Even though he’s dying to read this article, he would never let you catch him doing it. And he certainly won’t admit to wanting to know if his deep, dark secrets are hanging out like underwear on a clothesline.
He will never tell you any of this… but I will.
Before we start, I have two warnings for you…
First, this isn’t a complete list. But these are the two biggest ones. (I’ll write more articles on other ones later…)
Second, I’m not telling you so you can shame him. I’m doing this so you can help him and be closer to him.
But you have to be sneaky, so that he doesn’t know. Be nice to your man – he worships the ground you walk on, and believe me, he knows a few of your dirty little secrets, too.
On to the good part, shall we?
GUY FEAR #1: My sexual desires are NOT okay
You know that whole thing about how guys want way more sex than women do? It’s not true. Many women want it way more than a lot of guys do, we just want it under different terms.
He just… wants it. Every possible way he can imagine it.
With your sister, your mom, the librarian (definitely the librarian), the teenager snapping her gum behind the cash register.
Think I’m joking? He’s even had a dirty fantasy about that weird shopping cart lady.
Sex movies of every description (multiple lovers, bondage, fetish, you name it) run in his brain nearly all the time, and sometimes what’s showing on the screen shocks even him.
Deep down, he’s terrified that he wants sex too much, or in the wrong ways, with the wrong people.
His sex drive is a formidable machine, and it’s a testament to his power that he doesn’t let it drive his life, only his brain.
Here’s What YOU Can Do to Help
If you want him to feel less afraid about his sexual desires, you need to create an atmosphere of openness in your intimate life with him…
Now, let’s be clear… I’m not saying you have to DO everything that he THINKS about. But you do have to be willing to ask him to talk about his fantasies and avoid shaming, attacking, or disrespecting him because of them.
Instead, try inviting him to give you steamy details. Just the act of sharing can be a tremendous gift of sexual energy between the two of you.
This will help him learn to make YOU the star of his sexual fantasies instead of some generic woman he thinks up in his mind, even if all you do is tell him a dirty story during foreplay.
And finally, remember to let him know that you’re sexually satisfied! If you can do this, he’s going to become so riveted by you he’ll never want to let you go.
EVERY man wants to know he can sexually satisfy a woman.
GUY FEAR #2: Other Men Think I’m Weak
You’ve gotta have some compassion for the expectations place on men…
They’re expected to get a respectable paycheck, make women feel secure, (not think about sex so much), beat out the other guys, support the winning team, be tough, overcome all the obstacles in their way, scare away the bad guys, and never show fatigue, fear, or ANYthing except sheer strength and confidence.
Let’s be honest, it’s a lot to live up to.
Actually, it’s pretty much impossible to live up to.
And yet that’s the challenge they hear every single day. And if they don’t answer it – actually DOMINATE it – their fear is that they will be publicly shamed, humiliated, despised…
Not so much by you or by other women (although they hate the idea of that, too), but by other MEN.
But that doesn’t mean YOU don’t have power. Every man wants a woman who is unreservedly, whole-heartedly ON HIS SIDE. Your support actually adds to his power in the world of other men.
Here’s How You Can Help…
I have a question for you: if he’s fighting his way through the field of his life, do you ever even show up to support him? And if you do, can he hear your enthusiastic, genuine support?
I’m not saying you have to actually get out your cheerleader skirt and shimmy and shout (although he’ll probably appreciate that, see #1 above!), but there IS a way to let him know you’re seeing how hard he works, and you want him to win.
Encourage him to tell you about his daily battles. Lean in and attentively soak up every bit.
Ask for details. Don’t multitask while you’re doing this; give him your full focus. Be his raving fan.
And offer him your sincere admiration. Let him know how strong you find him, how amazing his accomplishments and abilities are. If you can make him feel like you believe in him and are on his side no matter what, you are going to ADDICT him to you.
3 Steps to Make a Man Love You
If you’re sick of “Bad Boys,” “Players” and guys who just won’t commit, you need to go watch this new video renowned relationship expert Michael Fiore put up. It’s called “3 Steps To Make A Man Love You” and it teaches you how to make a man not just “fall” for a you…
But to actually make him obsessed with you so HE decides he WANTS to be serious…
Michael lays out the absolute truth about what men really want and need from a woman for them to be able to give EVERYTHING to her…
(In fact, he flat out tells you how his girlfriend Captured His Heart and made him fall for her HARD even though he was “playing the field” and thought he’d never settle down.)
P.S. You may have heard of Mike Fiore as “the guy who made Rachel Ray tingle.” Yep, and when he was on her show, he had written several books (mostly for guys like himself) on how to get more women.
These days things are a little different for this former “player”… Now all that delicious woman-tingling action goes to ONE special lady.
And now you can find out exactly how to command the complete devotion of a man of your own…
Go watch the video now!