Will You Ever Find the Love You're Looking For?

 

Yesterday, we talked about the #1 Rule For Attracting and Keeping a Man...

Today I'm going to tell you about your biggest obstacle when it comes to finding the love life that you've always wanted.

Here's the deal...

I won't lie to you... you have a lot going against you these days. There's a reason why there's a higher percentage of single women than there has ever been in recorded history right now.

Have you heard of the "Hookup Culture"?

Uncommitted drunken sex-capades are becoming the norm in our society...

It's easier than ever before to cheat on each other without anyone finding out...

The media is pushing sex harder than a used car salesman...

And there's pretty much porn and female objectification everywhere...

But the Hookup Culture isn't the biggest thing between you and the relationship you want... oh no...

 

Your Biggest Obstacle

 

Nope... your biggest obstacle, the BIGGEST thing standing in your way of you and your "happily ever after" isn't the Hookup Culture...

It isn't commitment-phobic men...

And it's not even the really bad dating advice they give out in pop tabloids (although they don't help you any)...

Nope, the biggest thing between you and the relationship you want is...

How You Approach Relationships.

Let me explain...

After working with thousands of women, I’ve determined that there are two types of women out there…

The first type is called “the settler…”

These women believe that a relationship is either perfect or it’s just not meant to be.

They feel like finding the right guy happens through chance or luck.

I call this woman “the settler” because they typically end up settling for a man and relationship they DON’T want…

And pretend like it’s perfect until one day their relationship blows up and falls apart.

The second type of woman is “the creator…”

These women believe that it takes skill and effort to find the right guy and make things work.

And this skill can be developed over time.

Here’s the thing:

If you’re a settler…

If you believe you’ve just had bad luck with men and there’s not much you can do about it, then I have some bad news for you…

Honestly, you should just unsubscribe from this list because there’s not much I can do to help you.

On the other hand, if you’re a creator…

If you believe that you CAN create the relationship you want if you just knew what to do…

Then you’re exactly in the right spot!

For most men, staying in a committed relationship isn’t just about choosing a woman and going along with it…

It’s about a continuing to experience certain emotions that make him feel that he can open up and go deeper into the relationship…

And some women just naturally “get it” and know how to connect with men in this way.

She intuitively knows how to connect to a man in a way that makes him want to pursue her and lead her into a committed relationship.

This is how things SHOULD go.

Yet, as you know, not all women understand how to connect with men in this way. It only works like this if you trigger the right emotions in a man and he continues to experience those emotions into the relationship.

Why Most Women Don't Know This

 

If you don’t understand how to do this, you’re not alone. Most women I meet don’t really get how to do most of this…

Society, our parents, schools, and the media usually send us mixed messages and, many times, they just give us downright false information about how to connect with the opposite sex.

And most women don’t have any role models for how to do it the right way.

So instead of creating a happy, loving, lasting relationship, you may end up feeling frustrated, alone, and angry.

The reality is that ANY woman can learn the skills to connect with men the right way.

And any woman can quickly improve her dating life, or her relationship with that one special man with this specific skill.

How do I know?

Because I’ve literally helped thousands of women do exactly that.

I help women transform their love life… and go from thinking men and relationships are painful to experiencing more love, commitment, and joy than they’ve ever felt in a relationship before.

But in order to do that you have to learn how and why men are attracted to women… what they look for… what makes them want you… and what keeps them wanting you.

And that’s what we’re going to talk about some more tomorrow...

Talk soon,

Matthew Coast

P.S. How do you make sure that you never end up in a “friend with benefits,” casual relationship?

We’ll talk about that in the next email. So look for it!

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