screening for the wrong things. The questions felt awkward at first, but they worked. I filtered out three guys in one week who would have wasted months of my time. Then I met David, and everything the program said would happen... happened. We've been together 8 months and he just asked me to move in." - Jennifer K.

"I thought this wouldn't work because I'm over 50"

"Honestly, I was skeptical. I'm 52, divorced, and everyone told me 'all the good men are married by now.' But the screening system doesn't care about age—it cares about values and intentions. I learned to ask better questions and trust my assessment of his answers. I met Robert at a friend's party, used the Connection Code during our first conversation, and we had our third date before the week was out. A year later, we're talking about marriage. I didn't think this was possible at my age." - Linda T

"No more months of 'where is this going?'"

"My pattern was getting attached to guys who 'weren't sure what they wanted' and hoping they'd eventually choose me. The Fast Attraction Method taught me to eliminate those guys BEFORE getting attached. The Power Phrase alone was worth the entire program—I used it on a third date and he immediately clarified he wanted a relationship. We've been together 10 months and I've never felt more secure." - Michelle R.

"I was meeting men, just the wrong ones"

"The diagnosis was so accurate it scared me. I WAS meeting men—just men who weren't right for me. The screening framework helped me see patterns I'd been missing. Within two weeks of starting the program, I could spot time-wasters in the first conversation. I met Tom a month later through a dating app, and unlike every other guy I'd talked to, he passed every single screening question. We're celebrating our one-year anniversary next month." - Amanda S.

Everything I just described—the complete Value Screening system, all the scripts, the frameworks, the questions, the bonuses—is available to you right now.

I've had women pay me $20,000 for a one-day intensive where I taught them these exact strategies.

Then I opened it to women in my exclusive $8,000 coaching program, where they got personalized support implementing this system.

More recently, I offered a $3,000 group coaching option for women who wanted this knowledge with some guidance.

But today, for women who are truly ready to solve The Right Men Shortage once and for all, I'm doing something different.

You're getting access to my absolute best material—the same system that's helped thousands of women go from frustrated and discouraged to happily committed—for a fraction of what others have paid.

Your total investment today is just $47.

That's right. $47 for the complete Fast Attraction Method.

Why so low?

Because I know how transformative this system is. I've seen it change lives. And I want to make it accessible to every woman who's ready to stop wasting time on the wrong men and start attracting the right one.

Here's what I want you to do:

Join the program right now. Go through the material. Start implementing the Value Screening system. Use the questions. Apply the frameworks.

Notice how your confidence increases as you learn to identify quality men quickly.

Feel the relief of walking away from wrong-fit men before getting attached.

Experience what it's like when a genuinely compatible, commitment-ready man starts pursuing you.

If within 60 days you don't feel you're on a clear path to attracting the right man, simply email us at support@matthewcoast.com for a full refund.

No questions asked. No hard feelings.

I'm that confident this system will change how you experience dating.

You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.

Click the button below and you'll be taken to a secure order form where you'll enter your name, email address, and payment details.

You can pay with any major credit card, or if you prefer, you can use PayPal, which is one of the most trusted payment solutions on the planet.

After you complete your order, you'll be sent to a "thank you" page, and within 10-15 minutes you'll receive login details to access FAM (Fast Attraction Method) inside our members area.

That's it. Simple, easy, and you can get started TODAY instead of wasting another day, week, or month stuck in this pattern.

Q: How is this different from other dating advice I've tried?

Most dating advice focuses on attracting MORE men or making yourself more appealing. The Fast Attraction Method does the opposite—it helps you filter OUT wrong-fit men quickly so you only invest time in the right ones. It's not about changing yourself; it's about screening smarter.

Q: What if I've tried everything and nothing works?

If you've tried everything and you're still struggling, it's likely because you didn't have an effective screening system. You were either meeting the wrong men or not filtering them out fast enough. This program gives you the specific questions and framework to identify right-fit men within the first conversation.

Q: How long does it take to see results?

Many women report filtering out time-wasters within the first week of using the Value Screening questions. The average time from starting the program to meeting a quality, commitment-ready man is 2-4 months—but some women meet their person within weeks.

Q: Will this work if I'm over 40/50/60?

Absolutely. The screening system works regardless of age because it's based on values and intentions, not demographics. We have success stories from women in their 20s through their 60s. Quality men who want commitment exist at every age—you just need to know how to identify them.

Q: What if I'm not meeting ANY men right now?

The Fast Track Dating System shows you exactly where and how to meet relationship-ready men, both online and offline. But even if you're already meeting men, the screening system will dramatically improve the quality of who you're investing time in.

Q: I'm worried about seeming too picky or demanding.

The Value Screening questions are designed to feel natural and conversational, not like an interrogation. Quality men actually APPRECIATE women who know what they want and communicate clearly. It's the wrong men who get defensive about screening—which is exactly how you identify them.

Q: How much time does this require?

The program is designed for busy women. You can go through the core material in a weekend, and start implementing immediately. The screening questions take minutes to use, but save you months of wasted time on wrong-fit men.

Here's what you've learned today:

The Right Men Shortage isn't about there being no good men available.

It's about not having a reliable system to identify them quickly and filter out the wrong ones before you get attached.

You've been meeting men—just the wrong men. Or spending months with seemingly promising men only to discover they're not right for you.

But it doesn't have to be this way.

On the other side of implementing The Fast Attraction Method, your dating life looks completely different:

You meet a man, and within one conversation you know whether he's worth pursuing.

You go on first dates only with men who've already demonstrated relationship readiness and value alignment.

You stop wasting months hoping someone will change or "come around" to wanting commitment.

You recognize quality, commitment-ready men immediately—and they recognize you as the woman they've been looking for.

Within months (not years), you're in a secure, loving relationship with a man who cherishes you and wants to build a future together.

That's the life waiting for you on the other side of this decision.

The women whose stories you read earlier—Sarah, Jennifer, Linda, Michelle, Amanda—they were exactly where you are right now.

Frustrated. Discouraged. Wondering if they'd ever find the right person.

They took action. They implemented this system. And their love lives completely transformed.

Now it's your turn.

For just $47, you're getting the complete system that's helped thousands of women solve The Right Men Shortage and find lasting love.

You're protected by a 60-day money-back guarantee, so there's literally no risk.

The only question is: are you ready to stop struggling and start attracting the right man?

Click the button below to get instant access to The Fast Attraction Method now.

Your future self—the one in a loving, committed relationship with the right man—will thank you for taking action today.

I'll see you inside the program.

Matthew Coast

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