Should You Get Back Together With Your Ex? Here’s How to Know…

Should You Get Back Together With Your Ex? Here’s How to Know…

If you’re looking to get your ex back and you’re tired of begging, calling him a million times, and faking like you’re a completely changed person, then here’s what you need to know first…

I’ve had numerous women email me asking me to help them get their ex’s back. My answer in the past has always been…

“Leave your ex alone and start over with a new, quality man!”

I’ve found that most women jump too quickly into relationships. They feel chemistry and dive in head first without looking to see how deep the water is.

These women don’t really want their ex’s back, they wanted to feel love and companionship like they once felt in their relationship… with or without their ex.

There’s nothing worse then seeing a couple go through the pain of getting back together and then breaking up over and over again because they’re trying to fit a square peg in a round hole… you know, two people who shouldn’t be with each other, trying to make it work.

That’s just painful for everyone involved, including the people watching it.

And then one day I got an email that completely changed my mind. As I read her email, telling me about the situation she was in, I just couldn’t help but feel compassion for her…

Her situation was different than what I had heard before…

She wasn’t just someone looking to get back at her ex…

She didn’t want to get back with him to make herself feel better…

She wasn’t just looking to boost her ego…

She wasn’t trying to get back with him simply to rid herself of the emotional pains of a breakup…

Her situation was much more than that.

She Came From a Healthy Relationship That Just Had Problems

She still really loved this man. And she believed that the problems they have could be solved. They could be overcome.

She had a child with him and she feared for how her son was going to be raised without a father in his life…

Without the love and support that a man can bring to a family…

Without a male role model for her son who could teach him the essential things that would allow him to grow up to be a well-adjusted man.

Coming from a broken home myself and not having a father figure around for a good portion of my childhood, I could relate to her concerns.

Just imagine how much of a difference it would make if couples with children could not only repair their relationships but actually create a foundation so that they could give their child a positive environment to be raised in.

And like I said, she was convinced the problems that her and her ex faced could be fixed. She just needed some guidance.

So I started thinking…

“Who am I to say that EVERYONE should move on?”

There are certainly relationships that would be better repaired than walked away from.

And I wanted the woman who sent me that email to have a choice. I wanted to give her something that would make a real difference in her life and the life of her son.

If you want your ex back, I’d rather you get the tools from a credible, authentic source than letting you get it from someone out there who doesn’t really care whether it works or not.

I’ve been teaching in the dating industry for over a decade… And I’ve seen just about everything.

I know what kind of damage the wrong advice can do to your relationship. And I know how healing and beneficial the right information can be.

Here’s the deal: If you want to get back with your ex, make sure you know what you’re getting yourself back into…

Don’t do it because you want to make yourself feel worthy or desirable…

There are better ways of doing that.

Don’t do it to get back at him…

Don’t do it because you’re lonely…

Don’t get back into an abusive situation…

Only get back together with him if you know that the two of you are right for each other and you’re certain that whatever problems you had can be worked out.

If your intent comes from a space of love, I will gladly share what I know with you.

Does He Not Want You Or Does He Not Want This…?

If you’ve tried getting back together with your ex, you know that it can seem impossible… but here’s the thing…

I’ve been coaching in the dating industry for over 12 years and I’ve seen literally hundreds of people break up and get back together.

And whenever a woman gets back together with her ex, it’s because she’s realized one very specific thing…

Here it is:

It’s not about HER.

You see, guys rarely break up with a woman because they don’t like the woman (even if that’s what he says in the heat of the moment).

Most of these guys happily jump back into a SEXUAL relationship with that woman.

If it was about the woman, this would NEVER happen.

Instead, it’s about something much more important to him…

And if you fix this one thing, you can make him putty in your hands and get him pursuing you for a REAL relationship again.

If you want to know what that one thing is, I created a video for you to help explain it…

Click here to watch the video <<

Getting back together with a man isn’t complicated as long as you understand what’s REALLY going on.

If you make it about you, you’ll just drive him away even further.

But if you understand what the real problem is, you can have him back before you know it…

Click here to watch the video <<

 

 

 

 

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Matthew Coast

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