i am seeing this guy at work now almost a year we are working on one shift ,,so im looking at him everyday nobody no about us or alse they suspect us,,i reasontey fond out that he is married,,and on top of that he is dating a manager at work who is also seporated with her husbamd,,and i think she knows about us because she has a attertude towords me,,im not seeing him at this moment but we date annd brake up and it goes on like this for almost a year,,,Matthew any advice for me?

Relationship Questions and Advicei am seeing this guy at work now almost a year we are working on one shift ,,so im looking at him everyday nobody no about us or alse they suspect us,,i reasontey fond out that he is married,,and on top of that he is dating a manager at work who is also seporated with her husbamd,,and i think she knows about us because she has a attertude towords me,,im not seeing him at this moment but we date annd brake up and it goes on like this for almost a year,,,Matthew any advice for me?
Anonymous asked 2 years ago

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Matthew Coast answered 2 years ago

Hi,
 
Thanks for the question. Do I have advice for you? Yes. Here it is:
 
Stop seeing this guy. He’s married and dating someone else from work. Go find a guy who is single and available and doesn’t work with you.
 
Unless you just want him as a casual sex buddy, he’s never going to give you anything long term. Dating a guy like this is only going to lead to your heartbreak and long-term dissatisfaction with men.
 
Also, dating people at work is almost always a bad idea… for exactly the reason that if you break up with them you’re still going to see them all the time. Unless you just want something casual, go find someone else.
 
In fact, even if you do want something casual, still go find someone else. This guy isn’t good for you and the last thing you need is some crazy wife hunting you down or drama from the other woman who works with you.