You give everything… hoping he’ll finally see you as the one.

But instead, he stays distant, inconsistent, and unsure.

Thank you for taking the quiz. Your complete results are being emailed to you right now, but let's talk about what they mean while everything's fresh in your mind.

I'm Matthew Coast, and over the last 15+ years I've helped thousands of women break this exact pattern. I've seen it play out so many times that I can tell you exactly what's happening in your situation, why it keeps happening, and most importantly, what you need to do to turn things around.

Right now you might be feeling confused, frustrated, or even a little hopeless about your situation with men. Maybe you're wondering if there's something wrong with you, or if you'll ever find a man who's actually ready to commit.

Right now you might be feeling confused, frustrated, or even a little hopeless about your situation with men. Maybe you're wondering if there's something wrong with you, or if you'll ever find a man who's actually ready to commit.

I want you to know something important right now: there's nothing wrong with you. You're not broken. You're not asking for too much. And yes, there absolutely are men out there who want commitment.

But here's the thing...

If you keep doing what you've been doing, you're going to keep getting the same results. The same pattern will repeat itself with the next guy, and the next one after that.

The good news? 

Once you understand what's really happening and what to do about it, everything changes. 

I've seen women who were stuck in this pattern for years turn things around in a matter of weeks.

Let me show you what I mean.

The Non-Committer Magnet means you keep attracting men who seem absolutely perfect at first, who seem like they're really into you and want something real... but then when it comes time to actually commit, they pull back, get confused, or tell you they're "not ready."

And the worst part? 

This isn't a one-time thing. 

It's a pattern that keeps repeating itself.

Let me describe what this looks like, and I want you to tell me if any of this sounds familiar...

If you're single or casually dating right now, you meet a guy and there's this incredible chemistry. 

He pursues you, texts you constantly, seems genuinely interested in getting to know you. 

Everything feels natural and exciting. 

You start thinking, "Finally, this one is different."

Then things start getting more serious. 

You're spending more time together. 

Maybe you're sleeping together. 

He's acting like your boyfriend in every way. 

But when the topic of actually being together comes up, or when you try to define the relationship, suddenly he pulls back. 

He gets vague. 

He says he wants to "see where things go" or "keep things casual" or he's "not ready for something serious right now."

Or maybe you're in a complicated situation right now where you've been seeing someone for weeks, months, or even years. 

You do everything couples do. 

You spend time together, you're intimate, you meet each other's needs, you're there for each other. 

But he won't call you his girlfriend. He won't make it official. 

And when you bring it up, he gives you the "I don't want to ruin what we have" line, or "I like you but I'm just not ready for a relationship right now."

Sound familiar?

Here's what you might recognize...

He acts like your boyfriend when you're alone together. 

He's affectionate, attentive, maybe even says things that make you think he's falling for you. But he won't claim you publicly. He won't introduce you as his girlfriend. He keeps you in this weird in-between zone.

He says he wants to "keep things casual" or "see where it goes" even though everything between you feels anything but casual.

Everything about your relationship feels absolutely perfect... except for that ONE thing. His commitment. Or rather, his lack of it.

And here's the question that keeps you up at night, the one that's probably burning in your mind right now:

"Why does this keep happening to me?"

Why do you keep ending up in these situations where a man seems so into you, treats you so well, but won't actually commit?

Is it them? Is it you? Is there something you're doing wrong? Are you just unlucky? Do you have terrible taste in men?

Here's the truth, and it might surprise you...

What Most Women Think Is Happening

Here's what most women think when they keep ending up in situations with men who won't commit: "I must be attracting commitment-phobes. I need to get better at screening guys and avoiding the ones who don't want relationships."

But that's not actually what's happening.

The Counterintuitive Truth About These Men

The truth is this: most of the men you've been with who didn't commit to you... they actually WOULD commit to the right woman in the right situation. 

They're not commitment-phobes. They're not damaged or broken or incapable of relationships.

They would commit. Just not the way things are currently set up between you and them.

Let me explain what I mean.

You're Accidentally In "The Commitment-Optional Position"

When you have the Non-Committer Magnet pattern, you're accidentally putting yourself into something I call "The Commitment-Optional Position."

Here's what that means: he can get everything he wants from you—emotional support, physical intimacy, companionship, fun, affection, all of it—without actually having to commit to you.

Why would he change the arrangement when he's already getting everything he wants?

Now before you get upset, I'm not saying he's a bad guy who's using you. Most men don't even realize they're doing this. And I'm definitely not saying this is your fault or that you're doing something wrong on purpose.

What I'm saying is that there's a specific dynamic that gets created, often without either of you realizing it, that makes commitment optional for him instead of necessary.

How This Dynamic Gets Created (Without You Realizing It)

Here's how it happens:

First, you give relationship-level effort in what's supposed to be a casual situation. You're cooking for him, being there for him emotionally, solving his problems, making his life better, sleeping with him, acting like his girlfriend... all while he's still keeping things "casual." You're giving him the girlfriend experience without the girlfriend commitment.

Second, you act like his girlfriend, hoping that if you show him how great you are together, he'll eventually make it official. But it doesn't work that way. Because from his perspective, why would he need to change anything? He already has you.

Third, you try to prove your value to him instead of requiring him to prove his value to you. You're auditioning for the role of girlfriend, showing him all the reasons he should choose you. But high-value women don't audition. They make men compete for them.

The Brutal Truth About Why He Doesn't Commit

And here's what happens as a result: he has zero incentive to commit because he's getting everything he wants without it.

He gets to enjoy all the benefits of having you in his life without any of the responsibility, work, or vulnerability that comes with actually committing to someone.

Why This Keeps Happening With Different Men
This is why the SAME thing keeps happening with different men.

It's not that you're unlucky or that you have bad taste or that all men are commitment-phobes.

It's that you're unknowingly recreating the same dynamic over and over again. Different guy, same pattern. Because you're putting yourself in the Commitment-Optional Position every single time.

The Real Question You Should Be Asking

The question isn't "Why won't he commit?"

The real question is "Why would he commit when everything is already perfect for him exactly as it is?"

And once you understand that, everything changes.

What Happens If You Keep Going Like This

I need to be honest with you about something, and it might be hard to hear, but you need to know this:

If you don't change what's happening right now, things are only going to get worse.

Let me paint you a picture of what your future looks like if this pattern continues...

Six Months From Now

Six months from now, you're still in the same situation. Still waiting for him to "be ready." Still having the same circular conversations about commitment. Still hoping that if you just give it a little more time, he'll come around.

You're still checking your phone obsessively. Still analyzing every text message. Still wondering if tonight's the night he'll finally say he wants to make it official.

But nothing has changed. Because nothing about the dynamic has changed.

A Year From Now

A year from now, one of two things has happened:

Either you're still in limbo with him—still waiting, still hoping, still stuck in this in-between zone that's slowly eating away at your self-esteem. You've invested another year into something that isn't moving forward.

Or he's moved on. And here's the part that's going to sting: there's a very real possibility that he's now committed to someone else. Maybe even engaged. Maybe even married.

The Brutal Truth About Men and Commitment

I need you to understand something crucial: the men who won't commit to you? They're not incapable of commitment. They WILL commit.

Just not necessarily to you. Not in the current dynamic.

I've seen this happen countless times. A woman spends years with a man who tells her he's "not ready for commitment" or "doesn't believe in marriage" or "just wants to keep things casual." She finally walks away, heartbroken and exhausted.

Then six months later, she sees on social media that he's engaged to someone else.

And she's left thinking, "What did she have that I didn't? What was wrong with me?"

But here's the truth: there was nothing wrong with you. The other woman just didn't make the same mistakes you did. She didn't put herself in the Commitment-Optional Position.

The Emotional Toll This Takes On You

Let's talk about what this pattern is doing to you emotionally, because this goes deeper than just not having a boyfriend.

The constant anxiety of not knowing where you stand. You can't relax into the relationship because you're always wondering if it's going to end tomorrow. You can't make plans for the future because you don't know if he'll be in it. You can't fully invest because you're protecting yourself from getting hurt.

The feeling that you're not good enough. Every day he doesn't commit to you feels like proof that there's something wrong with you. You start picking yourself apart, wondering what you need to change, what you need to fix, what you need to be in order to be worthy of his commitment.

Watching him treat you like a girlfriend in private but refusing to claim you in public. And the shame that comes with that. The confusion. The hurt of being good enough behind closed doors but not good enough for the world to know about.

This eats away at you. Even if you try to pretend it doesn't bother you, it does.

The Practical Consequences You Can't Ignore

Beyond the emotional toll, there are very real, practical consequences to staying stuck in this pattern:

Years of your life wasted on men who were "almost" ready. Time you can't get back. Time you could have spent building something real with someone who actually wanted the same things you do.

Missing out on men who would commit to you because you're emotionally invested in someone who won't. How many good men have you passed by because you were holding out hope for this one?

The pattern repeating with the next guy, and the next. If you don't learn what's actually causing this, you'll just recreate it with the next man you meet. Different face, same story.

The Wake-Up Call You Need to Hear

I've worked with women who spent 2, 5, even 10+ years waiting for a man to commit.

They gave him their best years. They were patient. They were understanding. They didn't pressure him. They gave him space. They proved how great they were together.

And then one day, he left.

And within months—sometimes even weeks—he was engaged to someone else.

Do you know what every single one of those women told me?

"I wish someone had told me sooner that waiting wasn't going to work. I wish I had known what to do differently. I wish I hadn't wasted all that time."

I'm telling you now.

Waiting isn't going to work. Being more patient isn't going to work. Proving yourself isn't going to work.

You need to change the dynamic. And you need to do it now, before you invest any more of your precious time and energy into a situation that isn't going anywhere.

Before I show you what actually works, I need to make sure you understand what doesn't work. Because if you're making any of these three mistakes, you're actively pushing commitment further away.

And I see women make these mistakes all the time. They seem logical. They seem like they should work. But they backfire spectacularly.

This is the most common mistake I see, and it's the one that keeps women stuck in the Commitment-Optional Position longer than anything else.

Here's what it looks like: You try to prove to him that you'd make an amazing girlfriend. You show him how great you are by acting like his girlfriend before he's actually committed to you. 

You cook his favorite meals. You're there for him when he has a bad day at work. You listen to his problems and help him solve them. 

You meet his needs—emotional, physical, all of it. You make his life better in every possible way.

You think, "If I just show him how good we could be together, he'll want to make it official."

Why it backfires: High-value women don't audition for relationships. They don't try to convince men to choose them. 

When you're constantly trying to prove your worth, you're communicating that you don't believe you're already worthy. And if you don't believe it, why would he?

What actually happens: He gets comfortable. He gets all the benefits of having you in his life without having to step up and actually commit. 

You become convenient instead of valuable. You become the woman he relies on, not the woman he can't live without.

The result: He sees you as someone who's always going to be there, so there's no urgency to lock you down. He thinks, "Why buy the cow when I'm getting the milk for free?" (I hate that expression, but that's literally how a lot of men think about this.)

When the Relationship Audition doesn't work, this is usually what women try next.

Here's what it looks like: You've been patient long enough. You've proven yourself enough. You've waited and waited and nothing has changed, so you decide to force his hand. You give him an ultimatum: "Either commit to me or I'm gone. Either we make this official or we're done. I need an answer now."

You think, "This will make him realize he's about to lose me and he'll commit."

Why it backfires: Commitment that comes from pressure isn't real commitment. A man who commits because you backed him into a corner isn't committing because he wants you. He's committing because he feels trapped. And resentment grows from that.

What actually happens: One of two things. Either he calls your bluff and lets you walk (because he'd rather lose you than be forced into something), or he commits reluctantly to avoid losing you, but he resents you for it.

The result: You either lose him entirely, or you get a half-committed, resentful version of him who's only there because he felt he had no choice. That's not the relationship you want. That's not the kind of commitment that lasts.

When women realize the ultimatum doesn't work, they often swing to the opposite extreme.

Here's what it looks like: You decide to be the "cool girl." You tell yourself, "I'm not going to pressure him. I'm not going to bring it up. I'm just going to be patient and give him time. He'll come around when he's ready. All good things take time, right?"

You wait. And wait. And wait.

You think, "If I'm just patient enough, he'll eventually realize what we have and want to commit."

Why it backfires: Time alone doesn't create commitment. The right conditions create commitment. You can wait 10 years and nothing will change if the dynamic doesn't change. Time just passes. It doesn't fix anything.

What actually happens: Months turn into years. You keep waiting for him to "be ready," but he never is. Because nothing about the situation requires him to be ready. He's comfortable. You're still there. Everything is fine for him exactly as it is.

The result: You wake up one day—maybe a year from now, maybe five years from now—and realize you've been waiting for nothing. He was never going to commit under these conditions. You just gave him more and more time to enjoy the benefits of having you without the commitment.

Here's what you're probably thinking right now:

"Okay, so trying to prove myself doesn't work. Giving him an ultimatum doesn't work. Being patient and waiting doesn't work. So what the hell am I supposed to do?"

That's the question I'm about to answer.

Because there IS something that works. There's a way to turn this whole thing around and get him pursuing YOU for commitment instead of you chasing him for it.

But it requires doing something completely different from what you've been doing. Something that might feel counterintuitive at first, but works every single time when done correctly.

Let me show you what I mean...

So if trying to prove yourself doesn't work, ultimatums don't work, and waiting doesn't work... what DOES work?

To break the Non-Committer Magnet pattern, you need three specific things. And once you have all three, everything changes. The dynamic shifts. The power balance shifts. And suddenly he's the one pursuing YOU for commitment instead of you chasing him for it.

Here's what you need:

First, you need to shift the dynamic so that HE'S pursuing YOU for commitment, not the other way around.

Right now, you're in the Commitment-Optional Position. You need to move into what I call the Position of Power.

Here's what this means: Instead of you being the one who wants commitment while he gets to decide whether or not to give it to you, you flip the script. You become the prize he's trying to win. You become the woman he's afraid of losing.

Why this works: Men commit to women they're afraid of losing. Not women who are always available. Not women who are desperately trying to prove their worth. Not women who will wait around forever. They commit to women who have options, who know their value, and who require men to step up and match their investment.

This is NOT manipulation: I want to be really clear about this. The Position of Power isn't about playing games or being cold or withholding or making him jump through hoops. It's about knowing your value and requiring him to prove his. It's about understanding that your time, your energy, and your emotional investment are valuable, and you're only going to give them to a man who's willing to match that investment with commitment.

When you're in the Position of Power, you're not chasing commitment. You're not begging for it. You're not trying to convince him. You're simply making it clear that commitment is the price of admission for a relationship with you, and if he's not willing to pay that price, you'll find someone who is.

Second, you need to know the specific phrases and behaviors that flip the switch in his mind from "I want to keep this casual" to "I need to lock this woman down."

There are psychological triggers that make a man WANT to commit. Not feel pressured to commit. Not feel forced to commit. Actually WANT it.

Here's what this means: There are certain things you can say and do that tap into how men actually think about commitment. These aren't manipulation tactics or mind games. They're insights into male psychology that, when you understand them, give you the ability to inspire a man to choose commitment instead of demanding it from him.

Why this works: Most women try to get commitment by having logical conversations about it. "Where is this going? What are we? I need to know if you're serious about me." But logic doesn't create the emotional desire to commit. These triggers do. They work because they tap into what actually makes a man think, "I need to make her mine before someone else does."

These aren't tricks: These are authentic ways of communicating and behaving that naturally inspire commitment. They feel good to you because they come from a place of self-respect and boundaries. They work on him because they create the emotional conditions that make commitment feel like something he wants, not something he's being forced into.

Third, you need a step-by-step system you can follow so you're not just guessing or hoping or trying random things to see what works.

You need to know exactly what to do and when to do it.

Here's what this means: A clear framework gives you a roadmap. It tells you, "When he says this, you say this. When this situation happens, here's what you do. Here's how you know if you're in the Position of Power or the Commitment-Optional Position. Here's how to shift from one to the other."

Why this works: When you're in the middle of a confusing situation with a man, it's almost impossible to think clearly. Your emotions are involved. You're afraid of losing him. You're afraid of saying the wrong thing. You second-guess yourself constantly. A framework takes all that guesswork out of the equation. You just follow the steps, and the steps work.

It's not complicated: The framework I'm going to show you is simple. It's natural. It doesn't require you to be someone you're not or say things that don't feel authentic to you. The steps make sense. They feel right. And most importantly, they work.

When I saw how many women were stuck in this exact pattern—giving everything to men who wouldn't commit, trying all the wrong approaches, getting more and more frustrated and heartbroken—I knew I needed to create something that would solve this problem once and for all.

Something that would give women all three components: the Position of Power, the right triggers, and a clear framework to follow.

That's why I created The Devotion Switch.

The Women Who Got Men To Commit Were Doing Something Different

The women who successfully got men to commit weren't doing what everyone teaches. They weren't being more patient. They weren't trying harder to prove themselves. They weren't having more "talks" about the relationship.

They were doing something completely different.

They were putting themselves in a Position of Power.

Instead of chasing commitment, they were making men pursue them for it. Instead of trying to convince men they were worthy of commitment, they simply required it as the price of admission to their lives. Instead of waiting around hoping men would eventually "be ready," they made it clear that their time was valuable and they weren't going to waste it on someone who wasn't serious.

And it worked. Every single time.

These women got the commitment they wanted—not by begging for it, not by manipulating or playing games, but by understanding how men actually think about commitment and positioning themselves as the prize instead of the supplicant.

What The Devotion Switch Actually Is

The Devotion Switch is a complete system for making a man CHOOSE to commit to you.

Not forcing him. Not tricking him. Not pressuring him. Making him genuinely want to commit because he sees you as valuable, because he's afraid of losing you, and because commitment feels like the natural next step instead of something scary he's trying to avoid.

The unique mechanism: It's like flipping a switch in his mind from "I want to keep things casual" to "I need to make her mine before I lose her."

And once that switch flips, everything changes.

From Commitment-Optional to Commitment-Necessary

Here's how it works:

Right now, you're in the Commitment-Optional Position. He can have you, enjoy you, be with you, get everything he wants from you without committing. So he has no reason to commit.

The Devotion Switch takes you through a step-by-step framework that moves you from the Commitment-Optional Position into the Position of Power. It shows you exactly what to say, what to do, and how to shift the entire dynamic so that commitment becomes necessary instead of optional.

It gives you the exact triggers that make a man think, "Wait, if I don't commit to her, I'm going to lose her. And I don't want to lose her."

What Happens When You Apply This

When you apply the principles inside The Devotion Switch, here's what happens:

First, the dynamic shifts. Suddenly you're not chasing him for commitment anymore. He's pursuing you for it. You're not the one wondering where things are going. He is. You're not the one anxious about the relationship. He is.

Second, he starts seeing you differently. You're no longer the woman who's always going to be there no matter what. You're the woman he needs to step up for or risk losing. You're no longer convenient. You're valuable. And men commit to what they value.

Third, commitment stops feeling like something he's resisting and starts feeling like something he wants. Because you've created the conditions that make commitment feel natural, necessary, and desirable instead of scary, pressured, and forced.

The Step-By-Step Framework

The Devotion Switch takes you from where you are right now—stuck in the Commitment-Optional Position, frustrated and confused about why he won't commit—to having him pursue YOU for commitment.

It's not magic. It's psychology. It's understanding how men think about commitment and using that understanding to position yourself correctly.

And it works whether you're single and dating, in a casual situationship, or have been with someone for years who still won't commit.

The framework is the same. The principles are the same. And the results are the same.

Let me show you exactly what's inside...

When you get The Devotion Switch today, you're getting the complete system—everything you need to break the Non-Committer Magnet pattern and get him pursuing you for commitment instead of you chasing him for it.

Here's exactly what you'll get:

Don't just take my word for it. Here's what women who were stuck in this exact pattern are saying after using The Devotion Switch:

“After using what Matthew taught about the Power Phrase, my boyfriend started talking about marriage and kids.

It’s like I finally opened a book to his heart.”

- Nicole

"Thank you so much for this, Matthew. I took your advice and everything has only gradually gotten better between us. He's done a complete 180. 

He's been talking about our future together a lot the past month (moving in together, marriage, kids). He's just been absolutely amazing."

- Ivana

"This program works! I found a boyfriend, we dated, he proposed to me today! I'm so happy!"

- Emily

"I actually did this...everything I could to prove how great of a catch I was. I did for 32 year marriage then again after the divorce and in a bad relationship for 2 years. 

I did until I found you, Matthew Coast and now I'm in the most amazing relationship with a man, who I do NOT 'have to work to prove' anything. 

He treats me like a goddess and calls me 'Beautiful, Queen, bride.' ❤"

- Lisa

"I should say Thank you Matthew. I had totally lost self-confidence. 

I was almost forgetting my worth after going through an abusive situation but finding you brought me back to life. 

I love you Matthew may God continue blessing and using you."

- Rachel

These women were exactly where you are right now. Stuck in the Non-Committer Magnet pattern. Giving everything to men who wouldn't commit. Wondering if they'd ever find someone who would actually choose them.

But they learned how to shift from the Commitment-Optional Position into the Position of Power, and everything changed.

The same can happen for you.

Before I tell you the investment for The Devotion Switch, let me put this in perspective for you.

If you wanted to work with me one-on-one in private coaching, that investment is $1,000 (and there's currently a waiting list).

I used to teach this material in live workshops for $500 per person. Women would fly from across the country, book hotels, take time off work, all to learn these exact strategies.

And they considered it worth every penny because the alternative—staying stuck in a situationship for months or years longer—was far more expensive in terms of time, emotional energy, and heartbreak.

But you're not going to pay $1,000 for private coaching.

You're not even going to pay $500 for a workshop.

The Devotion Switch is just $47.

Let me break that down for you:

That's less than $1.57 per day for a month.

Less than your morning latte. Less than a trip through the drive-thru. Less than scrolling through your phone and impulse-buying something you don't need on Amazon.

For less than the cost of one date night dinner, you get the complete system that shows you exactly how to break the Non-Committer Magnet pattern and position yourself so men pursue YOU for commitment.

Think about what you've already invested in this relationship or situationship:

The nights you've stayed up wondering where this is going...

The emotional energy you've poured into someone who won't give you clarity...

The dinners you've cooked, the plans you've made, the support you've given...

The time—weeks, months, maybe even years—you've invested hoping he'll eventually step up...

And yet he still hasn't committed.

For less than the price of one nice dinner out, you can learn exactly how to turn this around.

But here's what you need to understand:

If you're thinking "I'll figure this out on my own" or "maybe if I just give it more time"...

I need to be honest with you about what happens when you wait:

Every day you stay in the Commitment-Optional Position, it gets harder to shift how he sees you.

The longer this pattern continues, the more comfortable he becomes getting everything he wants without having to commit. The more ingrained the dynamic becomes. The more "normal" it feels to both of you.

And here's the painful truth: patterns become harder to break the longer they go on.

Right now, you might be 6 months into this situationship. Or maybe it's been a year. Or two years. Or longer.

Every additional month you wait to change this dynamic makes it exponentially harder to shift.

Because not only does he get more comfortable with the current arrangement, but YOU start to accept it too. You start to think "well, it's been this long already, maybe I should just stick it out." You fall into the sunk cost fallacy—"I've already invested so much time, I can't walk away now."

That's exactly how women end up stuck for 5 years, 10 years, even 17 years in situations where the man never intended to commit.

And the worst part? The longer you wait, the harder it becomes emotionally to walk away if he never steps up. Because you've invested more. Because you've gotten more attached. Because leaving feels scarier than staying, even if staying means settling for less than you deserve.

The time to break this pattern is NOW.

Not six months from now when you're even more invested and he's even more comfortable.

Not a year from now when the pattern is so ingrained it feels impossible to change.

Not five years from now when you look back and realize you wasted your most valuable years on someone who was never going to choose you.

Right now. Today.

Click the button below and you'll be taken to a secure order form where you'll enter your name, email address, and payment details.

You can pay with any major credit card, or if you prefer, you can use PayPal, which is one of the most trusted payment solutions on the planet.

After you complete your order, you'll be sent to a "thank you" page, and within 10-15 minutes you'll receive login details to access The Devotion Switch inside our members area.

That's it. Simple, easy, and you can get started TODAY instead of wasting another day, week, or month stuck in this pattern.

I know you might be hesitant. Maybe you've tried other programs or advice that didn't work. Maybe you're worried this won't work for your specific situation. Maybe you're not sure if you can trust me yet.

That's completely normal. I get it.

That's why The Devotion Switch comes with a 100% Money-Back Guarantee.

Here's how it works:

Get The Devotion Switch today. Go through the program. Try the strategies. Apply what you learn to your situation.

If the strategies and information in the program aren't helpful to you, if you don't see results, if you're not completely satisfied for any reason at all, just contact us at support@matthewcoast.com and I'll give you a full refund of your money.

No questions asked. No hassle. No hard feelings.

You literally cannot lose.

Either this works for you and you finally break the Non-Committer Magnet pattern, or you get your money back.

The only way you actually lose is if you do nothing and stay stuck in the same pattern you've been in—watching more weeks, months, and years slip by while he continues to get everything he wants without committing.

You risk nothing by trying. You risk everything by waiting.

Q: How is this different from other dating advice I've tried?

Most dating advice tells you to either be more patient (which doesn't work because time alone doesn't create commitment) or to give ultimatums (which backfires because forced commitment breeds resentment). The Devotion Switch is completely different. It shows you how to create the conditions that make a man WANT to commit because you've positioned yourself as valuable and irreplaceable. It's not about waiting or forcing—it's about inspiring genuine desire for commitment.

Q: What if I've already tried everything and nothing has worked?

If you've tried everything and nothing has worked, it's because you were doing the wrong things. Not because you're broken or because your situation is hopeless. The strategies most women try (proving yourself, being patient, giving ultimatums) actually push commitment away instead of creating it. The Devotion Switch teaches you the complete opposite approach—the approach that actually works. Women who were stuck for years have turned things around in weeks using this system.

Q: Will this work if I'm already in a situationship with someone who won't commit?

Yes. The Devotion Switch works whether you're single and dating, in a casual situationship, or have been with someone for years who still won't make it official. The framework is the same because the principles of what makes men commit are the same. You'll learn how to shift the dynamic from where you are now to the Position of Power, regardless of your current situation.

Q: What if my situation is different or more complicated?

I've worked with women in every situation you can imagine. Women who were in friends-with-benefits situations for 10+ years. Women who were told "I'll never get married" by their partners. Women who thought they were in committed relationships only to find out the man didn't see it that way. The principles inside The Devotion Switch work regardless of your specific circumstances because they're based on how men think about commitment, which doesn't change from situation to situation.

Q: How long does it take to see results?

It depends on your situation and how quickly you apply what you learn. Some women see shifts in the dynamic within days. Others take a few weeks. But here's what I can tell you: if you don't change anything, nothing will change. If you apply what's inside The Devotion Switch, you will see results. The question is do you want to spend another 6 months, another year, another 5 years stuck in the same pattern? Or do you want to start seeing changes now?

Q: Is this manipulation? I don't want to trick him into committing.

No. The Devotion Switch is not about manipulation, tricks, or games. It's about understanding how men think about commitment and positioning yourself in a way that makes commitment feel natural and desirable to him instead of forced or scary. Everything you learn feels authentic because it comes from a place of self-respect and boundaries. You're not pretending to be someone you're not. You're showing him your value and requiring him to match your investment.

Q: What if he's just not the committing type? What if he's a real commitment-phobe?

Here's the truth: most men who seem like commitment-phobes would actually commit to the right woman in the right situation. The Devotion Switch includes a section called The Red Flag Detector that teaches you how to tell the difference between a man who will eventually commit and a man who never will. But in most cases, when a man won't commit, it's not because he's incapable of commitment—it's because the dynamic makes commitment optional instead of necessary. Once you shift that dynamic, everything changes.

Q: Do I need any special skills or experience for this to work?

No. The Devotion Switch is a simple, step-by-step framework that anyone can follow. You don't need to be a relationship expert. You don't need to have experience with these strategies. You just need to be willing to try something different from what you've been doing. The framework is clear, the steps are simple, and everything is explained in plain language.

You've made it all the way to the end of this page, which tells me something important about you:

You're serious about changing this pattern. You're tired of the same old story playing out over and over again. You're ready to do something different.

So let me ask you a question:

Where do you want to be six months from now?

Do you want to still be in the same situation you're in right now?

Still wondering if he's ever going to commit? Still trying to prove your worth? Still waiting and hoping and giving everything while getting nothing back?

Still stuck in the Commitment-Optional Position, watching him get everything he wants from you without having to step up?

Or do you want to be in a committed relationship with a man who chose you?

A man who sees your value and fought to keep you in his life. A man who doesn't take you for granted because he knows you're a prize, not a sure thing. A man who's proud to be with you and wants the world to know you're his.

That's the choice you're making right now.

Here's what you've learned today:

You've learned that you have the Non-Committer Magnet pattern—you keep attracting men who won't commit because you're accidentally putting yourself in the Commitment-Optional Position.

You've learned that the common approaches (proving yourself, giving ultimatums, waiting patiently) don't work and actually make things worse.

You've learned that there IS a way to turn this around—by shifting into the Position of Power and using the right triggers to make him want commitment instead of resist it.

The question is: what are you going to do with this information?

You can close this page and hope things magically get better on their own. You can keep doing what you've been doing and hope for different results.

Or you can take action right now and get The Devotion Switch.

On the other side of this decision is the relationship you've been dreaming of.

The relationship where you don't have to wonder where you stand. Where you don't have to chase or convince or prove yourself. Where he's the one pursuing you for commitment because he's terrified of losing you to someone better.

The relationship where you feel valued, chosen, and secure. Where you can finally relax and be yourself because you know he's all in.

That's what's waiting for you. But you have to take the first step.

Get The Devotion Switch today.

Break the Non-Committer Magnet pattern once and for all. Learn how to position yourself so that men pursue you for commitment instead of you chasing them for it. Get the exact words to say, the exact steps to take, and the complete framework that makes everything click into place.

For just $47, with a 100% money-back guarantee, you risk nothing.

The only risk is staying exactly where you are.

Click the button below to get started right now:

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After you click the button, you'll be taken to a secure order form. Enter your details, complete your order, and you'll get access within 10-15 minutes.

Then you can start applying what you learn today and watch as everything shifts.

Don't wait. Don't spend another day stuck in the same pattern.

Get The Devotion Switch now and take back your power.

Talk soon,

Matthew Coast

P.S. Remember: you're not broken. You're not asking for too much. 

There's nothing wrong with you. 

You've just been in the wrong position. 

Once you shift into the Position of Power, everything changes. Get The Devotion Switch now and see for yourself.

After you click the button, you'll be taken to a secure order form. Enter your details, complete your order, and you'll get access within 10-15 minutes.

Then you can start applying what you learn today and watch as everything shifts.

Don't wait. Don't spend another day stuck in the same pattern.

Get The Devotion Switch now and take back your power.

Talk soon,

Matthew Coast

P.S. Remember: you're not broken. You're not asking for too much. 

There's nothing wrong with you. 

You've just been in the wrong position. 

Once you shift into the Position of Power, everything changes. Get The Devotion Switch now and see for yourself.

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