If you want to attract a man into a committed, lasting relationship then you need to understand what attracts men to women.
First, I want to tell you what does NOT attract men to women because I meet a lot of women who don’t understand this and I want to make sure this is clear to you.
4 Traits That Do NOT Attract Men to Women
Now you need to understand that when I say these things are NOT attractive, I’m not saying that they are unattractive… like they will push men away (although some of them do).
What I’m saying is that men won’t be attracted to you for these reasons.
1. Men Are NOT Attracted to Masculine Women
Being a masculine woman is not attractive to men. This could actually push a guy away but there’s absolutely nothing attractive about being a masculine woman.
If you’re not sure what a masculine or feminine woman is I have other resources on this site that will help you out with that.
2. Men Are NOT Attracted to Strong, Independent Women
You can be an attractive strong, independent woman and you can be an unattractive strong, independent woman.
Being a strong, independent woman has nothing to do with your attractiveness.
So if you’re trying to be attractive to men by being a strong, independent woman, just realize that men aren’t attracted to that.
3. Men Are NOT Attracted to Women Who Think Men Are the Problem
I run into women all the time who tell me that I should be coaching and working with men because “men are the problem.”
Let me share some news with you…
We’re ALL the problem.
And blaming men for YOUR relationship problems is NOT attractive to men.
4. Men Are NOT Attracted to Women Who Want to Change or “Fix” Them
You want to find a man who accepts you and loves you for who you are.
Well, guess what? Men want the same thing.
Men want to find women who accepts them and loves them for who they are.
A lot of women are so focused on falling in love with a man’s potential and not actually falling in love with who they are as men and it’s incredibly unattractive.
Enough on the negative, let’s talk about…
What Does Attract Men to Women?
1. Men Are Attracted to Feminine Energy
It’s so attractive that it’s almost magical to most men.
2. Men Are Attracted to Youthfulness
A lot of women think men just like the youngest, prettiest girl they can find… and there is some truth to that.
But what men really like are women who are playful and young at heart…
Women who are alive, filled with energy, and emotion. THAT is very attractive to men.
3. Men Are Attracted to Valuable Women
A woman who is valuable to him and his life is incredibly attractive to any man.
Value can take the form of many things like support, positive emotions, admiration, companionship and many other things.
The more value that you can bring to a man’s life, the more attracted he will be to you.
4. Men Are Attracted to Women Who Connect With Their Hearts
Men tend to pride themselves on being more logical. So one of the things that’s mysterious and attractive about women are their connections to their emotions.
There’s a misconception out there that men think that emotions are drama. Men don’t think emotions are drama.
Men think that emotions tied to expectations about what he should think, how he should act, and what he should say are drama.
If you place expectations around him and your emotions, that gets unattractive really quickly.
But connecting to his heart through your emotions, that’s incredibly attractive to men and is one of the keys to making a man fall deeply in love with you.
Why Haven’t You Attracted Mr. Right into the Relationship You Want Already?
Before I coached women, I was a men’s dating coach. I worked with tens of thousands of men in helping them attract and get into relationships with women.
I learned what men want, what attracts them to women, and most importantly, what makes them choose one woman over another for a committed, lasting relationship.
If you’re struggling to attract Mr. Right into a committed, lasting relationship, go take my quiz right now.
It’s free and you’ll discover the biggest barrier that’s stopping you from attracting the man and the relationship that you’ve always wanted.
If you want a man to commit himself to you then you need to communicate to him that you’re “the one” for him.
Stop giving everything to a relationship only to be taken for granted…
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