Why Players Settle Down and Get Married

Why Players Settle Down and Get Married

When I was a men’s dating coach, I knew a lot of players.

Some of those guys are still players to this day… but most of them aren’t.

I met a guy once who was probably the biggest player of any of the men I had ever met…

And for years, even when we lived in different cities, he would call me to tell me about all the new girls he was dating.

I never thought in a million years that he’d ever settle down.

Then one day, he called me and what he said was shocking…

“Matt, I have something to tell you. I just got married!”

I was speechless…

It turns out that he met a woman and within a couple weeks he proposed to her and they went out and got married…

And can you believe that he didn’t invite me to the wedding!

To be fair, they didn’t actually have a wedding… but it’s something to give him crap for whenever I talk to him.

It’s been over four years now and they’re still together, still madly in love, and he’s been completely faithful to her.

When I asked him what happened, this is what he said…

“I met her and we talked for a bit and I just knew I didn’t want to meet any other girls ever again. She was the one for me. So I proposed to her over and over again until she agreed.”

And I could tell you countless stories that are very similar to this one… many times it takes a bit longer but the process is almost exactly the same…

When a guy feels like he met the right woman, a switch goes off in his brain…

His desire to commit to her is unlocked and the way he thinks about her is completely different than the way he thinks about other women.

He wants to keep her all to himself, commit to her, and be with her forever.

But he has to FEEL this way about her…

You can’t convince him to feel this way…

You can’t force him to feel this way…

And you can’t push the relationship forward yourself without making him become even more distant and want a commitment even less.

You have to give him the feeling that he’s looking for…

…the feeling that you’re “the one” for him…

…the feeling that you’re a better option for him than staying single and dating other women…

…the feeling that HE needs to take the relationship to the next level so that you don’t end up with some other guy.

Look: I want you to be successful in creating the committed, lasting relationship that you want.

I believe that there’s a better way for men and women to relate to one another.

Relationships that are built around trust and authenticity work better and are longer lasting than ones that aren’t…

But you have to understand how this process works so that you can inspire a man to commit and take your relationship to the next level.

The Truth About Why Men Marry Some Women And Not Others

Have you ever wondered why a man will marry one women yet only want a casual relationship with another?

Have you ever heard a man say that he doesn’t want anything “serious” only to end up in a committed relationship a few weeks later with another woman?

Have you ever felt like you finally found something real with a man… only to have him go cold on you or pull away completely?

The reason this happens maybe be upsetting to you but I promise it’s actually really good news.

Men don’t pull away, disappear, and go cold because they’re bad people…

And they don’t avoid getting into a serious relationship because they’re afraid of commitment.

A man avoids getting into a relationship with a woman because he has doubts that she’s the right woman for him.

He feels like something’s missing…

Like he could probably do better…

If you want a man to feel like you’re the one, there’s one very specific thing that you must do…

Click here to find out what it is <<

After 12 years of working in the dating industry and reaching well over 3 million women, all over the world with my newsletter, interviews, and advice…

I’ve tracked the patterns that women who end up in successful relationships do and here’s what I found…

There’s one key difference between women who end up having a man pursue them for a serious relationship and women who end up single, alone, and frustrated…

Can you guess what it is?

Click here to watch the video and find out <<

 

 

 

 

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Matthew Coast

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