Ask a man what he wants in a woman and you’ll probably get a blank stare…
That or he’ll ramble off a bunch of things that he THINKS he wants in a woman but you’ll probably see him dating or even marrying someone who is completely different.
Because most men don’t have any idea what their hearts truly desire… but they’ll know it when they see it.
If you want to get into a committed relationship that lasts, you need to understand what men really want in their hearts.
After working with thousands of both men and women, I’ve discovered what works with men when it comes to why they get into committed, lasting relationships with women.
Here are five of those things:
1. He Wants a Woman Who Can Fit Into His Life
If you want a man to see you as someone he can be with in the far distant future, you need to fit into his life somehow.
You don’t have to share commonalities with him.
You don’t have to give up your life for his.
He just needs to see the two of you together in the far distant future. He needs to see that you are someone he could be with on his journey towards whatever it is that he’s moving towards in his life.
If he doesn’t see himself being with you in the far distant future, he’ll probably only see you as something short term.
2. He Wants a Woman Who He Can Feel Good Around
According to the Relationship Research Institute, your relationship has an extremely high chance of falling apart if your partner experiences too many negative experiences when he’s around you.
Arguing, fighting all the time, or smothering him can destroy your relationship in a very short period of time.
On the other hand, if he experiences lots of positive emotions around you, he’ll eventually begin to feel like you’re the perfect woman for him.
3. He Wants a Woman Who Loves Him For Who He Is
We all want to be loved and accepted for who we are. Yet, I receive emails from women all the time in our community who say they’re with a man who would be perfect IF he’d just change a few things about himself.
Men don’t want you to fall in love with their potential… they want you to fall in love with who they are.
And if you can’t love and accept a man for who he is right now, you’re better off going out and finding a new man who you can accept and love for who he is.
4. He Wants a Woman Who Has Her Own Life
I’ve probably talked to hundreds of men by now about what they are looking for in a woman.
Out of all the men I’ve talked to, I’ve NEVER talked to a guy who said that he wants a woman who is obsessively thinking about him all the time because she has nothing else to do with her life.
Pursue your own passions, create your own life, and make sure you keep this life once you get into a relationship. You’ll be happier, he’ll be happier, and you’re much more likely to create something that lasts.
5. He Wants a Woman Who Connects With His Heart
If you are struggling with getting a man to see you as something more than just a short-term, casual fling, then you need to learn how to connect with his heart.
This is what will make the biggest difference between you and all the other women he meets out there.
There are plenty of attractive women out there. But very few women know how to connect with a man on a deep emotional level.
If you can be the woman who connects with him in this way, he’ll immediately see you as someone he could potentially be with always.
But even if he feels this deeply about you, you could still mess things up with him…
You May Be Pushing Him Away And You Don’t Even Know You’re Doing It
A lot of women are pushing men away from them and they don’t even know that they’re doing it.
If you’re struggling to keep a man in a committed, lasting relationship, you need to do more of the things that make him want to stay with you and less of the things that push him away and show him that you’re not the one for him.
After working with thousands of women in helping them get into committed relationships that lead to marriage, I’ve found that there are really only 5 distinct blocks that stop a woman from attracting the man and the relationship they want.
If you want to find out what stopping you from having the man and the relationship you want, I suggest you take my quiz.
It’s free and you’ll learn what your biggest block is to having the relationship that you’ve always wanted. I’ll also reveal to you exactly what you need to do in order to get over that block.
It doesn’t matter how awesome you are, if you don’t connect with a man in the right way, he won’t see you as that awesome and amazing woman that he could be with in the far distant future.
If you’re ready for the right man to see you as “the one” click here to go take my quiz right now.
Stop giving everything to a man only for him to take you for granted.
Don’t you think it’s about time you had a man who gives you the love, attention, and respect that you deserve?
Disclaimer: Results will vary, and you should not use this information as a substitute for help from a licensed professional. Good luck!