how do i get my boyfriend to commit? he dont want to tell his 21 year old daughter that he is with me because she has been through a lot and is still staying with him. her mother is also staying in the house and he swear him and the mother is not intimate and not together. the prove i have is when we have sex that i am the only partner. i want him to commit and tell his daughter so that we can show off in the public we do go out often but its almost 5 months now and the child still dont know that he is with me only that him and her mother are not together anymore.

Relationship Questions and AdviceCategory: Commitmenthow do i get my boyfriend to commit? he dont want to tell his 21 year old daughter that he is with me because she has been through a lot and is still staying with him. her mother is also staying in the house and he swear him and the mother is not intimate and not together. the prove i have is when we have sex that i am the only partner. i want him to commit and tell his daughter so that we can show off in the public we do go out often but its almost 5 months now and the child still dont know that he is with me only that him and her mother are not together anymore.
Anonymous asked 2 years ago
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Matthew Coast answered 2 years ago

Hi, thanks for the question. Unfortunately, all I have to give you is a wake up call. He’s not telling his daughter about you because he doesn’t want to tell his daughter about you.
 
You’re five months into a relationship. You need to stop letting him treat you like a secret affair that he’s having and have enough respect for yourself to get out of that situation unless he’s willing to treat you like he wants to show the people in his life that the two of you are seeing each other.
 
It sounds to me like you’re getting played. You definitely in a situation where you aren’t really getting what you want and the man you’re with is either lying to you or he simply doesn’t think highly enough of you to tell the other people in his life that he’s seeing you.
 
Either way, I suggest you go find yourself a new man who wants to treat you with respect.