How to make him to be more open and tell what he likes and what he wants out of the relationship? How to know if he is serious or not, we haven’t met yet, as I am not divorced yet. He say a lot that he loves me and we have conversations online almost every day. I think I know him, but he wants to keep it a secret for sometime. I feel he wants it to be a surprise for me when I get a divorce and he likes me a lot and can’t wait to know me more, that’s why he does it online and also his position is higher. I have no job and poor and he has a very good job and rich. He never shows it and treats me well.