Men love lots of things about women: their smile, bodies, feminine features and grace, their personality, the way they dress, their smell, their hair, and many other things…
As much as these are all great attributes that make you uniquely feminine… there’s one thing that women often overlook and sometimes even fear…
And it’s this very thing that will attract and keep the best men interested.
Men who are ready for love and commitment look for a certain trait in a woman.
Of course not all men are exactly the same, since we all have different personalities and desires. But there’s one specific characteristic that women have in common that gets the relationship ready man hooked.
A man who’s ready to commit to a healthy loving relationship is a man who knows who he is, he’s confident and astute and he’s not scared of his feelings, and these are exactly the character traits he values in a woman.
So, no matter how different a man’s taste in women is compared to another, and no matter if he’s English, Irish, American, Australian, Canadian, German or Chinese – they all love…
… A SASSY WOMAN!
A man who’s insecure, controlling, unsure of himself, narcissistic and lacks self-worth may be scared of women like this. That’s okay. Because the type of man who’s ready to hold you and stand by you through thick and thin will absolutely love it.
So why do the best men love sassy women?
Because a healthy man loves a woman who makes him a better man. A healthy man respects a woman who has healthy boundaries. A healthy man will find your confidence and clarity a turn-on.
He will go crazy for this side of you.
But here’s the bad news, which is actually not news at all: a lot of women are afraid of letting their sassy side shine through.
Insecurity is one major reason for this fear. Another is the fear of being “too much” or being difficult, or they pay too much attention to the outside, to their appearance.
Now, overcoming your insecurities takes time but it’s time well spent. Just remember you are attractive just the way you are. You are smart, beautiful and you deserve the best man. Believe it because it’s the truth.
How about paying too much attention to appearances?
That’s a very common mistake because we all naturally want to look our best for our current or future partner, right? Yet, this perfect appearance we spend so much time and efforts pursuing, is not the most important thing. What’s underneath this appearance is what really matters.
Why? Because the glossy, perfect-looking girls are not taken seriously unless there is some substance under the so-called “perfect look.”
Many of my coaching clients are models or former models who couldn’t keep a guy around, regardless of how pretty they are.
The problem is that we often mask our insecurities by trying to look perfect. We forget that the source of sexiness is inside us, not in the makeup kit or the closet. Your personality and your sassy and savvy character traits are what make you irresistible to men.
So how do you cultivate your sassiness? How do you shake off this wrong assumption that looking impeccably sexy is the same as being sassy? I’ll start by telling you what sassiness is and isn’t.
1. Sassiness Come From Your Heart
The sassy woman is fearless and stands tall. She is grounded and heart felt. She may be small in stature or tall, either way, she is noticed by all. She has spunk and a passionate edge.
2. Sassy Women Attract Some Men And Repel Others
A sassy woman attracts men like honey to a bee. Yet she can also repel men just as fast.
It’s not because they don’t like the sassiness, in fact it’s quite the opposite. A sassy woman will rattle the core of a man and only the best men are ready for her. At times she will feel confused and wonder what happened, why did he disappear?
Well, what happened is that she scared off some insecure guy that wasn’t ready for her. She needs to remain strong and sure of herself because the men left standing are just as amazing as she is.
3. Sassy Women Are Beautifully Bold
A sassy woman is direct without being aggressive or demanding. She is not bitchy, though she will at times tell you how she sees something, even when it may be hard to hear.
She will be tasteful in her approach and tactful when needed. Personality alone does not define sassiness though.
You might be somewhat introverted. Or maybe you’re an outgoing social butterfly. Neither of these determine your sassiness.
Your authenticity and delivery does. Bitchy women are not sassy, they are mean and largely insecure. You can be cheeky and witty, just do it in an empowering way – this is sassy.
Now, here are some tips to cultivate this important quality. It’s not hard and it’s GOOD for you!
1. Leave Your Past Behind You
Dwelling on past mistakes in any parts of your romantic or regular life will hold you back, fuel your insecurities, and take away from your core essence.
You can’t let your sassiness bloom when you allow the past to eat away at you, when you doubt yourself, or when you don’t believe that you deserve a loving and connected relationship.
A sassy woman doesn’t settle for mediocre. Nor does she give into unhealthy ways of thinking or let her past define her.
When you make peace with your past and realize that you too are deserving of the best that life can give you, you’ll unlock your sassiness and you’ll be able to dance and play with life.
The most successful people make more mistakes than unsuccessful people… they just keep going until they succeed.
2. Love And Celebrate Your Body
Feeling comfortable in your own body is a major feature of the sassy woman. I’m sure you’ve seen such women who, regardless of their size or shape, just radiate happiness and the feeling that they are comfortable just as they are.
These women are sexy, if you haven’t noticed. A sassy woman embraces her full self and also looks after it – she treats her body with love and kindness and a good dose of appreciation and honesty.
3. Honor And Take Care of Yourself
It all boils down to this, after all. Look after your body and your mind alike. Stay healthy, pamper yourself every once in a while, take care of your body, and wear clothes that fit you and your body.
Try to keep your stress levels manageable, don’t overdo the care-taking, and try not to worry so much. And smile, smile, smile, any chance you get. A smiling woman is a sassy woman.
A sassy woman does not entertain men who are not good for her – she knows what she values and lives by these values. A sassy woman doesn’t go against herself – she honors herself.
After reading the above points, can you see the magnetic attributes of the sassy woman?
A man who truly wants a partner in life yearns for a woman who has a lovely mix of warmth and gentleness, matched with a good sprinkle of authenticity and edge. He wants a life companion, a woman who he can grow and evolve with, not a wallflower or a damsel in distress.
Be sassy and delighted with yourself, and you won’t believe how easy it will become to attract the right kind of man.
Allow me to let you in on a little secret: there are four traits that keep the best men interested.
Sassiness is just one of them – do you want to know the other three?
Watch this video by my friend and dating expert Nadine Piet to find out what they are…
P.S. Nadine will share with you the most POTENT love technique that will make your man (or the man you want) so smitten and mesmerized by you… so much so, that he will bend over backwards to keep you happy and satisfied, in every way, so that he NEVER loses you!
It’s called “The Emotional Barrier Eliminator” and Nadine teaches you EXACTLY what you need to know that will dissolve the toughest barriers and melt the hearts of the best men (and the difficult ones) and have them craving you, and only you!